Does any girl like to have rough sex. What is the percentage of girls who like to be treated rough while having sex? I was wondering what drives a girl to allow there SO to toss them around in different positions and completly dominate them in bed. I actually fine with this but, was interested why some ladies like it. If a girl likes this behavior and tells you she likes but dosen't want to keep telling you to be rough with her then how do you initated it? How do you know how rough she wants it?
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Sokme girls have a more playfully agressive side, which leads to the 'wrestling', while still having a submissive side, which allows for the dominating.
Percentage? 78.5% of percentages are made up off the tops of peoples heads.
Percentage? 78.5% of percentages are made up off the tops of peoples heads.
I enjoy rough sex. I'm not sure I can tell you exactly why, but I have some theories.
For one thing, I have a high powered job at which I am in control of many things. I have to make all the decisions and be the one to call the shots. In my sexual relationship with my husband, I am able to let all that go and be completely in his control. I'm able to do this because I trust him completely, and I know that he would never do anything to injure me, and he would stop if I asked him to.
Another issue relates to my taste in men. I like very strong, very masculine men. Having him take what he wants from me appeals to me in that way, and it also, in some quirky way, makes me feel highly desirable - as if I'm so damn sexy that he just can't control himself.
If your girl has told you she wants it rough, I suggest you give her what she asked for, but start out somewhat slowly, and increase the intensity of the experience over time. That way when you finally do reach the limit of how rough she wants it, she'll have the opportunity to let you know about it.
For one thing, I have a high powered job at which I am in control of many things. I have to make all the decisions and be the one to call the shots. In my sexual relationship with my husband, I am able to let all that go and be completely in his control. I'm able to do this because I trust him completely, and I know that he would never do anything to injure me, and he would stop if I asked him to.
Another issue relates to my taste in men. I like very strong, very masculine men. Having him take what he wants from me appeals to me in that way, and it also, in some quirky way, makes me feel highly desirable - as if I'm so damn sexy that he just can't control himself.
If your girl has told you she wants it rough, I suggest you give her what she asked for, but start out somewhat slowly, and increase the intensity of the experience over time. That way when you finally do reach the limit of how rough she wants it, she'll have the opportunity to let you know about it.
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I'm sure many women like rough sex, but USA Today doesn't exactly poll people on it. There are also big differences in the degree of roughness that most women will like. i.e., most women aren't going to be into rape fantasies, etc., but some playful domination is probably pretty common.
I'm sure many women like rough sex, but USA Today doesn't exactly poll people on it. There are also big differences in the degree of roughness that most women will like. i.e., most women aren't going to be into rape fantasies, etc., but some playful domination is probably pretty common.
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I don't know if it would classify under others definitions of rough sex, but I definately do like it a little rough.
I think it does play into me just wanting to be dominated. There's something appealing about someone wanting you and knowing exactly what way they want you. I also like rougher sex because on occasion it's just what I need I think...very passionate, raw, almost primal.
I think it does play into me just wanting to be dominated. There's something appealing about someone wanting you and knowing exactly what way they want you. I also like rougher sex because on occasion it's just what I need I think...very passionate, raw, almost primal.
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I was raped and have a thing about having controll in bed. I dont like to be dominated it scares me.
I have no idea what %...why do you need to know that?
I have no idea what %...why do you need to know that?
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The kind of rough sex I enjoy is hard, pounding thrusting. When the sound of his balls slapping against me fills the room. The kind that leaves my pussy sore for a day or so afterwards. Every time I feel that ache, I remember how it occurred!
How about asking her how rough she wants it??
How about asking her how rough she wants it??
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Four_Inch_Heels said:The kind of rough sex I enjoy is hard, pounding thrusting. When the sound of his balls slapping against me fills the room. The kind that leaves my pussy sore for a day or so afterwards. Every time I feel that ache, I remember how it occurred!
How about asking her how rough she wants it??
mmm, lotsa tingles going on here
Thats just the way i like it.
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Four_Inch_Heels said:The kind of rough sex I enjoy is hard, pounding thrusting. When the sound of his balls slapping against me fills the room. The kind that leaves my pussy sore for a day or so afterwards. Every time I feel that ache, I remember how it occurred!
How about asking her how rough she wants it??
Love that day after ache too! And when you suddenly notice it and get a secret smile at the memory.
Define rough for me, andyandy. Do you mean nail raking, shoulder biting, pussy pounding type rough or bondage rough? There are many many levels of "rough stuff" you know.
I like it rough - sometimes. Other times I prefer things to be softer. Hey, anything all the time is kinda boring and old, ya know?
How does my SO know when to initiate rough sex? Most of the time he doesn't. I usually give him clues, though. Such as bringing out the flogger or the slapper. That's a big time clue. Another one is when I'm playfully "sassy" with him. He rarely, if ever, initiates rough sex unless it's a smack on my ass. Then he sees how I react and plays off of that.
What is the percentage? I haven't a clue. But then, you must keep in mind that there are a lot of women who like rough sex occasionally, not all the time. So a better question might be: Often does a woman like rough sex, if she engages in it.
Oh, and yes, I do believe all of us here are women, not girls. I know I am.
How does my SO know when to initiate rough sex? Most of the time he doesn't. I usually give him clues, though. Such as bringing out the flogger or the slapper. That's a big time clue. Another one is when I'm playfully "sassy" with him. He rarely, if ever, initiates rough sex unless it's a smack on my ass. Then he sees how I react and plays off of that.
What is the percentage? I haven't a clue. But then, you must keep in mind that there are a lot of women who like rough sex occasionally, not all the time. So a better question might be: Often does a woman like rough sex, if she engages in it.
Oh, and yes, I do believe all of us here are women, not girls. I know I am.
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Nothing can feed an ego more than just doing anything and everything with a woman, overcoming her proffered resistance, and finding her incredibly turned on by it all.
Yes, it helps to know each other and know where the hard limits are. Try this at the beginning of a sexual relationship and the odds are in favor of you ending up in jail.
Yes, it helps to know each other and know where the hard limits are. Try this at the beginning of a sexual relationship and the odds are in favor of you ending up in jail.
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I really enjoy rough sex, especially when it's doggy and he
pounds into me as he squeezes by ass/hips hard enough to leave a little bruise. Unfortunately, he's afraid he's going to really hurt me because he's a big strong guy so he does hold back on the roughness. I love the soreness the next day too!
pounds into me as he squeezes by ass/hips hard enough to leave a little bruise. Unfortunately, he's afraid he's going to really hurt me because he's a big strong guy so he does hold back on the roughness. I love the soreness the next day too!
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I also really enjoy rough sex
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