Scheduling Appointments for Fucking

[juicylips]

I am reading all these threads about LDR's (long distance relationships) and was wondering how you guys fit time in for sex.

Whether it is cybering, phone or real life fucking. Some of you are on different continents for pity's sake!! It has got to be so frustrating to get your schedules to work out.

It is difficult enough with someone in your own time zone, let alone HOURS in time difference.

For those who have just casual sex (is there even such a thing?) how do you find time if you are married or have a partner you don't want finding out?

Cassidy

 

[Amused]

Palm Pilot.
It's a lifesaver......

 

[Cotedebeaune]

Fucking....

frustrating....at times but worth perservering if the cyber partner knows her onioins (or was it oysters)

 

[tn_8tiv]

I am reading all these threads about LDR's (long distance relationships) and was wondering how you guys fit time in for sex.

Whether it is cybering, phone or real life fucking. Some of you are on different continents for pity's sake!! It has got to be so frustrating to get your schedules to work out.

It is difficult enough with someone in your own time zone, let alone HOURS in time difference.

For those who have just casual sex (is there even such a thing?) how do you find time if you are married or have a partner you don't want finding out?

Cassidy

Cassidy, you are right, this is tough. I guess since I travel a lot (on business) it makes it easier to explain an absence from my wife...got a business trip and won't be back for a couple of weeks. You have to phone home pretty often but it seems time can be made.

Seems like lately, I have been making a lot of trips.

 

[JennyOmanHill]

I am reading all these threads about LDR's (long distance relationships) and was wondering how you guys fit time in for sex.
Whether it is cybering, phone or real life fucking. Some of you are on different continents for pity's sake!! It has got to be so frustrating to get your schedules to work out.
...
Cassidy

It's especially difficult even getting in a "hello" to each other this time of year. My LDR has been working extra long days, and we just try to touch base with each other throughout the day with messages. (Fortunately for us there is only an hour time difference.)

It's actually funny how little cybering gets done lately! When we're in touch now we're just so happy to share our thoughts and experiences. It's so wonderful for me to hear from him, and we seem to be more concerned about each other's physical welfare (getting enough rest; driving carefully; etc.) and finding out more about each other than actually getting down to the "fun stuff"!

As far as scheduling? Let's just say that our Sunday mornings have been wonderful!

 

[Juspar Emvan]

It sucks

Not only does it suck, but your libido plays silly buggers too.

But you make time, you know each others essential time points, and just get up early or stay up late to be with them.

We talk about our schedules all the time, we don;t schedule time for sex, but we do make arrangemenst to be on-line together.

 

[juicylips]

Re: It sucks

Not only does it suck, but your libido plays silly buggers too.

But you make time, you know each others essential time points, and just get up early or stay up late to be with them.

It sucks big time, yes...you are right. Maybe my libido isn't what it should be at 4am or sometimes at midnight. But it is like you said, you just make the time and you try to make it count. Especially when the times are few and far between.

I think that with most of the couples on the board this involves more that just scheduling sex, but of just being together.

Cassidy

 

[April]

I tell ya, time zones are the work of the devil!

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Never had to face the "time zone" problem. I hate long distance relationships. When I lived Manhattan I refused to take seriously dating any girl who lived below West 4th Street.

 

[LukkyKnight]

REALLY?

Palm Pilot.
It's a lifesaver......

I gotta get me one of those. Who knew?

 

[juicylips]

Never had to face the "time zone" problem. I hate long distance relationships. When I lived Manhattan I refused to take seriously dating any girl who lived below West 4th Street.

Wow, you must be the kind of guy who is into deep commitments.

or

just haven't met the right girl ?

Cassidy

 

[MissTaken]

And cell phones



Cell phone plans with 3000 + minutes per month are definitely an essential tool in this LDR.



There are far fewer day time minutes, but enough for a few minutes to tell one another we are thinking of each other.

Otherwise, from 9 p.m. the hands free set is attached to my ear. I think it is fusing itself there!

 

[juicylips]

And cell phones



Cell phone plans with 3000 + minutes per month are definitely an essential tool in this LDR.



There are far fewer day time minutes, but enough for a few minutes to tell one another we are thinking of each other.

Otherwise, from 9 p.m. the hands free set is attached to my ear. I think it is fusing itself there!

Does that plan include international minutes?? I am seriously considering a cell phone. Just for me

Cassidy

 

[Aphrodisiac]

I am reading all these threads about LDR's (long distance relationships) and was wondering how you guys fit time in for sex.

Cassidy

I make time ... & he makes time. I have some how always been in long distance relationships. I always seem to meet my " men " when I am in other city. I must confess I like the distance , I am not one who needs a b/f around me 24/7 in order to survive.

