Right at the edge of sexual control - then - over that edge.

[Sparky Kronkite]

That's what I love, desire, strive for.

Pushing the edge. I always push the edge in everything I do. If I don't, what was once fun, becomes regular - I become complacent, I become bored.

And that's in anything and everything I do. If I initially find something of interest, learn about it for a while and come to find out that "it has a ceiling" or that to continue to push "this particular" envelope would prove dangerous.......

I will drop that interest like a bad habit.

Sex for me - pushing that envelope - had never even come close to being dropped by me. I will continue to push that envelope until I can't do it anymore.

Here's my point - I don't understand why everyone doesn't feel the same way. I don't understand why anybody gets into sexual ruts. I don't understand sexual boredom - unless of course - it's a personal choice. Which I don't understand.

Considering "life is so, so short," why would anyone choose sexual boredom and choose not to push the envelope?

Societal rules? Nope, not for me. Fuck society. I'm going to fuck until my dick drops off. I'm going to continue to get my wife off in better, more quality ways. I will continue to buy new toys and undies and what ever becomes available to experiment and enhance our sex life.

I don't get it. Why wouldn't everybody do the same?

 

[BasilDD]

Some people just drift into a rut and then can see a way out. I'm with you though. You can't beat experimentation in new ideas to keep the mind young and the body willing!

 

[Cherry]

OOhhhhhh YES!

I love it when the big guy tilts me over the edge of the precipice ... pulls me back and drives me higher and higher ... until we both LEAP!

Doesn't everybody?

 

[Rambling Rose]

Sparky, you're turning me on. I can't believe it. I feel so dirty.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Pushing it still - won't ever quit.

Sexually? "We" continue to experiment with the "lifestyle." The Shebabe never ceases to amaze me. We do go slow - not too fast - but we go quite a bit further than your average Joe out there. And there is no end in sight either. It's explosive.

Family stuff? Both older boys continue to make music in various bands - I'm beginning to jam with them. Too cool! The two year old? I'm working basketball into his life. And reading about trucks.

Proffessional? Got one job (starts in June) but holding out and waiting to hear from the World Bank - one of the top jobs in my field - on the globe. I've got a better shot than anybody and don't even think they've interviewed anyone else. I was told by them that if I get another offer I should let them know immediately. I feel pretty good about it. Fingers crossed.

Old hobbies?

Motorcycleing? I'm rejetting my bike for more horsepower - should get about 130 with the kit - adding a steering damper and going over to stickier racing type tires.

Music? Just about there on the recording side - still need a couple of pieces from NYC to make it all work as it should. And - my writing? All other forms of music totally bore me now. I am making totally Sparky Music. It's like nothing you've ever heard.

Reading? Carl Hiaason's new one - better than the last two.

New hobby? Guns! Yep the Marine, Virginia redneck in my has finally come out of me in full. I inherited a couple of pieces and now have purchased my first piece. I hope to get involved in comp-shooting in the near future. I'm a natural. Dirty Sparky.

And I'm looking, after I secure a new job - to get a new WRX Subaru. Planning on lowering it, wheel/tires, exhaust - etc..

And I haven't even gotten to boats yet. But I will.

 

[Azwed]

Sparky after you get bored of the WRX can I buy it off you?