Role playing questions

[TxBelle]

OK so I've seen a few references to role palying and my new friend has mentioned he likes this. I have no idea how far into it to get or even what types of things you are supposed to do. What kind of things do you play? Do you get on a kick and kind of play the role for days, hours, one sexual encounter?

 

[coppertop429]

OK so I've seen a few references to role palying and my new friend has mentioned he likes this. I have no idea how far into it to get or even what types of things you are supposed to do. What kind of things do you play? Do you get on a kick and kind of play the role for days, hours, one sexual encounter?

I think it probably varies significantly from couple (or insert number of participants here ) to couple. My boyfriend and I role play sometimes...though we're still getting more into it.

Okay, first question: "I have no idea how far into it to get or even what types of things you are supposed to do." Basically you pick a kind of "scene" to play out, or act like certain people/kinds of people/ occupations. Just pretend and get dirty! (Or keep it clean if you like, it's all up to you .)

Next: "What kind of things do you play?" Well, it depends -- what turns you on? It can vary from cheerleader to maid to doctor/patient to almost anything...your imagination is the limit! How creative can you get? Really, though, it depends on what gets you horny and what kinds of fantasies you've had in the past (as well as your partner's). Personally I'm almost willing to do any kind of role-playing, so long as it gets my boyfriends hands on me...mmm...::blush::

Next: "Do you get on a kick and kind of play the role for days, hours, one sexual encounter?" Again, I think it varies, especially with the "level" you want to role play at. Again with my own personal experiences... my bf and I have several roles that we use, but we tend to do them for one, um, "encounter" and then do either the same thing or something entirely different (sometimes not role playing) the next time we spend time together. Most of the time, the role playing (for us) only lasts as until orgasm...by then he and I become, well, rather side-tracked....

Honest, though, it can be virtually anything and for any amount of time.

Hope that helps!

 

[DevilishTexan]

You could play the sexy photographer and he could play the tripod LOL!













I know, I'm sooo bad!

 

[BTK51]

We're Newbies To This

OK so I've seen a few references to role palying and my new friend has mentioned he likes this.

We're new to really getting into this. We've occasionaly done this during our marriage but have really started to get into iot in the last year or so. Each time it gets more fun.

As for your questions:

I have no idea how far into it to get or even what types of things you are supposed to do.
As far as you feel comfortable with. We incorporate some light BDSM & bondage into many so we have safe words in case our role playing takes us in that direction. We’re somewhat reserved but the further you get into it, the more you push your boundaries. We find it takes a lot of the awkwardness out of trying new things.

What kind of things do you play?
As coppertop said, whatever turns you on. We have acted out threesomes (that’s a tough one for me because you have to play two different people & keep them straight), Boss/Worker, Masseur/Client, rape scenes, Policeman/Woman during a traffic stop, strangers in a bar, … I think you get the idea. I spent a lot of time looking for ideas and couldn’t find any real good source. I’m sure there is a book or game out there somewhere so maybe someone more experienced could help out here.
I’m finding that the imagination, stories, a movie/TV show or maybe even something that happened during the day are the best sources.

Do you get on a kick and kind of play the role for days, hours, one sexual encounter?
One sexual encounter is the norm for us but we’re fairly new at it. Now we may have a long buildup to it (several hours). Occasionally, we’ll slip back into the role later on or the next day but that’s a rarity and usually just a way of saying “I really enjoyed that role play”

Hope that helps. Just go for it and learn from each experience. at least with us I find that you get a lot better each time.

 

[ChromeCollar]

I saw a special on Real Sex about pony roleplay. That made me giggle so! Do people really do that? Okay, totally off topic I know. Sorry. ;]

 

[DevilishTexan]

I saw a special on Real Sex about pony roleplay. That made me giggle so! Do people really do that? Okay, totally off topic I know. Sorry. ;]

I saw that too. I thought that was the most rediculous thing I've ever seen. I mean, have you actually gone through the entire Kama Sutra, the Joy of Sex, all the Bdsm books and parties, swinger parties, and have explored EVERY other avenue of sex that now, you feel like being a friggin' horse????? What the hell ever people!!! TxGirl already has a horse, so I'm sure she won't have to indulge in THAT freaky stuff lol!!!

 

[Parklife]

as far as Role Playing goes.. you really just need to identify situations that may turn you on... if you think a certain situation (teacher/student, master/slave, boss/secretary, officer/thief, etc...) could be sexy, the role-playing could be sexy.

Go with what turns you or your partner on... and see where it takes you.

Once you've got the standards down, your mind can explore things a bit further...

And yes, pony boys and girls exist.. I've seen them often at certain festivals in San Francisco... (of course, sometimes I think things ONLY exist in San Francisco...)

