Jadegreendragon
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Hello All,
I have been trying to land a job as a writer for a Local Australian magazine. The topics suggest to me to investigate were mostly a bore except for Sex in the New Millennium. I am hoping if I can get enough results to use this survey’s results along with an article I am writing and to get them published in a number of adult publications. Please note that all answers are completely confidential as per usual. No names, email addresses etc will ever be used!
You will find some questions may repeat in different sections but please read all questions carefully and answer fully. In the case of YES and NO answers, please also include comments such as you enjoy it, do rarely or frequently etc.
For those of you currently single like myself (I totally sympathise), please answer questions as you would have in a previous relationship or in one you look forward too having. For further clarification please do not hesitate to email me.
With your co-operation we will be able to give you accurate and comprehensive results of this survey. I know it’s long but it could not be helped.
Please feel free to distribute this to any and all of your friends as we would like to get as many people taking part in this study as possible. Please remember that the content is Adults only, no minors! Just ensure that all results are forwarded to me.
Please copy and paste this into an email as send to jadegreendragon70@yahoo.com.au
I will post results of the survey here as soon as it is compiled.
Yours Always
Jade Green Dragon (jadegreendragon70@yahoo.com.au)
Scientific Sex Survey 2004
Demographic
Age:
Sex:
Status:
Location:
Anal sex
Why do you think most men find giving anal sex so pleasurable?
Have you ever gone from anal to vaginal penetration without washing the penetrating object (penis, finger, dildo, vibrator etc.)?
Do you enjoy stimulating your partner's anus with your tongue?
Have you ever used anal beads?
Does it turn you on to have your anal region stimulated?
How do you feel about stimulating/penetrating your partner's anus with a finger?
What aspect of anal sex do you (or would you) like the most?
Have you ever engaged in anal sex?
Oral sex
Have you ever performed oral sex on your partner while s/he was driving?
Have you ever received oral sex from someone with a pierced tongue?
Does the taste of your partner's ejaculate or secretions change?
Have you ever poured anything (i.e., champagne) in your/your partner's vagina to drink out?
Women: Do you caress your partner's testicles while performing oral sex?
Men: Do you like it when a partner caresses your testicles during oral sex?
Have you ever sucked on a mint before giving oral sex to increase the sensation for your partner?
Would you like your partner to start performing oral sex on you while you slept?
Do you like the taste of semen/vaginal excretions (assuming that your partner's genitals are sparkling clean)?
How confident are you with your oral sex skills?
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how do you feel about kissing him/her on the lips?
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how much eye contact do you like?
Which 'ejaculate management strategy' to you prefer?
Would you perform oral sex on your partner after vaginal penetration?
How old were you when you first engaged in oral sex?
Do you swallow your partner's ejaculate/vaginal excretions?
In your opinion, does oral sex (pure, without any penetration) constitute infidelity?
In your view, which has more significance, oral sex or intercourse with penetration?
What excites you the MOST about performing oral sex on your partner?
When receiving oral sex, do you feel the need to reciprocate?
Do you enjoy giving cunnilingus/fellatio (oral sex)?
How does the smell of your partner's genitals affect your desire to give oral sex?
Do you enjoy receiving cunnilingus (oral sex)?
Turn-Ons and Turn-Offs
Which sense, with the exception of touch, plays the largest role in your pleasure during sex?
How do you feel about naughty, dirty talk during sex?
Do you find it sexy to have your toes sucked on or to suck on your partner's toes?
Women: How do you feel about hairy chests?
Men: How do you feel about a woman who doesn't shave her armpits/legs?
What body type turns you on most?
Have you ever tried the technique of dripping melted wax on your partner?
Have you ever had sex without kissing the other person on the lips?
Do you have passionate make-up sex after a fight with your partner?
Do you like watching the penis enter the vagina?
How do you feel about spanking during sex?
Would you like it if your partner tied up your hands (with a scarf, handcuffs, rope, etc.) during sex?
Do you like being bitten during sex?
Other than your genitals, what is the most sensitive erogenous zone on your body?
What kind of hair do you find the sexiest?
Have you or partner ever been blindfolded during a sexual encounter?
Has urination ever been played a role in your sexual encounters?
Would watching another couple having sex turn you on?
What kind of music gets you most in the mood for sex?
Would you like to have erotic pictures of your partner?
What is your favourite way for your partner to verbally express his/her pleasure during sex?
When you are aroused, do you like to have your nipples stimulated?
Does receiving an enema turn you on?
If you were provided with the perfect opportunity, would you have sex with an attractive member of the same sex?
How would you feel if one night your partner lay back during sex and asked you to do all the work?
Would you be turned on if your partner had his/her genitals pierced?
Does the idea of having sex with a virgin turn you on?
Do you like it when your partner nibbles on, licks, and kisses your ears?
Does it turn you on to see two women fooling around?
How much of a turn-on is online porn for you?
If you were to choose between the following erotic activities with your partner (as an appetizer), which one would you pick?
A. Discussing sexual fantasies
B. Watching a hard-core porn movie
C. Reading a steamy story
D. Reading through a sex manual
E. None of the above
Have you ever put on a strip show for your partner?
Would you like it if your partner stripped for you - with all the hoopla?
Which body part do you like your partner to concentrate on during foreplay?
