Same Sex Experimentation

sweetnpetite

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Anybody on the AH who's straight but who's epxerimented with someone of the same sex? Anyone who's gay who's messed around with the opposite sex (*after* accepting your homosexuality) Do tell!
 
sweetnpetite said:
Anybody on the AH who's straight but who's epxerimented with someone of the same sex? Anyone who's gay who's messed around with the opposite sex (*after* accepting your homosexuality) Do tell!

I'm not sure if this counts as my experimenting or theirs, but had a brief scene count out of a threesome once. My girlfriend and me had been going to a biweekly showing of "Rocky Horror" at a local theater with a friend.

The two of them used to flirt up a storm, and one night, after the show, we were at my place and I was watching them doing the usual pose and make suggestive remarks thing. I came up behind her and kissed her neck and ear, then turned her head to open her mouth to my own.

As we kissed, I reached around and caressed her breasts through her halter top, and then untied it and let them fall free in front of our friend's face. He gave me a look, and she broke the kiss to give me a look, and I smiled and motioned them both back into the bedroom.

After playing around in various ways of the pair of us guys pleasuring her, she moved to suck him while I got behind her. He came in her mouth, and she turned and got up on her knees to kiss me. While we kissed, she reached down and stroked my still hard cock, and then I felt something else.

I glanced down and our friend was licking and jacking me. I looked at her and she raised an eyebrow and mouthed,"Please?" to me...and I nodded. At which point our friend took me between his lips and sucked me off.

Only thing like that I've ever been involved in, and I'm not sure it would've happened without her there.
 
I have had one same sex experience, almost a year and a half ago. It's a very long story, and I've written a 5,000 word account of it, which I might post to Lit one day.
 
I had a brief affair with a bi-guy back in my wild youth, back when I believed that you could be whatever you wanted to be sexually, but it didn't work out. I can appreciate what a woman sees in a man's body, and I can appreciate it myself, but it just doesn't excite me sexually. Sexual preference is not simply a choice: it's something inside of you and something that's not easy to change.

I learned an unforgettable lesson about what it must be like to be a woman in a sexual relationship though, and what it's like to be the penetratee rather than the pentrator. The thing that I had the most trouble with was figuring out my status in the relationship: was I the "man" or the "woman"? The sex was easy, but this status thing was insurmountable for me and I just couldn't deal with it.

---dr.M.
 
copied from first time thread in GBLT:

I was on a ferry from amsterdam...

...My friend and I were just returning from travelling, and were excited about going home.

On the ferry we happened to meet this guy who offered to buy us a drink. He was a fair bit older than us, but we had no money and it seemed silly to look a gifthorse in the mouth.

It began with a bit of idle chatter: all the mundane things that are usually said at the start of conversations. He then proceeded to tell us how he'd just got out of jail, having served a twelve year sentence for armed robbery.

So when he offered to spark up a jay, it was hard to say no; the beer and the story were too enticing. Soon we were pretty stoned, as well as drunk. I think we probably had a coulple more beers.

He then asked, deadpan, "do you wanna pill, it's fucking good."

My friend and I shrugged, looked at each other, and said "why not?" simultaneously. We were young and reckless.

Some time later the three of us sat on the floor, near the deserted bar. I was fucked, and kept rubbing my face against a metal pole (cos it felt goood). Convict man was making loads of suggestive comments and I thought it had got trippy when he started talking about puttig us in pornos.

It got trippier though. The pill must have been cut with viagara or something, cos I was feeling really horny. I stumbled my way to the toilet, in drugged up bliss. I got my dick out to take a piss, but it was raging hard and I stood there confused and aroused.

"Hey, can I suck it?" convict man was behind me!

"Uh..."I just stood there with steam coming of my dick, unable to reply.

He bent down and started to lick. For some reason I didn't want him doing that, but I wanted to feel his dick. He got it out, it was all soft and wrinkly. I started to take it in my mouth, but then realised how much this disgusted me. This guy was old and ugly and a bit of a reject. I stood up, and managed to say, "no more!"

That was the last I saw of him.

I snogged a couple of guys too - bristly, I seem to remember.
 
The first time I kissed a girl... I was seventeen and had snuck into the local nightclub. She was in her mid twenties and absolutely gorgeous. She told me I was cute.

We started out just to wind her other half up but seemed to forget to stop. It was so... different and yet the same. She felt softer and she was gentler than the guys I'd kissed but the reactions she gained were the same, namely me in a smiley puddle at her feet :)

My first sexual experience with another woman, was with my (to this day) best friend. Drunken fumblings under the duvet... When we woke up the next morning (albeit hungover) we decided to try it sober... and it was a damn good job everyone had gone out :)
 
I had a short and rather unfulfilling tryst with a girl in college. It was fantastic while it was happening, but she freaked out right in the middle of everything. Seems the church is quite insurmountable for some. Even though she had initiated and fed the fire, when it came down to it she just couldn't get over all of the teachings about how wrong it was. Kinda sad when someone can lie in your arms and describe how intense their desire for you is and in the next breath explain that they just can't indulge. :(

Still friends today, though, and I think some things happen for a reason.