 

[TxBelle]

I saw a special on Real Sex about pony roleplay. That made me giggle so! Do people really do that? Okay, totally off topic I know. Sorry. ;]

No off topic is me sitting here eating a big bowl of my Daddy's homemade butter beans and putting off filling out my app to go perm at my job while reading replys to my posts! This was not what I had planned fo rmy night but it's oh so much more fun.

Threads should evolve and everyone around here is so supportive of damn near everything it's nice to see someone speak up about just how fucking stupid some shit is. And that pony stuff just weirds me the fuck out.

 

[TxBelle]

Re: We're Newbies To This

As for your questions:

I have no idea how far into it to get or even what types of things you are supposed to do.
As far as you feel comfortable with. We incorporate some light BDSM & bondage into many so we have safe words in case our role playing takes us in that direction.

As coppertop said, whatever turns you on. We have acted out threesomes (that’s a tough one for me because you have to play two different people & keep them straight), Boss/Worker, Masseur/Client, rape scenes, Policeman/Woman during a traffic stop, strangers in a bar, … I think you get the idea.
I’m finding that the imagination, stories, a movie/TV show or maybe even something that happened during the day are the best sources.

D

Thus my problem.....all of my fantasies are on the submissive edge and the rest are pretty limited. Maybe I just need to get the imagination going but the idea of doing the whole strangers meeting in a bar thing or the reserved teacher turned badass bitch with a ruler thing just seems a little beyond my abilities.

 

[TxBelle]

You could play the sexy photographer and he could play the tripod LOL!

I know, I'm sooo bad!

Nah...wait we already did th....um was that role playing if so I did a damn good job cuz he wants to play that game again.

...Spread that tripod out a little more . Ooops no now bring it up a little higher babe. Oh yeah right there perfect!.....

 

[DevilishTexan]

Nah...wait we already did th....um was that role playing if so I did a damn good job cuz he wants to play that game again.

...Spread that tripod out a little more . Ooops no now bring it up a little higher babe. Oh yeah right there perfect!.....

And they say size don't matter lol! Only the ones that ain't had a big stiff one in em'

 

[varime]

I've done a little roleplaying; our situation wasn't too intense, but it wa a lot of fun.
We went to a party, going with two separate unrelated groups. Then, we played party sluts, hitting on all these different people, and really just getting off on teasing everyone. Then, we "just met" and went and had sex in the bathroom, then told our rides we'd find another way home.
Like I said, not too in-depth, but a lot of fun.

 

[A7inchPhildo]

Hey your at Lit pick a story and act it out. Rent a porn flick and mimick the script. Book, magazine, TV, Movie. One I used to like was getting a porn mag and reconstructing the photo shoot.

And before you get tired of it pick another completely different theme. Keep it fun sexy and silly never be so serious to make any thing exact enjoy the moment.

 

[freddyandeddy]

As an example of how we do it: my wife still has and fits her cheerleading outfit from high school (I KNOW, how lucky am I?). Anyway, I come home from the gym all sweaty and she'll be dressed in it and we'll pretend I'm the athlete after LOSING the "big game." She then consoles me and seduces me (I have a pretend girlfriend that is her rival for my affections). It's a pretty long and drawn out adventure, but you get the drift.

 

[SexyChele]

OK so I've seen a few references to role palying and my new friend has mentioned he likes this. I have no idea how far into it to get or even what types of things you are supposed to do. What kind of things do you play? Do you get on a kick and kind of play the role for days, hours, one sexual encounter?

I've only done this a few times. For me, I find it very expensive because I get real anal about the details. I had a boyfriend who once wanted to do the little girl/older man thing. It's never been my thing, but I figured I'd give it a shot. It was just one sexual encounter and basically I acted shy and hesitant. He had to win me over and take my "virginity." We had discussed it previously so I knew what sort of things he was looking for. But, as I said, dressing up and playing a young girl is not my thing, so it truly was an acting job. But I do have to admit that when it came to the sex, it was absolutely amazing!

I've also done the Master/slave - but then I can be very submissive in the bedroom, so that didn't seem like a roleplay to me.

My current S/O has a fantasy of meeting a complete stranger in a bar and then renting a cheap motel room for sex. I would love to carry this one off, but would want to be able to make myself look like another person. And that would include at least a wig that doesn't look like a holdover from Halloween and clothing he hasn't seen before. See? I told you things can get expensive with my desire for detail. As to how that would play out? Easy. I would simply call him and ask him to meet me at a certain bar. I would make certain I was there first. With a change of hair and clothing he may or may not recognize me immediately. When he comes in and sits down, I would totally come on to him and simply "be" another woman.