Have you ever shaved all of your pubic hair?
Have you found your (partner's) G-spot?
Have you ever tried B/D (bondage and discipline)?
Does it turn you on when your partner makes noises (groans, moans, grunts, snorts) while having sex?
How do you feel about having sex in a public place?
Would it turn you on if your partner shaved his/her pubic hair?
How do you feel about inserting objects or sex toys (other than penis) into the vagina?
All About Orgasm
Have you ever engaged in partial asphyxiation to achieve a stronger orgasm?
Have you ever seen little lights in your head during an orgasm?
Women: Has your partner ever ejaculated in your face?
Men: Have you ever ejaculated in your partner's face?
Do you ever feel you MUST have an orgasm or you will not be able to concentrate on anything else?
Women: Do you 'ejaculate' when you orgasm?
Men: Have you ever been with a woman who 'ejaculated' when she had an orgasm?
Have you ever had an orgasm from phone sex or cyber-sex?
Which sexual activity (of the ones you have tried) is most likely to bring your to orgasm the fastest?
Do you think about other things (work, sports, etc.) to hold back from having an orgasm too quickly?
Have you are your partner ever made a 'pearl necklace' (ejaculated around the neck)?
How often would you say that you reach orgasm TOO quickly?
Do you have orgasms during erotic dreams?
Have you ever had "blue balls" (or, for women, a painful feeling in the abdomen) from coming close to orgasm but not actually making it?
Have you ever used drugs (poppers, snappers, nitrous oxide) to heighten your orgasms?
Have you ever burst out crying during or just after an orgasm?
Women: Has a partner ever reached orgasm by rubbing between your breasts?
Men: Have you ever reached orgasm by rubbing your penis between a partner's breasts?
Have you ever reached orgasm without actually being touched/touching yourself?
Have you ever cracked up laughing during or just after an orgasm?
Have you ever had an orgasm from using exercise equipment?
Did you have an orgasm the first time you had sexual intercourse?
Do you like your partner to watch your face while you reach orgasm?
Who in your couple usually reaches orgasm first?
When having sex, who gives your orgasm the 'finishing touch'?
In which sexual positions do you most easily reach orgasm?
Women: Did you ever fake an orgasm?
Men: How much time after an orgasm does it take before you can have another erection?
During a sexual intercourse, how much time does it usually take you to reach orgasm?
Our Fears and Concerns
Has anybody ever walked in on you while you were in the middle of having sex?
Have you ever had a condom break?
Has anyone ever told you that you were not very good in bed?
Have you ever been diagnosed with an STD?
Do you worry about getting pregnant each time you have sex?
Which of the following, in the middle of heated sex, would upset you the most?
A If my partner said another person's name.
B. If my partner made a negative comment about my body (your belly is flabby, for example).
C. If my partner stopped suddenly, sighed, and rolled over.
D. If my partner whispered very crude, shocking things in my ear.
E. If my partner starting giving me not-so-subtle orders on what to do next
How would you react if your partner confessed that he or she was bisexual?
What is your greatest fear about having sex?
How long could you go without having sex with your partner before you start feeling that there is a major problem in your relationship?
Is it more difficult for you to reach an orgasm when having sex with a woman with a wide vagina? / A man with a small penis?
Would it bother you if your partner had sexual fantasies about another wo/man?
Do you think it is unmanly to enjoy anal stimulation?
Men: Does the size of your partner's breasts matter to you?
Women: Are you happy with the size and shape of your breasts?
Women: Does the size of your partner's penis matter to you?
Men: Are you happy with the size and shape of your penis?
What is your biggest concern when you are naked in front of your partner?
Safe Sex and Contraception
Do you and your partner ever use novelty condoms - i.e. French ticklers, flavoured, etc?
With how many partners have you had unprotected sexual intercourse (no condom)?
For the most part, what type of contraception do you use in your couple?
Have you ever been tested for HIV?
Does using a condom during sexual intercourse detract from your pleasurable sensations?
When did you discuss the subject of contraception/protection with your current (last) partner?
Typically, who brings up the subject of contraception in your couple?
In the last 10 years, have you had unprotected sex with a stranger or someone you knew for less than a month?
In your opinion, how many sex partners should one have before marriage or committing to a long-term relationship?
Sexual Fantasies
Do you ever fantasize about your best friend?
Have you ever seduced someone by confessing that you had a fantasy about him/her?
If you could choose one of the following people for a one-nighter that no one would know about, whom would you choose?
Women: Russell Crowe, Ricky Martin, Robert Downey Jr, Jude Law, Sean Connery, and Marilyn Manson
Men: Angelina Jolie, Meg Ryan, Pamela Anderson, Winona Rider, Madonna, and Courtney Love
Does your present relationship prevent you from doing what you really want to do sexually?
Do you wish your present relationship were 'open'?
Do you have any explicit fantasies (Hard Anal, Bestiality, etc) that your partner won't fulfil with you?
If you could choose one of these locations for your next sexual encounter, where would it be?
A. In a Jacuzzi
B. On the beach
C. In a forest
D. At home in my bed
E. In a boat
F. On the kitchen table
G. In a public place where other people could see
H. In the backseat of a car
I. In an airplane bathroom
J. Other
Are you ashamed of your fantasies?
Have you ever had a sexual fantasy in which you were raping/being raped by someone?
