Rope bondage.............

Wizard

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Wizard said:

Thanks Wizard, glad to see you back. Hope you and yours had a great holiday.

Eb
 
Thanks Eb, we did have a nice holiday complete with NO FIGHTING.......It was cool..

Hope yours was nice as well ...................;)
 
Wizard said:
Thanks Eb, we did have a nice holiday complete with NO FIGHTING.......It was cool..

Hope yours was nice as well ...................;)

No fighting? WOW. I did not fight with my family either this time, but being 3000 miles away helps!

Eb
 
Ebonyfire said:
No fighting? WOW. I did not fight with my family either this time, but being 3000 miles away helps!

Eb


Yea my father passed away last year so I as an only child Had to invite my mother out to our house to spend xmas with us. Catch is I don't really get along with her but things were cool. skitten made a great xmas dinner and she spent the night with us and it was kinda nice..........
 
HI Wiz!

Many sweet and warm Christmas hugs to you.

Now, if I bring the ribbon, would you do a bit of a demonstration for me?

On me?

:devil:
 
MissTaken said:
HI Wiz!

Many sweet and warm Christmas hugs to you.

Now, if I bring the ribbon, would you do a bit of a demonstration for me?

On me?

:devil:


You better belive I would..............But only ribbon?.........A little melow for you isn't it?..........;) I bet you would look so good with a nice harness and crotch rope...........:D ;)


And a Merry Christmas hug right back at ya.........:cool:
 
Wizard said:
You better belive I would..............But only ribbon?.........A little melow for you isn't it?..........;) I bet you would look so good with a nice harness and crotch rope...........:D ;)


And a Merry Christmas hug right back at ya.........:cool:

I just thought I would make a mighty perdy Christmas gift!

You could even top it with a candle or two!

:D
 
I must tell the others that I hvae been following Wiz' s links (and Wizzie) since before a rope or scarf or cuff ever crossed these petite wrists!

Wizzie, you rock, dear friend.

hugs to you and skitten!

:rose:
 
Awesome links Wizard. Thanks. This is definitely an area I've been thinking about lately :)

I only looked a few but this is gives me something to look at for awhile :)

Thanks again and good to see you back.

PBW
 
Enjoy PBW, I really haven't gone anywhere just on two weeks vaction right now.........I still read the board everyday.......and post once and a while.......:)


Check them out there cool....I found them helpful.:cool:
 
bumping this one up for several reasons.... they are awesome links, as usual...

and was hoping Miss Taken would find herself bound like wizard suggested and show us....

a girl can dream can't she?
 
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question for all experienced at bondage. a Dom i have been talking to told me the other night that He wasn't into intricate scenes like rope bondage, suspension etc. bec most of the time this type of activity requires a lot of effort and time. that the act of preparing, tying, suspending sometimes takes so much effort that the "fire" tends to go out during the process.

i ask you you this...is this the case with others? have you ever lost the fire because a rope slips, or a harness breaks etc? does the fire burn out for the bottom if the Top isn't experienced and is fumbling through knots etc? any funny bondage stories?

would be interested in the feeback

Thanks, Skye
 
I never deal with rope bondage for the simple reason: I can't tie knots. I can't even keep my shoelaces tied. The easiest thing for me is leather cuffs, hooks, and leashes.
 
skye in silk said:
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question for all experienced at bondage. a Dom i have been talking to told me the other night that He wasn't into intricate scenes like rope bondage, suspension etc. bec most of the time this type of activity requires a lot of effort and time. that the act of preparing, tying, suspending sometimes takes so much effort that the "fire" tends to go out during the process.

i ask you you this...is this the case with others? have you ever lost the fire because a rope slips, or a harness breaks etc? does the fire burn out for the bottom if the Top isn't experienced and is fumbling through knots etc? any funny bondage stories?

would be interested in the feeback

Thanks, Skye


as a Dom I feel the delay can add to the fire.............The waiting for what is about to come.......
I spend hours planning our playtimes and it can take hours to pull off also.
I love to take my time and drag things out.
Just me, I bet others are the same but thats just us.



After thinking about this I also want ot say one of the reasons things can take so long is I have to have them perfect or they won't be done. Knots need to be tied correctly so if a situation would come up I can remove them or cut them instantly......Safety is my first and main concern.
2nd would be her pleasure....If she is pleased then I will be very pleased as well:D
 
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skye in silk said:
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question for all experienced at bondage. a Dom i have been talking to told me the other night that He wasn't into intricate scenes like rope bondage, suspension etc. bec most of the time this type of activity requires a lot of effort and time. that the act of preparing, tying, suspending sometimes takes so much effort that the "fire" tends to go out during the process.

i ask you you this...is this the case with others? have you ever lost the fire because a rope slips, or a harness breaks etc? does the fire burn out for the bottom if the Top isn't experienced and is fumbling through knots etc? any funny bondage stories?

would be interested in the feeback

Thanks, Skye

Reinforcing what Wizard has already posted. Preparation is paramount. That includes checking all the materials, harness's, etc. that are going to be used. Reviewing every technique with the ropes or other accessories. The time spent in preparation is time and effort well spent.

And the rewards are worth the effort. Like Wizard, I enjoy the process and the extended time yeilds great rewards for both partners.

I have never done a suspension and I doubt that I would even attempt same without extensive consultation with someone that has, including a demonstration of the techniques used. The potential dangers in a suspension are just to great to go off half cocked.

Inept rope handling, knot tying, etc. are not only annoying, it can be down right dangerous. Once again, preparation, practice, and patience are the keys to success.

Ishmael
 
Skye,

Just wanted to say I agree with Wizard and Ishmael, the preparation and time taken to properly bind someone all increases the anticipation and stokes the fire. The longer the wait the more intense the eventual act.

On a personal level. IMHO - if I was a sub, I think I would be very worried about entrusting myself and my welfare to a Dom who wanted instant results.

When my partner and I plan a scene the one thing we try to ensure is that within reason there are no time limiting factors. Taking our time is all part of the process.

jon :devil: :devil: :devil:
 
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