Scary private messages?

[sophia jane]

Anyone ever get a pm that was so strange it scared you? Or really weirded you out? I get pm's from people I don't know all the time- some are hilarious, some are perverted (in a good way), some are really nice. But have you ever gotten one from someone you don't know that made you nervous?
I'm not going into specifics about mine, but I'm wondering if this happens to everyone. Or did I just get lucky?

SJ

 

[Dar~]

I had one guy keep pming me to ask if I cyber
he wanted my plans for evey waking hour of my day. He pmed me six or seven times a day and begged me to cyber suck him off. It got really annoying. I mean really have you ever tried to cyber when you are a girl, the logistics are awful. How can I type and finger myself? now if the computer came with a tongue maybe . . .

 

[sophia jane]

I had one guy keep pming me to ask if I cyber
he wanted my plans for evey waking hour of my day. He pmed me six or seven times a day and begged me to cyber suck him off. It got really annoying. I mean really have you ever tried to cyber when you are a girl, the logistics are awful. How can I type and finger myself? now if the computer came with a tongue maybe . . .

I've had that kind of thing too (wonder if it was the same person?).


SJ

 

[English Lady]

I don't get many, certain of my AV's get me more unsolicited PMs (my boobs ones, but generally any without my face in'em*L*)but I've never had one thats completely freaked me out. I think if you put the person on ignore they can't PM you btw...

 

[sophia jane]

I don't get many, certain of my AV's get me more unsolicited PMs (my boobs ones, but generally any without my face in'em*L*)but I've never had one thats completely freaked me out. I think if you put the person on ignore they can't PM you btw...

I probably will put them on ignore. It has only been one message, but what it said and the way it was worded, was very upsetting to me. Don't know why. It doesn't help that it was from a "virgin" that I've never interacted with on the board. Probably just sensitive tonight because I'm tired.

SJ

 

[BlackShanglan]

The joys of being a gender-neutral quadruped are many and varied. Lack of sexual solicitation via PM is one of them.

 

[sophia jane]

The joys of being a gender-neutral quadruped are many and varied. Lack of sexual solicitation via PM is one of them.

Happy birthday, by the way!
Actually, this pm wasn't sexual. The sexual ones I either find amusing or delete. This one was....odd, but not in a good way.

SJ

 

[angelicminx]

The joys of being a gender-neutral quadruped are many and varied. Lack of sexual solicitation via PM is one of them.

Hmmm... I could send you one. I have had a few myself, lol. A few of them quite nerve wracking.

 

[BlackShanglan]

Happy birthday, by the way!
Actually, this pm wasn't sexual. The sexual ones I either find amusing or delete. This one was....odd, but not in a good way.

SJ

Yikes.

Report it to Laurel?

 

[angelicminx]

Happy birthday, by the way!

Shanglan's Birthday!? Happy birthday you noble steed!

 

[sophia jane]

Yikes.

Report it to Laurel?

Maybe. Just don't know if it was that odd. Guess I am wondering how much oddness is normal and how much makes it disturbing?
I'll sleep on it, I think.

SJ

 

[Colleen Thomas]

the ones that wierd you out, quite often have as much to do with yourmood and your personal pet peeves than they do with the sender's intent. One would think, considering my works, that any solicitation I got would be from a woman or at least from a guy pretending to be a woman, but such is not the case. Not that all solicitations from guys are unwelcome or creep me out, I'm often flattered.

I have had a stalker incident though and he had a certain tone and cadence to his mails. Anyone, male or female, whom I don't know well that pm's me and has a similar tone will give me the willies.

On the other hand, there are some creepy folks out there in cyber land. I think most every author gets one occasionally though. When you write, you put yourself out there, so to speak, and it only stands to reason you will accumulate your share of odd, threatening or even psycopathic mails and pms. It just comes with making yourself known to the general public as someone who writes about sex I think.

 

[elsol]

The joys of being a gender-neutral quadruped are many and varied. Lack of sexual solicitation via PM is one of them.

The joys of beng CLEARLY male in RL... have the same effect.

The silence of my PM will get even quieter when I post the one story that makes most people think I'm socio-pathic.

Not that I'm not... but people tend to leave crazy people alone, never know when one of them is going to obsess over you.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[Dar~]

The joys of being a gender-neutral quadruped are many and varied. Lack of sexual solicitation via PM is one of them.

I'd pm you randy thoughts. Quadraped or no . . .

 

[scheherazade_79]

I hardly get any PMs at all Seriously, I've never emptied my inbox since being here. Sometimes it gets so boring that it would almost be interesting to get a freaky message. The closest I've ever come to one was a fanmail from a trolley-dolly in Singapore, who was convinced I'd go along with her suggestion of starting a virtual romance.

 

[Guest]

Rideme Cowgirl gets gets some really creepy PMs. Sometimes I don't have the heart to tell them.

 

[carsonshepherd]

I really, really want some pervy PMs. *weeps desolately*

 

[ElizabethWest]

I really, really want some pervy PMs. *weeps desolately*

But you're not interested if it's from a girl, right? Or should I get out my wicked pen and start composing?

 

[carsonshepherd]

But you're not interested if it's from a girl, right? Or should I get out my wicked pen and start composing?

If they're from girls, they just make me giggle (sorry, ladies.)

 

[Guest]

I really, really want some pervy PMs. *weeps desolately*

Don't you get them from Sub Joe? He's the master of perve. I'll send him your way.

 

[carsonshepherd]

Don't you get them from Sub Joe? He's the master of perve. I'll send him your way.

Perve.... I see that as a new genre, like anime. Cool!

 

[OhMissScarlett]

The joys of being a gender-neutral quadruped are many and varied. Lack of sexual solicitation via PM is one of them.

I can fix that.
I used to get lots of pervy pm's but now that I've had the same av up for awhile, I don't get them anymore. I guess people are tired of looking at my ass. My alt, Twink_Alert86 gets some creepy pm's and feedback, and like Dran, I just don't have the heart to tell them that I'm not a horny 19 year old boy. Well, maybe I'm a horny boy trapped in the body of a woman, yeah.

 

[Guest]

Perve.... I see that as a new genre, like anime. Cool!

Yes, especially if there's lots and lots of tentacle porn.

 

[logophile]

I don't get many PMs at all, and I've never really gotten one from someone I didn't know. I've wondered a few times if it's because my writing is too dull, because I only hangout in the AH, or just because I'm incredibly fortunate...

 

[NoJo]

I do like squid women. You can make one with a blow-up doll and those DIY towel hooks that attach to the door through suction. As everybody knows, squids have those scary little beaks, much like that of the common parrot, only larger. I haven'y found anything better to use for the beak than an actual parrot, inserted careful into the blow-up doll's plastic cunt-hole.