Would you have sex (using a condom) with a reasonably attractive stranger for one million dollars tomorrow evening?
In your masturbatory fantasies, are you giving or receiving?
Do you think it is OK for your mate to fantasize about somebody else while he/she makes love to you?
What is your favourite sexual fantasy?
Have you ever fantasized about another person while you were making love to your mate?
Would it bother you if your partner had sexual fantasies about another wo/man?
Have you ever fantasized about having sex with your best friend's partner?
When you masturbate without the help of erotic material, do you fantasize about something/someone?
Have you ever fantasized about watching your partner having sex with someone else?
Did you ever fantasize about having sex with a woman/man?
When you masturbate, which scenarios do you most frequently fantasize about?
Sex Toys
What's your experience with Ben Wa balls?
Have you ever used anal plugs?
Have you or your partner ever worn a cock ring?
Have you ever used a sex doll to satisfy your sexual needs?
Have you ever used a strap on, or received the business end of one?
Have you ever used a sex toy (i.e. vibrator) to stimulate your partner anally?
How do you feel about using vibrators during intercourse?
How would you like your partner to tie up your hands (with hand-cuffs, rope, a silk scarf, etc.) during sex?
What kind of material do you like your sex toys to be made of?
How do you feel about using sex toys?
If you ever bought a sex toy, what was it intended for?
Have you ever bought a sex toy?
Would you feel embarrassed if you were to use sex toys?
How do you feel about inserting objects or sex toys (other than penis) into the vagina?
Masturbation
Have you ever gotten caught in the middle of a masturbating session?
Do you ever feel guilty after you masturbate?
When you masturbate, whom do you most often fantasize about?
Have you ever masturbated in the same room, at the same time, as a friend?
Do you look in a mirror when you masturbate?
Do you perform anal stimulation on yourself (inserting fingers or objects in your anus) during a solo session?
Have you ever masturbated while driving?
How old were you when you first started masturbating?
How often do you and your partner masturbate together?
Have you ever masturbated while your partner was watching?
Have you ever masturbated while on the phone with someone?
How old were you when you first masturbated yourself to orgasm?
How often do you masturbate in the shower?
When you masturbate without the help of erotic material, do you fantasize about something/someone?
Would it bother you to learn that your partner masturbated while looking at porn?
If asked, would you admit to your partner that you masturbated while alone?
How would you feel if your partner asked you to masturbate in front of him/her?
Why do you typically masturbate?
When you masturbate, which scenarios do you most frequently fantasize about?
How often do you masturbate when you are in a steady relationship?
Where do you typically masturbate?
What would you do if your partner started to masturbate in front of you?
Would it turn you on to watch your partner masturbate?
Pornography
Do you ever take ideas from pornography and try them out in your sex life?
Would you date an ex-porno star?
Which of the following "turn-on aids" do you prefer?
Which strip clubs do you prefer?
Do you read erotic/pornographic literature (without explicit pictures)?
How much of a turn-on is online porn for you?
How do the pictures or images of naked women in pornography make you feel about yourself as a lover?
Does porn turn you on?
How do you prefer to watch porn movies?
Have you ever intentionally visited an online porn site?
Do you watch hard-core porn movies to get in the mood before having sex with your partner?
A Peek In The Bedroom
Have you ever had a last-time romp in the sack with an ex after breaking up, for old times sake?
Have you ever tried the spoon position?
Do you answer the phone when you're in the middle of a steamy session?
Has your partner ever watched TV - other than a porno - while you were having sex?
What's the longest you've ever gone without having sex since you became sexually active?
Have you ever tried felching (sucking semen out of vagina or anus)?
Have you ever shaved a part of your partner's body as a sort of foreplay?
Have you ever incorporated skin abrasion (rubbing with a scratchy surface like a brush, rough leather or soft sandpaper) into a sexual encounter?
Have you (or your partner) ever used a penis pump?
Have you ever had sex in a public place?
Have you and/or your partner ever filmed your lovemaking?
How often do you 'role play' during sex?
Have you ever painted a lover's body?
Have you ever had 'rug burn' (on your back or butt) from a sexual encounter on the floor?
Have you ever had more than one sexual partner on the same day?
Do you and your partner use lubrication when giving/getting a hand job?
Do you use baby oil during sex?
Have you ever slept with someone due to peer pressure?
Have you ever had or given a discreet hand job in public?
Have you ever had sex with someone considerably older or younger than yourself (15 or 20 years)?
Have you ever participated in a key or partner swapping party?
Do you have a special name that you or a partner made up for your genitals?
Have you ever used erotic massage to get the sparks flying?
What is the greatest number of times that you have had sexual intercourse in the same day?
How do you usually communicate that you would like to have sex?
During foreplay, leading up to sex, who usually takes your clothes off?
How do you feel about having sex with your partner even though you aren't really 'in the mood'?
How would you like your partner to tie up your hands (with hand-cuffs, rope, a silk scarf, etc.) during sex?
What do you typically do after having sex?
Who has the greater sex drive in your couple?
Do you swallow your partner's ejaculate/vaginal excretions?
What kind of lighting do you prefer when having sex?
Do you feel that you satisfy your partner sexually?
What food do you eat after sex?
Have you ever fallen asleep while having sex?