~ R W (I think phone sex should count :D)
 
Raging Whoremoans said:
Seems the church is quite insurmountable for some. Even though she had initiated and fed the fire, when it came down to it she just couldn't get over all of the teachings about how wrong it was. Kinda sad when someone can lie in your arms and describe how intense their desire for you is and in the next breath explain that they just can't indulge. :(


That's the kind of thing that happens so often in real life but you never see in Lit stories. How come?

Tell me porn isn't propaganda!

---dr.M.
 
dr_mabeuse said:
That's the kind of thing that happens so often in real life but you never see in Lit stories. How come?

Tell me porn isn't propaganda!

---dr.M.

:D

Same as your 190 lb. guy with chiseled features and a 10" cock. As well as your 5' 5" blonde/blue eyed female that lives to suck cock, has DD breasts and routinely demands to be fucked harder and faster. :rolleyes:

Maybe I'll write a story where the shame card comes into play. But how well do you really think it'd do?

~ R W
 
I've experimented sexually with my best friend from high school. I wouldn't consider myself to be bi. I was just curious. We used to watch straight porn together and masturbate. We never went as far as penetration, but eventually we tried oral a few times, usually after a couple shots of vodka and a trip to the park at midnight. I can appreciate beauty in other men, but it doesn't excite me. I really just wanted to be different, I think.
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That's the kind of thing that happens so often in real life but you never see in Lit stories. How come?

That's what we want to get away from, and that's what we write--the way we wish it had gone down.

I used to wonder if I was bi, but the couple of times that other girls actually hit on me, I had the same kind of huh? WTF? what'd I do to bring this on reaction that I guess a lot of straight people would have. That's not precisely true--the second time it happened was at my then-best friend's next door neighbor's house, and the most powerful emotion I felt was embarrassment that it had happened in front of my friend, who, if she had come onto me, I might have reacted differently.

I came to the conclusion that I am basically straight, but just have a very good imagination. Either that, or I just have yet to meet the person who'd make me want to switch teams; but then that's what they tell gay people a lot of the time and it's probably not true.
 
I fucked a guy knowing full well I was a dyke. I could have had a V8 instead.
 
my first experimental experience with a woman was an eye opening one, I found that I love women as much as I do men. It happened as a result of my husbands urging, now I think he wishes he had not opened me up to being with women. There is nothing better than having the best of both worlds.


Wicked:kiss:
 
I really couldn't say that I've ever experimented with a gender outside my sexual orientation, since my sexual orientation have been, sans a few confusing puberty years, everyone.

#L
 
Liar said:
I really couldn't say that I've ever experimented with a gender outside my sexual orientation, since my sexual orientation have been, sans a few confusing puberty years, everyone.

#L

*jumping up and down, hand in air* I wanna be a member of the 'everyone' orientation!


~lucky
 
Re: Re: Same Sex Experimentation

wow...

how did/do you feel about the experience?

Remec said:
I'm not sure if this counts as my experimenting or theirs, but had a brief scene count out of a threesome once. My girlfriend and me had been going to a biweekly showing of "Rocky Horror" at a local theater with a friend.

The two of them used to flirt up a storm, and one night, after the show, we were at my place and I was watching them doing the usual pose and make suggestive remarks thing. I came up behind her and kissed her neck and ear, then turned her head to open her mouth to my own.

As we kissed, I reached around and caressed her breasts through her halter top, and then untied it and let them fall free in front of our friend's face. He gave me a look, and she broke the kiss to give me a look, and I smiled and motioned them both back into the bedroom.

After playing around in various ways of the pair of us guys pleasuring her, she moved to suck him while I got behind her. He came in her mouth, and she turned and got up on her knees to kiss me. While we kissed, she reached down and stroked my still hard cock, and then I felt something else.

I glanced down and our friend was licking and jacking me. I looked at her and she raised an eyebrow and mouthed,"Please?" to me...and I nodded. At which point our friend took me between his lips and sucked me off.

Only thing like that I've ever been involved in, and I'm not sure it would've happened without her there.
 
I think if you write it well, it will do well.

I would suggest planning it for a special contest (draws more attention and interest) Something like that could very well win. Most of the contest winners seem to have real stories, real conflict and real life type concerns.

But could the two women still be 5'5 with blond hair and blue eyes and DD breasts?;) (just kidding)

Raging Whoremoans said:
:D

Same as your 190 lb. guy with chiseled features and a 10" cock. As well as your 5' 5" blonde/blue eyed female that lives to suck cock, has DD breasts and routinely demands to be fucked harder and faster. :rolleyes:

Maybe I'll write a story where the shame card comes into play. But how well do you really think it'd do?

~ R W
 
RenzaJones said:
I fucked a guy knowing full well I was a dyke. I could have had a V8 instead.

LOL. Would love to here the details on that one.

Did he know?
 
Liar said:
I really couldn't say that I've ever experimented with a gender outside my sexual orientation, since my sexual orientation have been, sans a few confusing puberty years, everyone.

#L

That's ok, you can still share. How about those confusing years? How'd you sort yourself out?
 
i WOULDN'T

it's sick I wouldn't give it a try it alot better being straight then kissing some other guy people are sick trying it even bis
 
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