Rough sex bleeding

[Reyhoney]

I recently started seeing this guy who is on the bigger side and we’ve been using condoms and he usually “slays the kitty” HARD but I always end up seeing blood on his condom. I don’t really spot usually so I think it’s the condom! I’m always so turned on and wet so I’m not sure what could be happening? Any tips? I feel so embarrassed when it happens and I see it getting on his sheets (he always reassures me it’ll be washed out just fine and isn’t phased by it, it’s more me)

Thanks in advance!

 

[ChefMario77]

If he's bigger than you are used to and it's a little rougher than normal, could just be small tears on your vaginal walls.

Happened with my wife when we first got married.

 

[rae121452]

bitch, just do it. you've got what everyone else is wishing for. spread that coochie!

 

[Islander55]

While the vagina is pretty resilient, it can be damaged. It sounds like the rough sex and large size is creating tears. While small cuts and tears can usually heal by themselves, they can easily lead to an infection and become quite serious. This is not something you should ignore. At least ease off the intensity and see if you can adjust to him. The best thing to do would be check with your doctor and make sure there are no serious issues.

 

[hulmule]

Nothing to mess with ! take care of yourself !!

 

[KatieDoes]

I recently started seeing this guy who is on the bigger side and we’ve been using condoms and he usually “slays the kitty” HARD but I always end up seeing blood on his condom. I don’t really spot usually so I think it’s the condom! I’m always so turned on and wet so I’m not sure what could be happening? Any tips? I feel so embarrassed when it happens and I see it getting on his sheets (he always reassures me it’ll be washed out just fine and isn’t phased by it, it’s more me)

Thanks in advance!

If there’s no pain to indicate tearing or injury, you could have cervical polyp(s). If he’s longer than last partners, he could be reaching your cervix and causing them to bleed. They usually aren’t serious, but you should talk with your doctor and get checked. It’s an easy removal process, but left unchecked can lead to cervical cancer.

 

[colddiesel]

How about the obvious conclusion? Reyhoney's new guy is a clumsy inconsiderate asshole.

 

[Reyhoney]

How about the obvious conclusion? Reyhoney's new guy is a clumsy inconsiderate asshole.

Actually he isn’t at all. He’s not even that rough, I’m the one who tells him to go harder because during it I’m enjoying it, it doesn’t hurt and I don’t feel uncomfortable. He always stops if I look like I’m struggling to take it.

Could it be the condom? There’s always this tugging and stinging whenever I use condoms regardless of the partner.

 

[Islander55]

isn't it also affected by how close to the monthly it is? the one or two times i got a little tear there was shortly before the monthly and since then He doesn't fuck me that close to the monthly as roughly as usually

I never had any problem near my monthly but there are vaginal changes and you might well be more likely to sustain some damage.

 

[Asian_Flower]

If there’s no pain to indicate tearing or injury, you could have cervical polyp(s). If he’s longer than last partners, he could be reaching your cervix and causing them to bleed. They usually aren’t serious, but you should talk with your doctor and get checked. It’s an easy removal process, but left unchecked can lead to cervical cancer.

I think you are right with it being cervical. When I first met my now hubby and we were still in the "fucking our brains out every 5 minutes" stage I had the same problem. I got checked by my Gyno and she said it was cervical due to his size and I think the word she used was robust, penetration hahahaha

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Actually he isn’t at all. He’s not even that rough, I’m the one who tells him to go harder because during it I’m enjoying it, it doesn’t hurt and I don’t feel uncomfortable. He always stops if I look like I’m struggling to take it.

Could it be the condom? There’s always this tugging and stinging whenever I use condoms regardless of the partner.

If you think it's the condom, you could try some lubrication gel or cream, like K-Y. That could make for a smoother experience. (unless of course, you like it rough )