Have you ever had intercourse when you (your partner) were (was) having your (her) period?
Does your partner spend enough time on foreplay?
When do you best like to have sex?
When you have sex, how many times do you usually do it?
How often do (did) you typically have sex with your current (most recent) steady partner?
Do you talk (other than making inarticulate noises) while having sex?
In how many different sexual positions do you find yourself during your typical intercourse?
What is your favourite sexual position?
Infidelity
If you've ever cheated, did you tell the person you cheated on?
Have you ever been part of an open relationship?
Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone while your significant other was in the same house or close by?
Do you believe that it is possible to openly sleep with other people and still maintain a healthy marriage/relationship?
If you have ever had an affair or cheated on your partner, what was the main reason?
In your opinion, does oral sex (pure, without any penetration) constitute infidelity?
If your partner had a one-night stand after being faithful to you for years, would you like to know about it?
Have you ever had a one-night stand while in a committed relationship?
In your view, which of the following actions by your partner would be crossing the line of infidelity?
A. Looking at another wo/man
B. Lustfully thinking about another wo/man
C. Fantasising about sex with another wo/man
D. Flirting with another wo/man
E. Holding hands with another wo/man
F. Kissing another wo/man
G. Smooching with another wo/man
H. Touching another wo/man's privates with cloths on
I. Touching another wo/man's bare privates
J. Oral sex with another wo/man
K. Intercourse with another wo/man without penetration
L. Penetration
General Sexual Behaviour
How do you feel about the person you lost your virginity to?
Have you ever had sex in the snow (clothed or otherwise)?
Have you ever slept with someone whose name you didn't know?
Have you thought about sex yet today?
Do you think prostitution should be legal?
How important is a great sex life for your life satisfaction and happiness?
Would you most likely have oral sex or intercourse first in a new relationship?
Have you ever broken up with someone because the sex was not great?
How would you like your partner to introduce new sexual activities?
Women: How many times do you think men get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when they are sleeping)?
Men: How many times do you get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when you are sleeping)?
With your present or most recent regular partner, do you schedule sex or let it happen spontaneously?
Have you ever pulled your partner's hair during lovemaking?
Women: Have you ever had sex with someone who has a 'crooked' or 'curved' penis?
Men: Do you have a 'crooked' or 'curved' penis?
In your current (or last) sexual relationship, how does the penis generally get in the vagina?
Would you say your current partner is (or, for men, you are) well endowed?
Have you ever kissed a member of the same sex?
What's your take on sex in the shower?
Have you ever had sex with a cousin or distant relative?
Have you ever had a sexual dream about a member of the same sex?
Have you ever slept with someone due to drunkenness?
Have you ever kept a memento of a sexual encounter (panties, shirt, boxers, dark blue dress)?
What's your take on snowballing (passing semen back and forth orally)?
Do you own any kind of sex manual?
When you were young and first learned what sexual intercourse really involved, what was your reaction?
Have you ever paid someone to have sex?
Have you ever accidentally called your sexual partner by another name during sex?
What's your take on female lubrication?
How did you feel after you lost your virginity?
Have you ever had food (veggies, sausages) inserted into your/your partner’s vagina?
What would you do if your new boyfriend/girlfriend told you they wanted to wait until marriage to have sex?
What do you generally think about during sex?
Have you ever visited a nude beach or a nudist park?
Was your very first sexual exploration (any interpersonal contact involving touching reproductive organs) with a male or a female?
During penetration, what is your preferred style?
On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate yourself as a lover?
How do you feel about having sex with your partner even though you aren't really 'in the mood'?
If you were to do it all over again, when would you choose to lose your virginity?
When you lost your virginity, who was the first person you told?
At what age do you think sexuality education (in schools) should begin?
Have you ever tasted your own vaginal secretions/ejaculate?
Can you feel the muscular contractions of your partner's genitals when s/he reaches orgasm?
Do you talk to your friends about your sex life?
Have you ever seen other people having sex, and if so, how close were you to them?
Are you happy with the appearance of your genitals?
How would you feel if one night your partner lay back during sex and asked you to do all the work?
Did your parents talk to you about sex and sexuality when you were a teenager?
Does your partner know exactly the number of sexual partners you've had in your lifetime?
What do you think is the ideal age for losing your virginity?
How do you feel about having sex in front of household pets?
When you start dating a new person, on which date do you usually have sex?
Have you ever had sex with a co-worker?
Have you ever fantasized about having sex with your best friend's partner?
Have you ever fantasized about dressing up as a member of the opposite sex?
Have you ever been in a strip club with male (female voters)/female (male voters) dancers?
To whom do you reveal the details of your sex-life (positions, locations, toys etc.)?
At what age did someone (other than yourself) first touch your bare genitals in a sexual way?
How long do you think you should take to "get to know your partner" before you have sex with him/her?
Have you ever engaged in cybersex?
Have you ever slept with a friend?
How many times a day do you think about having sex?
How many different sexual partners have you had so far?
Would you feel embarrassed if you were to use sex toys?
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Threesome (and +) Sex
If your partner asked you to have sex with someone else while he/she watched, would you?
What would you do if your partner asked you to have another woman/man join your couple in having sex?
If you were to have sex with multiple partners (as a group), which scenario would you like it to be?
Have you ever had sex with multiple partners at the same time?
