role play?

[shelleb4]

Hello everyone and thankyou for reading this.

well the bdsm thing is going well, we are about two weeks in and so far, very oh so very good.
I have a question to those of you who may know?

I wonder if there is a sort of 'play' that i could read, various sexual themes may be addressed. You could choose from a menu of 'plays' and pass them to your partner, and order the No.34 or something. Because so far this is proving the most profitable experience for me a novice.
Alternatively, a succinct description of what is role play and how you embark on this little avenue?

I have children and in two days have two days, whereby the hours of 9-3 will be child free, im in the mood, so is he, and all the stars have lined up in the right direction, bla bla bla. So if any one has any suggestions, could it be quickish?

thanks for the time

 

[phoenix1224]

HOW ABOUT...

1 NAUGHTY SCHOOLGIRL/ STERN TEACHER (SPANKING)

2 BAD DAUGHTER/ DIRTY DADDY (SPANKING)

3 SEXY HITCH HIKER/ DANGEROUS STRANGER (KIDNAP/ RAPE)

4 DRUNK COLLEGE GIRL/ SLEAZY FRAT BOY (RAPE)

... JUST SOME OF MY FAVORITES... HAVE FUN...

 

[shelleb4]

thankyou pheonix (love the name)

so are we supposed to 'pretend' and act? That seems daft, i think id just laugh from embarassment. And i suspect he'd be reluctant.

we are both novice and in some ways im topping from the bottom, maybe this is for later when our confidence is greater.

ill suggest it and see how its received, or just start it and see how he reacts.

 

[phoenix1224]

THE FIRST TWO, YOU COULD PROBABLY GET HIM INTO QUITE EASILY... ESPECIALLY, IF YOU WALK INTO THE ROOM IN A CATHOLIC SCHOOLGIRL UNIFORM AND START TALKING IN A LITTLE GIRL'S VOICE (THAT'S HOW IT HAPPENED TO ME THE FIRST TIME AND I LOVED IT) BUT, THE LAST TWO ARE FOR THE MORE EXPERIENCED IN ROLE PLAY GAMES... BUT, YOU KNOW YOUR MAN, SO HAVE FUN...

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Hi, a Phoenix of a different feather here -- only suggestion I have is have you tried the bdsm board?

(It's an interesting idea to have actual scripts. Might help us newbies come up with more convincing lines honed by the more experienced. I know dress-up wouldn't work for us, yet it would be great to have a convincing script my dh could use. I'm the subby one, he just likes sex and to make me happy. I've tried to feed him lines to try a little but as he's not much of a talker, more of an action guy.... Anyway, I hope you hear from people and will keep checking this thread, too. Thanks for posting it. )

 

[herecomestherain]

an interesting site

lots of ideas here,http://www.akashaweb.com/goodgirl.html

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Thank, Thank You, 'rain!

I just turned the genders around to apply to my situation and am going to show the info to my dh. It really clarified my thinking about the subject, too.

Rather than scripts to read off, ways to think approach the subject and how-to's that helps you do it, without written scripts, even when new. To get at the essence of d/s, using power in a sensual context. And helping the sub give you what you both want.

 

[sobesundevil]

hi shelle! i'm curious as to your progression into bdsm... i've been fascinated by some of its aspects but not others, for example, i do not wish to be humiliated and i don't think i am very submissive... and in my hanging around bdsm-themed chat rooms, i've been booed many times by those claiming that i do not understand the "lifestyle" and curiosity about the physical acts alone makes me unwelcome there (?) there's also all kinds of etiquette rules and stuff, most of which i find plain silly. what about you - are you fully "into the lifestyle" or do you just like certain aspects of bdsm?

 

[Phoenix Stone]

I know you're not asking me and I'm sorry to hijack but... check out the bdsm talk here. Friendly, informative, etc. See the library there. And, especially, check out that link listed above (akasha). She really is GREAT at discussing the basics, the subtler forms for the formerly vanilla etc. (I've been trying to figure out if I fit into bdsm or not and that site is what's helped me the most.)