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[Sassybabyk]

so I get plenty of messages for role playing but for some reason it just doesn't do it for me. when I explain this to the other party they get upset and a few have bashed me. I am a little and I have no Daddy I would like to chat with people and get to know them ... not roleplay... just upsets me. Has anyone else had to deal with this?

 

[Stella_Omega]

I think every single person with a female-sounding handle has had to deal with this!

1) Don't bother to explain anything to them, just delete their PMs. Block them if they try to come back with abuse.

2) Go to your user's control panel and choose to post in invisible mode so your handle doesn't show up on the front page-- that will cut back on the fuckwads fishing for wank material.

3) Hang out here, with us. We're great!

 

[RunningJib]

Be Yourself

Don't let anyone push you around. Find your niche, make a few friends, express yourself and be yourself

Welcome to Lit

 

[Verycurious18]

I have let with this multiple times, I just ignore them and don't even reply. They will stop eventually. What's worse for me is when they just assume the role of daddy and expect me to hope on Skype for them. I'm very selective and very few can really grasp what I want. They assume I want one to play with and please when really I want one on a more emotional an intimate level. Those men get played with.

Hang in there, sadly there are assholes out there just don't let it affect you.

 

[YourCaptor]

so I get plenty of messages for role playing but for some reason it just doesn't do it for me. when I explain this to the other party they get upset and a few have bashed me. I am a little and I have no Daddy I would like to chat with people and get to know them ... not roleplay... just upsets me. Has anyone else had to deal with this?

Just don't role play.

If they start call them out, like "stop pretending."

 

[MzChrista]

Hey I didn't post here for a few years and when I come back my PMs were full.

Whatever you do don't post in that strap on thread. You'll be dead and in the ground for years and dudes will still be asking you if you want to bone em in the ass.

 

[mnbreastluver]

Sorry about your bad experiences.

 

[abvt75]

Sad Little

I personally cannot play if i don know a person well enough to understand what is the ultimate desire. I have had met ladies or u can say fakes who want to be hot then heavy and then disappear. i understand we have to be discreet but there has to be some element of real interaction of knowing each other. I have had same expereince and still looking for a long term yahoo play partner to talk with, know her and share what i desire

 

[Suzy__Tapshoes]

Yes, what everyone else has said. But I had to develop a shit filter and just delete the crappy messages and pay them no further mind. I did get a few nice PMs and have found a few playmates and one man who is now someone I care for very deeply. It takes a bit of time to weed out the wank-fodder types but there are some top blokes on here. Take strength and confidence from some of the more regular posters, I have learnt a lot about handling my feelings on here and navigating my way through this site from the good guys like @Stella__Omega for example.

Keep your chin up!

 

[Prince Albert]

Sorry to hear about this, hope you find someone that will help you!!!

 

[Bramblethorn]

Hey I didn't post here for a few years and when I come back my PMs were full.

Whatever you do don't post in that strap on thread. You'll be dead and in the ground for years and dudes will still be asking you if you want to bone em in the ass.

This would be an awesome setup for an Erotic Horror story.

 

[ineeda_daddydom]

sorry ure having to deal with the drama but hopefully itll get a lil easier, hang in there =)

 

[subp]

They are out there. I have been so lucky. I hope you will be too. Just know how special you are and don't settle for anything less than perfect. you are the only one who knows what you really want. keep looking till you find it.

 

[navarre]

Hey I didn't post here for a few years and when I come back my PMs were full.

Whatever you do don't post in that strap on thread. You'll be dead and in the ground for years and dudes will still be asking you if you want to bone em in the ass.

Just saw this.

ROFLMAO

 

[Miss Diva]

I had a guy who wanted to be my Daddy and what he was describing and using the word Daddy I was shocked. Daddy Dom is just not my kink . I politely thanked him for his interest and said no.

 

[YourCaptor]

Can we please stop bumping this, the title makes me sad.

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

I'm sorry to hear you are struggling in your search, that sort of longing can be really hard to hold. In the mean time, never underestimate the power of community in shared interests to help pass the time and ease the ache a little.

Have you found the Daddy Fetish thread yet? If not, you should stop by there, they seem a fine bunch of humans.

My deepest wishes for you to have exactly what you want and need.

 

[soulfulfriend]

Thank you for sharing. Some people think there is one path to discovery when they think they are masters of a topic. This is simply not true. Choosing a media to discuss and get to know one another is a much better avenue.

On a side note I like roleplay as a tool. But it is something I want to do with someone I know and care about. Not a total stranger. So keep your head up and keep walking right.

 

[AriadneImmortal]

Hey I didn't post here for a few years and when I come back my PMs were full.

Whatever you do don't post in that strap on thread. You'll be dead and in the ground for years and dudes will still be asking you if you want to bone em in the ass.

I wish I had seen this earlier. Horrible mistake.

 

[Muno42]

Sorry about the experience. I had sent a PM a few weeks ago. Hope you saw it.

 

[Dyslexicea]

Hey I didn't post here for a few years and when I come back my PMs were full.

Whatever you do don't post in that strap on thread. You'll be dead and in the ground for years and dudes will still be asking you if you want to bone em in the ass.

I did post on the strap-on thread with a helpful tip along with a put down, not about men's strap-on desires but about their lack of performance. Just shoot me.

I expected some nasty PMs but didn't get any, as for the other types, didn't get any of those either. I'm assuming the men who post there knew any effort on their part would be futile.

By the way it's isn't just men, when I first started posting here my PM box became full of propositions from other women. I tried at first to respond to all those messages by politely saying I wasn't interested. Didn't work!

For the most part Stella's advice worked for me, made myself invisible and didn't respond to those types of PMs.

I still read every PM I do get, which is manageable, but I only respond to those from others I've posted with on the board or those asking for advice or support. For those of us who are LGBTQ it isn't always easy to find the support we need in the real world, I'm one of the lucky ones, so I'm always willing to help.

 

[box13]

There's a strap-on thread?

I'm sorry that people have been mean to you. That seems entirely unnecessary...you should be able to explain what you want, and have people listen. The advice from others about shielding yourself from yucky pervs is probably the best thing.

Is something helpful, you know, subtle like "I ASSUME THAT ALL MEN WHO ASK ME TO ROLEPLAY HAVE A SMALL PENIS." or something like that on your profile? I should go check though...apologies if that was obvious.

Speaking as a daddy, I do hope you find a nice daddy who cares very much about you, very soon.

Wait...there's a strap-on thread?

 

[blksoldier]

I wish I had seen this earlier. Horrible mistake.

lol that's too funny

 

[Felix_Jones]

so I get plenty of messages for role playing but for some reason it just doesn't do it for me. when I explain this to the other party they get upset and a few have bashed me. I am a little and I have no Daddy I would like to chat with people and get to know them ... not roleplay... just upsets me. Has anyone else had to deal with this?

Perhaps if you took a spoonful of cement you would harden the fuck up.