I have been trying to land a job as a writer for a Local Australian magazine. The topics suggest to me to investigate were mostly a bore except for Sex in the New Millennium. I am hoping if I can get enough results to use this survey’s results along with an article I am writing and to get them published in a number of adult publications. Please note that all answers are completely confidential as per usual. No names, email addresses etc will ever be used!
You will find some questions may repeat in different sections but please read all questions carefully and answer fully. In the case of YES and NO answers, please also include comments such as you enjoy it, do rarely or frequently etc.
For those of you currently single like myself (I totally sympathise), please answer questions as you would have in a previous relationship or in one you look forward too having. For further clarification please do not hesitate to email me.
With your co-operation we will be able to give you accurate and comprehensive results of this survey. I know it’s long but it could not be helped.
Please feel free to distribute this to any and all of your friends as we would like to get as many people taking part in this study as possible. Please remember that the content is Adults only, no minors! Just ensure that all results are forwarded to me.
Please copy and paste this into an email as send to jadegreendragon70@yahoo.com.au
I will post results of the survey here as soon as it is compiled.
Yours Always
Jade Green Dragon (jadegreendragon70@yahoo.com.au)
Scientific Sex Survey 2004
Demographic
Age:
Sex:
Status:
Location:
Anal sex
Why do you think most men find giving anal sex so pleasurable?
Have you ever gone from anal to vaginal penetration without washing the penetrating object (penis, finger, dildo, vibrator etc.)?
Do you enjoy stimulating your partner's anus with your tongue?
Have you ever used anal beads?
Does it turn you on to have your anal region stimulated?
How do you feel about stimulating/penetrating your partner's anus with a finger?
What aspect of anal sex do you (or would you) like the most?
Have you ever engaged in anal sex?
Oral sex
Have you ever performed oral sex on your partner while s/he was driving?
Have you ever received oral sex from someone with a pierced tongue?
Does the taste of your partner's ejaculate or secretions change?
Have you ever poured anything (i.e., champagne) in your/your partner's vagina to drink out?
Women: Do you caress your partner's testicles while performing oral sex?
Men: Do you like it when a partner caresses your testicles during oral sex?
Have you ever sucked on a mint before giving oral sex to increase the sensation for your partner?
Would you like your partner to start performing oral sex on you while you slept?
Do you like the taste of semen/vaginal excretions (assuming that your partner's genitals are sparkling clean)?
How confident are you with your oral sex skills?
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how do you feel about kissing him/her on the lips?
When your partner is performing oral sex on you, how much eye contact do you like?
Which 'ejaculate management strategy' to you prefer?
Would you perform oral sex on your partner after vaginal penetration?
How old were you when you first engaged in oral sex?
Do you swallow your partner's ejaculate/vaginal excretions?
In your opinion, does oral sex (pure, without any penetration) constitute infidelity?
In your view, which has more significance, oral sex or intercourse with penetration?
What excites you the MOST about performing oral sex on your partner?
When receiving oral sex, do you feel the need to reciprocate?
Do you enjoy giving cunnilingus/fellatio (oral sex)?
How does the smell of your partner's genitals affect your desire to give oral sex?
Do you enjoy receiving cunnilingus (oral sex)?
Turn-Ons and Turn-Offs
Which sense, with the exception of touch, plays the largest role in your pleasure during sex?
How do you feel about naughty, dirty talk during sex?
Do you find it sexy to have your toes sucked on or to suck on your partner's toes?
Women: How do you feel about hairy chests?
Men: How do you feel about a woman who doesn't shave her armpits/legs?
What body type turns you on most?
Have you ever tried the technique of dripping melted wax on your partner?
Have you ever had sex without kissing the other person on the lips?
Do you have passionate make-up sex after a fight with your partner?
Do you like watching the penis enter the vagina?
How do you feel about spanking during sex?
Would you like it if your partner tied up your hands (with a scarf, handcuffs, rope, etc.) during sex?
Do you like being bitten during sex?
Other than your genitals, what is the most sensitive erogenous zone on your body?
What kind of hair do you find the sexiest?
Have you or partner ever been blindfolded during a sexual encounter?
Has urination ever been played a role in your sexual encounters?
Would watching another couple having sex turn you on?
What kind of music gets you most in the mood for sex?
Would you like to have erotic pictures of your partner?
What is your favourite way for your partner to verbally express his/her pleasure during sex?
When you are aroused, do you like to have your nipples stimulated?
Does receiving an enema turn you on?
If you were provided with the perfect opportunity, would you have sex with an attractive member of the same sex?
How would you feel if one night your partner lay back during sex and asked you to do all the work?
Would you be turned on if your partner had his/her genitals pierced?
Does the idea of having sex with a virgin turn you on?
Do you like it when your partner nibbles on, licks, and kisses your ears?
Does it turn you on to see two women fooling around?
How much of a turn-on is online porn for you?
If you were to choose between the following erotic activities with your partner (as an appetizer), which one would you pick?
A. Discussing sexual fantasies
B. Watching a hard-core porn movie
C. Reading a steamy story
D. Reading through a sex manual
E. None of the above
Have you ever put on a strip show for your partner?
Would you like it if your partner stripped for you - with all the hoopla?
Which body part do you like your partner to concentrate on during foreplay?
Have you ever shaved all of your pubic hair?
