Running out of time

SlvHoshi

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Okay, so i've been with my current dom for about a month now. We've become friends along with our D/s relationship. So here's my dilema: his birthday is in two weeks . . . What do you get a Dom for their birthday? Just curious to hear some opinions on this.

Thanks!

~Hoshi
 
The best birthday present I ever got from a sub (or anyone for that matter) was the pleasure of her company.

As a Dom, nothing pleases me more than some symbol of submission, of offering. I can afford my own toys, but when a woman takes a risk or makes a sacrifice for me, it touches my heart.
 
I was given an old well worn in whip that means more to me than any other physical thing I've been given. The note that went with it was what made it so special. His description of how he found it, what he imagined it's history had been, and what he hoped it would symbolize for the future, was more of a gift than the whip.
 
I would imagine you give a Dom a birthday gift the same way you'd give anyone important to you a birthday gift- with a great amount of thought and personal attention to the person's interests/etc.

We/we (generally speaking) are more than D/s, even if the D/s is a 24/7 relationship. ;)
 
All are very true statements. i would be more than happy to offer my company to him, though he travels quite a bit in his job and he's not sure if he will even be in the country for his Birthday.
Lillith, i really like that idea, the whip and the history behind it. makes it seem deeper.
thanks again all =^_^= and please keep the ideas coming in. it's not so much what will i get for him now, because i'm sure i can manage, but i'd still like to hear some more about your experiences.
 
SlvHoshi said:
All are very true statements. i would be more than happy to offer my company to him, though he travels quite a bit in his job and he's not sure if he will even be in the country for his Birthday.
Lillith, i really like that idea, the whip and the history behind it. makes it seem deeper.
thanks again all =^_^= and please keep the ideas coming in. it's not so much what will i get for him now, because i'm sure i can manage, but i'd still like to hear some more about your experiences.
*looks for magnifying glass*
 
Much better, thanks.

It sort of depends on the person I guess; I mean, a friend of mine got her Dom a rubber flogger that she was afraid of, knowing that it would be used on her. Some Doms, like Marquis don't want to get toys though. Has he mentioned anything special that he'd like?
 
Of material value, not really, He's fairly well off on that side of things. He did mention, however, having the use of two subs at once. That makes me a little edgy, for more than one reason, but if i was able to make His request happen i would. Several things hinder that, though: the fact that i don't know of any other willing submissives around our area(s) for one
 
snowy ciara said:
Much better, thanks.

It sort of depends on the person I guess; I mean, a friend of mine got her Dom a rubber flogger that she was afraid of, knowing that it would be used on her. Some Doms, like Marquis don't want to get toys though. Has he mentioned anything special that he'd like?


When I said "toys" I was using the term in the general sense, like, all the little knick knacks men get as presents. All in all, a BDSM toy would be a pretty cool gift though, since it has personal relevance to the two of us, especially if it was something the bottom was making a personal sacrifice to get, as in your example.
 
My apologies, Marquis. I thought you meant toys of the bdsm nature. I saw her gift in the same light that you did.
 
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