Second meetup

[curiousguy80]

So envious of you congratulations! I bet you can’t wait to see him again

Things went well the 2nd time, I feel each meetup going fwd will be less awkward and with less nerves to meetup. Just not sure when he'll be here next, or when I'll be able to make my way to his state.

I do have a more local person I met here on lit years ago, we still chat often. He's up to date with my 2 meetups, and is eager to meet with me as well, however getting our calendars to match up is difficult.

 

[mtsnowrider]

Things went well the 2nd time, I feel each meetup going fwd will be less awkward and with less nerves to meetup. Just not sure when he'll be here next, or when I'll be able to make my way to his state.

I do have a more local person I met here on lit years ago, we still chat often. He's up to date with my 2 meetups, and is eager to meet with me as well, however getting our calendars to match up is difficult.

Good luck. Obviously more local would be ideal if it works out

 

[Uncut1969]

Things went well the 2nd time, I feel each meetup going fwd will be less awkward and with less nerves to meetup. Just not sure when he'll be here next, or when I'll be able to make my way to his state.

I do have a more local person I met here on lit years ago, we still chat often. He's up to date with my 2 meetups, and is eager to meet with me as well, however getting our calendars to match up is difficult.

good luck hopefully it will work out for you

 

[dingdongditchding]

Back in January (2025), after years of being curious, I was able to push past the nerves and met a business traveler at a hotel local to me, and was able to briefly give him oral. I remember it being awkward at first when he opened the door. He was the first person I had met in real life who had similar bi thoughts that I have. Before him, I had never seen another cock, other than my own, in real life.

As I took him in my mouth and felt him come fully erect, I remember liking the feeling of having a cock in my mouth. My only regret is it didn't last long, I needed to get home asap.

Fast forward almost an entire year, and he'll be back in town next week. We've stayed in touch the entire time. In fact, he was here a few months ago, but I could not break away from my home life to meet with him.

Problem is, I'm feeling the same nerves I did the first time I met him in person. After the first encounter, I would've met him the next night if he was in town. I had zero reservations. I couldn't wait to feel him in my mouth again. Now, I'm afraid I may back out, like I've done countless times in my journey.

Anyone else go through similar for their 2nd time? I thought once I got the 1st experience behind me, it would be easier. Especially since it's with the same guy who I met and gave head to just a few short months ago. I know I need to push past the nerves again like I did back in Jan, and that I'll enjoy it once I have his cock in my mouth again. As the day approaches, my anxiety builds.

just had my 2nd with the same guy and I was nervous too, we had a great time.

 

[curiousguy80]

just had my 2nd with the same guy and I was nervous too, we had a great time.

Nice! Did you try anything new during your 2nd time?

 

[dingdongditchding]

yes, cum in mouth this time

 

[dingdongditchding]

You are so very fortunate that you have come up with this arrangement. I'm still trying to figure out the logistics of how I can suck my first cock without my wife finding out and I'm in my 50's.

Did you manage to get him to cum in your mouth the first time if that was your goal? Time after time I read personal accounts that once that happens you're addicted to it, and deep down that is also what I fear - developing a thirst for the cum of other cocks after experiencing it for myself the first time and never getting to quench it again.

Be brave. You can do this. Don't allow yourself to have regrets later on about what could have been. I have a few of those of my own and I could kick myself for not taking advantage of the opportunities.

addiction, well you (me) had the desire beforehand and when I first tasted another mans load right from his cock I realized I DO LOVE this fantasy, now real action. I am still new to COCK, I want more. I also want to be careful so it takes time to meet a man for fun. I live alone so I can host!!!