Have you found your (partner's) G-spot?
Have you ever tried B/D (bondage and discipline)?
Does it turn you on when your partner makes noises (groans, moans, grunts, snorts) while having sex?
How do you feel about having sex in a public place?
Would it turn you on if your partner shaved his/her pubic hair?
How do you feel about inserting objects or sex toys (other than penis) into the vagina?
All About Orgasm
Have you ever engaged in partial asphyxiation to achieve a stronger orgasm?
Have you ever seen little lights in your head during an orgasm?
Women: Has your partner ever ejaculated in your face?
Men: Have you ever ejaculated in your partner's face?
Do you ever feel you MUST have an orgasm or you will not be able to concentrate on anything else?
Women: Do you 'ejaculate' when you orgasm?
Men: Have you ever been with a woman who 'ejaculated' when she had an orgasm?
Have you ever had an orgasm from phone sex or cyber-sex?
Which sexual activity (of the ones you have tried) is most likely to bring your to orgasm the fastest?
Do you think about other things (work, sports, etc.) to hold back from having an orgasm too quickly?
Have you are your partner ever made a 'pearl necklace' (ejaculated around the neck)?
How often would you say that you reach orgasm TOO quickly?
Do you have orgasms during erotic dreams?
Have you ever had "blue balls" (or, for women, a painful feeling in the abdomen) from coming close to orgasm but not actually making it?
Have you ever used drugs (poppers, snappers, nitrous oxide) to heighten your orgasms?
Have you ever burst out crying during or just after an orgasm?
Women: Has a partner ever reached orgasm by rubbing between your breasts?
Men: Have you ever reached orgasm by rubbing your penis between a partner's breasts?
Have you ever reached orgasm without actually being touched/touching yourself?
Have you ever cracked up laughing during or just after an orgasm?
Have you ever had an orgasm from using exercise equipment?
Did you have an orgasm the first time you had sexual intercourse?
Do you like your partner to watch your face while you reach orgasm?
Who in your couple usually reaches orgasm first?
When having sex, who gives your orgasm the 'finishing touch'?
In which sexual positions do you most easily reach orgasm?
Women: Did you ever fake an orgasm?
Men: How much time after an orgasm does it take before you can have another erection?
During a sexual intercourse, how much time does it usually take you to reach orgasm?
Our Fears and Concerns
Has anybody ever walked in on you while you were in the middle of having sex?
Have you ever had a condom break?
Has anyone ever told you that you were not very good in bed?
Have you ever been diagnosed with an STD?
Do you worry about getting pregnant each time you have sex?
Which of the following, in the middle of heated sex, would upset you the most?
A If my partner said another person's name.
B. If my partner made a negative comment about my body (your belly is flabby, for example).
C. If my partner stopped suddenly, sighed, and rolled over.
D. If my partner whispered very crude, shocking things in my ear.
E. If my partner starting giving me not-so-subtle orders on what to do next
How would you react if your partner confessed that he or she was bisexual?
What is your greatest fear about having sex?
How long could you go without having sex with your partner before you start feeling that there is a major problem in your relationship?
Is it more difficult for you to reach an orgasm when having sex with a woman with a wide vagina? / A man with a small penis?
Would it bother you if your partner had sexual fantasies about another wo/man?
Do you think it is unmanly to enjoy anal stimulation?
Men: Does the size of your partner's breasts matter to you?
Women: Are you happy with the size and shape of your breasts?
Women: Does the size of your partner's penis matter to you?
Men: Are you happy with the size and shape of your penis?
What is your biggest concern when you are naked in front of your partner?
Safe Sex and Contraception
Do you and your partner ever use novelty condoms - i.e. French ticklers, flavoured, etc?
With how many partners have you had unprotected sexual intercourse (no condom)?
For the most part, what type of contraception do you use in your couple?
Have you ever been tested for HIV?
Does using a condom during sexual intercourse detract from your pleasurable sensations?
When did you discuss the subject of contraception/protection with your current (last) partner?
Typically, who brings up the subject of contraception in your couple?
In the last 10 years, have you had unprotected sex with a stranger or someone you knew for less than a month?
In your opinion, how many sex partners should one have before marriage or committing to a long-term relationship?
Sexual Fantasies
Do you ever fantasize about your best friend?
Have you ever seduced someone by confessing that you had a fantasy about him/her?
If you could choose one of the following people for a one-nighter that no one would know about, whom would you choose?
Women: Russell Crowe, Ricky Martin, Robert Downey Jr, Jude Law, Sean Connery, and Marilyn Manson
Men: Angelina Jolie, Meg Ryan, Pamela Anderson, Winona Rider, Madonna, and Courtney Love
Does your present relationship prevent you from doing what you really want to do sexually?
Do you wish your present relationship were 'open'?
Do you have any explicit fantasies (Hard Anal, Bestiality, etc) that your partner won't fulfil with you?
If you could choose one of these locations for your next sexual encounter, where would it be?
A. In a Jacuzzi
B. On the beach
C. In a forest
D. At home in my bed
E. In a boat
F. On the kitchen table
G. In a public place where other people could see
H. In the backseat of a car
I. In an airplane bathroom
J. Other
Are you ashamed of your fantasies?
Have you ever had a sexual fantasy in which you were raping/being raped by someone?