If you and your man have discussed ideas ahead of time, then you showing up in costume is going to trigger his brain into knowing it's "roleplaying time." He should just jump in. After that, the two of you just play off of each other.

It really is fun because you get to be some one else for a while. I find it easier to say/do things I wouldn't normally because I'm playing a role. Silly, I know, but still lots of fun!

 

[TxBelle]

Re: Re: Role playing questions

I've only done this a few times. For me, I find it very expensive because I get real anal about the details. I had a boyfriend who once wanted to do the little girl/older man thing. It's never been my thing, but I figured I'd give it a shot. It was just one sexual encounter and basically I acted shy and hesitant. He had to win me over and take my "virginity." We had discussed it previously so I knew what sort of things he was looking for. But, as I said, dressing up and playing a young girl is not my thing, so it truly was an acting job. But I do have to admit that when it came to the sex, it was absolutely amazing!

I've also done the Master/slave - but then I can be very submissive in the bedroom, so that didn't seem like a roleplay to me.

My current S/O has a fantasy of meeting a complete stranger in a bar and then renting a cheap motel room for sex. I would love to carry this one off, but would want to be able to make myself look like another person. And that would include at least a wig that doesn't look like a holdover from Halloween and clothing he hasn't seen before. See? I told you things can get expensive with my desire for detail. As to how that would play out? Easy. I would simply call him and ask him to meet me at a certain bar. I would make certain I was there first. With a change of hair and clothing he may or may not recognize me immediately. When he comes in and sits down, I would totally come on to him and simply "be" another woman.

If you and your man have discussed ideas ahead of time, then you showing up in costume is going to trigger his brain into knowing it's "roleplaying time." He should just jump in. After that, the two of you just play off of each other.

It really is fun because you get to be some one else for a while. I find it easier to say/do things I wouldn't normally because I'm playing a role. Silly, I know, but still lots of fun!

See I would be the same damn way! The whoel new outfit and wig thing would break me right now.

On the way to the club the other night I asked my girlfriend about role playing. Our conclusion is that in the end we would just giggle like idiots.

 

[freddyandeddy]

My current S/O has a fantasy of meeting a complete stranger in a bar and then renting a cheap motel room for sex. I would love to carry this one off, but would want to be able to make myself look like another person. And that would include at least a wig that doesn't look like a holdover from Halloween and clothing he hasn't seen before. See? I told you things can get expensive with my desire for detail. As to how that would play out? Easy. I would simply call him and ask him to meet me at a certain bar. I would make certain I was there first. With a change of hair and clothing he may or may not recognize me immediately. When he comes in and sits down, I would totally come on to him and simply "be" another woman.

Damn! This is word for word the same fantasy we're planning to play out. In the name of originality, perhaps we'll change things so that she'll be dressed more college age and I'm her English professor. She'll approach me at the bar and I'll pretend I don't know she's in my class (though I've been "eyeing her" the whole semester). I figure she manages to seduce me even though I'm married and I'm helpless to resist her advances. I think we'll borrow from another post and check into a cheap motel to complete the deal. Thanks!!!

 

[The Pirate Hawk]

Ask him what he like to role play as? Get feedback from him. Does he really want to role play or is there something he is wanting but not sure how to ask for it?

 

[SexyChele]

Re: Re: Re: Role playing questions

See I would be the same damn way! The whoel new outfit and wig thing would break me right now.

On the way to the club the other night I asked my girlfriend about role playing. Our conclusion is that in the end we would just giggle like idiots.

Yes, I thought I would giggle like made when it came time to do the "little girl" role, but I surprised myself. Some have told me I'm a natural at acting, so I was able to get into the role and play it off with nary a giggle to be heard!

As far as costuming/dressing up is concerned, it really comes down to creativity. Me? I'm just an anal retentive fruitcake about it. Other women can pull it off with items in their own closets. Each woman is different. Actually, when I played the "little girl" role it wasn't all that expensive. Just some cheap cotton panties and lacey anklet socks. I already had a pair of black high heels (how does that fit in with a "little girl"? I've no idea - it's what he wanted!), and putting my hair into pigtails was not big deal. Coming up with a tight little t-shirt was easy as well.

So sometimes just taking a good look at what you have on hand and being a little creative can go a long way. Besides, I don't think the guys are as into the details as us women can be!

 

[SlowGuy]

So sometimes just taking a good look at what you have on hand and being a little creative can go a long way. Besides, I don't think the guys are as into the details as us women can be!

I agree, women are more likely to say, "No those socks don't go with a poodle skirt." For guys, it's more a matter of a few visual cues. Of course, a good actor can make it work wearing a Hefty Cinch Sak.

For low-cost RP, there's always the skinny-dipper who misplaced her clothes.

 

[dirtracin24]

play mailman and lonely house wife
boss and secretary