Rope Play

[devilsangel1456]

I recently have been playing around with ropes and different binding with my master. So far I am not doing so well i tend to try to fight him resulting in punishment of course. So does anyone have any websites or suggestions for me on what to expect or different ways ropes are used because I am just very unfamiliar with the whole topic.

 

[FurryFury]

Why are you fighting him?

Do you know?

My husband thinks it's great fun to show how quickly he can get free.

I don't find it amusing.

He's learned not to do that at all or, if I'm feeling generous, until I get him the cue that he can.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Probably need to elaborate a little more on what is happening for anyone to feel able to offer any thoughts.

Catalina

 

[Homburg]

I recently have been playing around with ropes and different binding with my master. So far I am not doing so well i tend to try to fight him resulting in punishment of course. So does anyone have any websites or suggestions for me on what to expect or different ways ropes are used because I am just very unfamiliar with the whole topic.

If you click on the link in my sig you will find a thread on the ropework I do. While the thread doesn't have any real instruction in it, you will find a post linked in the first post that has quite a few sites that you might find useful.

 

[licker4450]

Trust is an important factor in bondage. Like was asked, why are you fighting it?

Is it that you arent submissive? Personally, I abhor the idea of being tied up. Then again, I am a Dom so it is not something that interests me. If you are submissive, do you have confidence in the person you are with to do it successfully and safely? These are two important factors that many often overlook.

 

[devilsangel1456]

I guess I did not state it right I dont mean that I litterally am fighting it but having trouble adjusting my body to the different positions, I really enjoy it but I would like to know more about it. I also keep finding it rather easy to get out of some of the positions. Would it be unacceptable to ask my master to tie me tighter (if you cant tell this is the first fully submissive relationship I have had)? Thanks for the help

 

[FurryFury]

So, wait, the ties are so loose you can just move out of position?

 

[devilsangel1456]

So, wait, the ties are so loose you can just move out of position?

Yea i am double jointed especially with my hips i can dislocate them very easily even when i try to hold still my master is getting rather frustrated and well the beatings for moving are very enjoyable I want to please him, so do i just ask him to tie them tighter or is that stepping out of line?

 

[FurryFury]

Y'all need to have a discussion about all this and work out a way to deal with things.

If he likes to beat you and you enjoy being beaten that's fine. Perhaps binding you inadequately knowing you will move is his "excuse" for such?

It's possible he needs more practice and a mentor to show him how to use knots and rope better. I know I went and found someone to help me with those things with my escape artist husband.

At the same time I listened to him as well as explained how his antics made me feel. We worked out a compromise that works well for both of us.

That's what I think you need to do.

 

[devilsangel1456]

Thanks I will talk to him

 

[FurryFury]

Thanks I will talk to him

Kewl.

Please let us know how things turn out?

 

[locked_tight]

are you after rope binding, bondage, or full suspension?

i can understand that with suspension you may have issues with joints, but with even an very fullon hog tie that can take metres and metres of rope shouldn't really result in dislocations ..

for rope binding and bondage then try this site, http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/fsbdgprc.htm.

also i had a link for these awesome gauntlets that you make out of binding rope .. but i can't find the link atm :/

local BDSM shops and groups may also have demonstraions and workshops for people to join in with. try contacting you local BDSM retailer for any information, or google your city and see hwat pops up.

best of luck!