Would you have sex (using a condom) with a reasonably attractive stranger for one million dollars tomorrow evening?
In your masturbatory fantasies, are you giving or receiving?
Do you think it is OK for your mate to fantasize about somebody else while he/she makes love to you?
What is your favourite sexual fantasy?
Have you ever fantasized about another person while you were making love to your mate?
Would it bother you if your partner had sexual fantasies about another wo/man?
Have you ever fantasized about having sex with your best friend's partner?
When you masturbate without the help of erotic material, do you fantasize about something/someone?
Have you ever fantasized about watching your partner having sex with someone else?
Did you ever fantasize about having sex with a woman/man?
When you masturbate, which scenarios do you most frequently fantasize about?
Sex Toys
What's your experience with Ben Wa balls?
Have you ever used anal plugs?
Have you or your partner ever worn a cock ring?
Have you ever used a sex doll to satisfy your sexual needs?
Have you ever used a strap on, or received the business end of one?
Have you ever used a sex toy (i.e. vibrator) to stimulate your partner anally?
How do you feel about using vibrators during intercourse?
How would you like your partner to tie up your hands (with hand-cuffs, rope, a silk scarf, etc.) during sex?
What kind of material do you like your sex toys to be made of?
How do you feel about using sex toys?
If you ever bought a sex toy, what was it intended for?
Have you ever bought a sex toy?
Would you feel embarrassed if you were to use sex toys?
How do you feel about inserting objects or sex toys (other than penis) into the vagina?
Masturbation
Have you ever gotten caught in the middle of a masturbating session?
Do you ever feel guilty after you masturbate?
When you masturbate, whom do you most often fantasize about?
Have you ever masturbated in the same room, at the same time, as a friend?
Do you look in a mirror when you masturbate?
Do you perform anal stimulation on yourself (inserting fingers or objects in your anus) during a solo session?
Have you ever masturbated while driving?
How old were you when you first started masturbating?
How often do you and your partner masturbate together?
Have you ever masturbated while your partner was watching?
Have you ever masturbated while on the phone with someone?
How old were you when you first masturbated yourself to orgasm?
How often do you masturbate in the shower?
When you masturbate without the help of erotic material, do you fantasize about something/someone?
Would it bother you to learn that your partner masturbated while looking at porn?
If asked, would you admit to your partner that you masturbated while alone?
How would you feel if your partner asked you to masturbate in front of him/her?
Why do you typically masturbate?
When you masturbate, which scenarios do you most frequently fantasize about?
How often do you masturbate when you are in a steady relationship?
Where do you typically masturbate?
What would you do if your partner started to masturbate in front of you?
Would it turn you on to watch your partner masturbate?
Pornography
Do you ever take ideas from pornography and try them out in your sex life?
Would you date an ex-porno star?
Which of the following "turn-on aids" do you prefer?
Which strip clubs do you prefer?
Do you read erotic/pornographic literature (without explicit pictures)?
How much of a turn-on is online porn for you?
How do the pictures or images of naked women in pornography make you feel about yourself as a lover?
Does porn turn you on?
How do you prefer to watch porn movies?
Have you ever intentionally visited an online porn site?
Do you watch hard-core porn movies to get in the mood before having sex with your partner?
A Peek In The Bedroom
Have you ever had a last-time romp in the sack with an ex after breaking up, for old times sake?
Have you ever tried the spoon position?
Do you answer the phone when you're in the middle of a steamy session?
Has your partner ever watched TV - other than a porno - while you were having sex?
What's the longest you've ever gone without having sex since you became sexually active?
Have you ever tried felching (sucking semen out of vagina or anus)?
Have you ever shaved a part of your partner's body as a sort of foreplay?
Have you ever incorporated skin abrasion (rubbing with a scratchy surface like a brush, rough leather or soft sandpaper) into a sexual encounter?
Have you (or your partner) ever used a penis pump?
Have you ever had sex in a public place?
Have you and/or your partner ever filmed your lovemaking?
How often do you 'role play' during sex?
Have you ever painted a lover's body?
Have you ever had 'rug burn' (on your back or butt) from a sexual encounter on the floor?
Have you ever had more than one sexual partner on the same day?
Do you and your partner use lubrication when giving/getting a hand job?
Do you use baby oil during sex?
Have you ever slept with someone due to peer pressure?
Have you ever had or given a discreet hand job in public?
Have you ever had sex with someone considerably older or younger than yourself (15 or 20 years)?
Have you ever participated in a key or partner swapping party?
Do you have a special name that you or a partner made up for your genitals?
Have you ever used erotic massage to get the sparks flying?
What is the greatest number of times that you have had sexual intercourse in the same day?
How do you usually communicate that you would like to have sex?
During foreplay, leading up to sex, who usually takes your clothes off?
How do you feel about having sex with your partner even though you aren't really 'in the mood'?
How would you like your partner to tie up your hands (with hand-cuffs, rope, a silk scarf, etc.) during sex?
What do you typically do after having sex?
Who has the greater sex drive in your couple?
Do you swallow your partner's ejaculate/vaginal excretions?
What kind of lighting do you prefer when having sex?
Do you feel that you satisfy your partner sexually?
What food do you eat after sex?
Have you ever fallen asleep while having sex?
Have you ever had intercourse when you (your partner) were (was) having your (her) period?