But it all depends on the " relationship " if I just sort of like them , I am okay about the distance , calls , emails ... etc.

But if I truly like him & we click we will work out our schedules & I have the ability to fly any where & whenever I want ... this summer I lived flying.

But there are times are schedules are to demanding & we are unable to see one another - it has been one of those years this time around.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Scheduling Appointments for Fucking

But there are times are schedules are to demanding & we are unable to see one another - it has been one of those years this time around.

I am wishing you a much better schedule for fucking in 2002, sweetie!!!!

Cassidy

 

[miles]

yep

 

[estevie]

yep

*pulling out my date book...flipping pages trying to find an available slot*

Well, looky here...nothing on my schedule for the next few hours!

 

[sexy-girl]

when i was at school and lisa lived in canada me in uk

1) i would write before i left for school
2) come home for lunch to meet lisa as she was getting up
3) go back to school and meet her after school hopefully if she was in
4) write email's to her every hour while i was home if we didnt meet
5) goto bed get up at 3am and meet her as she was going to bed
6) go back to bed and get up again at 7am for school


that was the basic sceduale fitting in phone time as much as possible too lucky enough we live together now but our work sceduales are very messed up at this time of year we're not seeing eachother much either

 

[juicylips]

when i was at school and lisa lived in canada me in uk

1) i would write before i left for school
2) come home for lunch to meet lisa as she was getting up
3) go back to school and meet her after school hopefully if she was in
4) write email's to her every hour while i was home if we didnt meet
5) goto bed get up at 3am and meet her as she was going to bed
6) go back to bed and get up again at 7am for school


that was the basic sceduale fitting in phone time as much as possible too lucky enough we live together now but our work sceduales are very messed up at this time of year we're not seeing eachother much either

WOW...talk about commitment!! How long did you guys do this?? It had to wear pretty thin after awhile.

Cassidy

 

[sexy-girl]

WOW...talk about commitment!! How long did you guys do this?? It had to wear pretty thin after awhile.

Cassidy

hehe it wasnt to have sex (well sometimes)

it was just to meet did it i guess for a year an half

we had that sort of sceduale everyday but of course it would change if one of us was busy or had to do something ... we had some real meetings inbetween too as well and holidays togehter but lisa didnt want to move here right away till our families were ready i guess

 

[juicylips]

hehe it wasnt to have sex (well sometimes)

it was just to meet did it i guess for a year an half

we had that sort of sceduale everyday but of course it would change if one of us was busy or had to do something ... we had some real meetings inbetween too as well and holidays togehter but lisa didnt want to move here right away till our families were ready i guess

A year and a half??? HUGE committment, sweetie. Proud of you making this work. (Like you really need me to tell you that)

Once again I feel so fucking shallow, because I am just trying to fit in some sex. You were working on a relationship.

Scheduled fucking is better than no fucking. Sometimes it goes beyond better to fantastic.

Cassidy

 

[lovetoread]

Okay,my thoughts...

Timing is a problem if all you are wanting is cybering. If there is more to the relationship,then talking at anytime is good. I im with him while he is at work and we talk about everything but sex. We also talk on the phone for hours...(his poor phone bill!) and usually when the kids are in bed,but he will call and we talk about everything then also. Right now,our timing depends on if the soon to be ex will be in the house.


As far as not letting anyone know what you are doing? Well,hell I screwed that up. I could not keep my relationship with that someone a secret. So I have no advice on that score.

 

[Thumper]

Palm pilot?

Can it do what my palm does?

Doubt it.

Scheduling...lemme see...work, sleep, work, shower, sleep, work, go online for 10 mintes, sleep, shower....


Nope..can't do it. Not until August of 2006.

Guess I better tell the wife to buy batteries eh?

Yes..Time zones are evil.

 

[juicylips]

Okay,my thoughts...

Timing is a problem if all you are wanting is cybering. If there is more to the relationship,then talking at anytime is good. I im with him while he is at work and we talk about everything but sex. We also talk on the phone for hours...(his poor phone bill!) and usually when the kids are in bed,but he will call and we talk about everything then also. Right now,our timing depends on if the soon to be ex will be in the house.


As far as not letting anyone know what you are doing? Well,hell I screwed that up. I could not keep my relationship with that someone a secret. So I have no advice on that score.

LTR...

I am always interested in your thoughts You and Tiger were two of the first people I thought about when starting this thread. You always have the voice of cool reasoning I knew you would give me the response of someone in a relationship.

Thanks!
Cassidy

 

[miles]

How about

..10 minutes?