Does your partner spend enough time on foreplay?
When do you best like to have sex?
When you have sex, how many times do you usually do it?
How often do (did) you typically have sex with your current (most recent) steady partner?
Do you talk (other than making inarticulate noises) while having sex?
In how many different sexual positions do you find yourself during your typical intercourse?
What is your favourite sexual position?
Infidelity
If you've ever cheated, did you tell the person you cheated on?
Have you ever been part of an open relationship?
Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone while your significant other was in the same house or close by?
Do you believe that it is possible to openly sleep with other people and still maintain a healthy marriage/relationship?
If you have ever had an affair or cheated on your partner, what was the main reason?
In your opinion, does oral sex (pure, without any penetration) constitute infidelity?
If your partner had a one-night stand after being faithful to you for years, would you like to know about it?
Have you ever had a one-night stand while in a committed relationship?
In your view, which of the following actions by your partner would be crossing the line of infidelity?
A. Looking at another wo/man
B. Lustfully thinking about another wo/man
C. Fantasising about sex with another wo/man
D. Flirting with another wo/man
E. Holding hands with another wo/man
F. Kissing another wo/man
G. Smooching with another wo/man
H. Touching another wo/man's privates with cloths on
I. Touching another wo/man's bare privates
J. Oral sex with another wo/man
K. Intercourse with another wo/man without penetration
L. Penetration
General Sexual Behaviour
How do you feel about the person you lost your virginity to?
Have you ever had sex in the snow (clothed or otherwise)?
Have you ever slept with someone whose name you didn't know?
Have you thought about sex yet today?
Do you think prostitution should be legal?
How important is a great sex life for your life satisfaction and happiness?
Would you most likely have oral sex or intercourse first in a new relationship?
Have you ever broken up with someone because the sex was not great?
How would you like your partner to introduce new sexual activities?
Women: How many times do you think men get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when they are sleeping)?
Men: How many times do you get an erection during a typical day (other than erections when you are sleeping)?
With your present or most recent regular partner, do you schedule sex or let it happen spontaneously?
Have you ever pulled your partner's hair during lovemaking?
Women: Have you ever had sex with someone who has a 'crooked' or 'curved' penis?
Men: Do you have a 'crooked' or 'curved' penis?
In your current (or last) sexual relationship, how does the penis generally get in the vagina?
Would you say your current partner is (or, for men, you are) well endowed?
Have you ever kissed a member of the same sex?
What's your take on sex in the shower?
Have you ever had sex with a cousin or distant relative?
Have you ever had a sexual dream about a member of the same sex?
Have you ever slept with someone due to drunkenness?
Have you ever kept a memento of a sexual encounter (panties, shirt, boxers, dark blue dress)?
What's your take on snowballing (passing semen back and forth orally)?
Do you own any kind of sex manual?
When you were young and first learned what sexual intercourse really involved, what was your reaction?
Have you ever paid someone to have sex?
Have you ever accidentally called your sexual partner by another name during sex?
What's your take on female lubrication?
How did you feel after you lost your virginity?
Have you ever had food (veggies, sausages) inserted into your/your partner’s vagina?
What would you do if your new boyfriend/girlfriend told you they wanted to wait until marriage to have sex?
What do you generally think about during sex?
Have you ever visited a nude beach or a nudist park?
Was your very first sexual exploration (any interpersonal contact involving touching reproductive organs) with a male or a female?
During penetration, what is your preferred style?
On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate yourself as a lover?
How do you feel about having sex with your partner even though you aren't really 'in the mood'?
If you were to do it all over again, when would you choose to lose your virginity?
When you lost your virginity, who was the first person you told?
At what age do you think sexuality education (in schools) should begin?
Have you ever tasted your own vaginal secretions/ejaculate?
Can you feel the muscular contractions of your partner's genitals when s/he reaches orgasm?
Do you talk to your friends about your sex life?
Have you ever seen other people having sex, and if so, how close were you to them?
Are you happy with the appearance of your genitals?
How would you feel if one night your partner lay back during sex and asked you to do all the work?
Did your parents talk to you about sex and sexuality when you were a teenager?
Does your partner know exactly the number of sexual partners you've had in your lifetime?
What do you think is the ideal age for losing your virginity?
How do you feel about having sex in front of household pets?
When you start dating a new person, on which date do you usually have sex?
Have you ever had sex with a co-worker?
Have you ever fantasized about having sex with your best friend's partner?
Have you ever fantasized about dressing up as a member of the opposite sex?
Have you ever been in a strip club with male (female voters)/female (male voters) dancers?
To whom do you reveal the details of your sex-life (positions, locations, toys etc.)?
At what age did someone (other than yourself) first touch your bare genitals in a sexual way?
How long do you think you should take to "get to know your partner" before you have sex with him/her?
Have you ever engaged in cybersex?
Have you ever slept with a friend?
How many times a day do you think about having sex?
How many different sexual partners have you had so far?
Would you feel embarrassed if you were to use sex toys?
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Threesome (and +) Sex
If your partner asked you to have sex with someone else while he/she watched, would you?
What would you do if your partner asked you to have another woman/man join your couple in having sex?
If you were to have sex with multiple partners (as a group), which scenario would you like it to be?
Have you ever had sex with multiple partners at the same time?
