Research question for men

[Whispersecret]

About how often do you get an unwanted erection during the course of a day? What are some of the ways you hide it?

I often write from the perspective of a male character, and I want to be accurate. Thanks so much for helping me.

 

[MysteryWriter]

never

at my age I would be proud of one.

 

[flawed_ethics]

Do you mean a full-blown erection or just a stiffy? Cause the stiffys will happen, but it's pretty rare a full-blown erection sporuts on me spontaniously.

Stiffy - depends on the mood; I'm not manic-depressive, but sometimes it seems like that. But if I had to average it out - maybe once every day. Sounds right.

Additional stats, in case you're collecting population data: 22y/o, inactive with an internet connection (figure it out).

lol - well, I find it funny, pathetic as it might be.

 

[MysteryWriter]

can i lie

about my age

 

[Justin_Thyme]

Research?...More like an unfulfilled prayer

Sorry WS. Would give most anything if I could help. Afraid I have to write from memory and even it fails me some of the time.
Age? My member bio says it albeit the number choices are way too limited in scope.
Justin

 

[Axeltheswede]

research question

Well, there's the "good morning from Mr. Chubby" wakeup erection, but that's more of a urological phenom.
After that, frequency depends on visual stimulation and the amount of time during the day with nothing to do (waiting in line, birdwatching, driving). More down time equals more semi to full erections.
During lap dances at my favorite men's club, about once every two point five minutes.
Testosterone is a terrific memory stimulant for recalling sexual experiences. Standing in line at the bank always reminds me of a double joined teller I knew once.
As for hiding it, that's one of the things pockets are good for. Arrange the equipment skyward and create a little ballroom, so to speak, by pushing out with hands in front pockets. Or, make her wonder, borrowing an old line, if that's a pistol in your pocket or if your're just glad to see her.

 

[Art]

Those undesired erections

At my age, like so many other men that answered, I am just happy to see one and know that all of that works!

I used to get them a lot when I was in my late teens through my oh say forties. Mostly they were just move to vertical to hide them by the zipper material in the pants. I suppose they really did show, but it wasn't quite as obvious - I thought anyway. Sometimes I would just try to remain sitting till it calmed down.

Art

 

[MysteryWriter]

have we learned more than we expected

in general do young men do it, and old men write (talk) about it. rofl.. shocking.

 

[karmadog]

unwanted erections?

Please don't say that an erection is unwanted.

It hurts their self esteem.

 

[abashed-dreamer]

Q: About how often do you get an unwanted erection during the course of a day? What are some of the ways you hide it?

WS: In my mid teens I think it could happen several times in a day, then tapering off in my twenties, as far as relatively 'unexpected' and 'unaccountable' ones go. But as another poster said, the young male is often super responsive to stimuli, like just a flash of breast, and there is the imagination.
I'm sure you've seen surveys that tried to measure how often people thought of sex, and for some it's every couple mins.

So the young man is simply showing the effects of that imagination more openly than is true in a middle aged man.

The reason it may be 'unwanted' is the embarrassment. To avoid it, remaining seated, or leaving on a heavy coat, or holding one's books or a bag in front (carrying something at about midsection height). Also, if the erection can be relocated slightly, pointing straight up, pressed against the abdomen, it does not stick out and produce the 'tenting' effect which is embarrassing.

I hope this satisfies your 'writerly' curiousity..... So here is a question for you: Did you realize certain signs of arousal were not obvious, as a young person, or did you think men/people could 'see through' and know your state. When did you realize that, in most cases a little acting can give enough 'evidence' of arousal to satisfy most men. (I.e., they haven't a clue, if it's faked.)

 

[macdanife2000]

unwelcome erections

I would probably guess on avarage, maybe on or two per day. Though I had a temp PA a few months ago, then it was easier to count when it wasn't erect.

Hands in the pockets has to be the winner, or buttoning your suit jacket works well also.

Becasue the hands in pocket one gives physical stimulation alos, which only makes it worse.

 

[jon.hayworth]

Hi Whispersecret,

Like everyone else with few exceptions I am writing from memory.

These are spontaneous erections right - I have been a heavy smoker since my early teens and always drunk gallons of coffee a day and at times abused my body with chemicals. Now I only take prescription painkillers Codeine / Paracetomol based and Hay fever tabs.

When I was in my early teens - about every half-hour.

Late teens - early twenties - certainly hourly

thirties - two or three times a day

Forties - a lot less, but still occassionally

Now early fifties - when I wake-up needing a pee - it's hard enough sustaining a wanted one.

Adjusting it - regular trousers I used to put my hands in my pockets and play pocket snooker (probably pool to you) adjusting it to stand verticle behind the zip. Jeans more difficult sometimes a sort of twist and accidental brush.

hope all this helps.

jon

 

[its Leslie]

Hmmmm I am 40

I don't think age has done a damn thing to slow me down, not a bit.
As I right I am getting an erection.

I get erections all day.

If I think about women in any way I get an erection.

I have no problem getting them at all in fact.

I sit at home bare assed most of day simply because prolonged erections cause fluid generation. I found it made my under laundry to readily.

I have written erotica butt naked with my cock happily dripping over edge of chair.

I suppose most guys are not like this. But not me.

I could satisfy a woman all damn day is she wanted to do the work (my cock can stay up indefinitely, but the rest of my body has had enough after my first cumshot).

No I ain't attempting to brag. I enjoy every moment of erect condition. But man I wish it had an offswitch. If it's female it gets to me. Doesn't matter if its appropriate or not either.

I spend my day sufficiently arroused that I either fuck my wife or masturbate. Either way I have to unload myself on average once in morning and once at night. Can't seem to think straight till I do.

 

[Whispersecret]

So here is a question for you: Did you realize certain signs of arousal were not obvious, as a young person, or did you think men/people could 'see through' and know your state. When did you realize that, in most cases a little acting can give enough 'evidence' of arousal to satisfy most men. (I.e., they haven't a clue, if it's faked.)

I never assumed that a man could tell if I'm aroused. I always strove to show them, through sounds and movements. I'm one of those people who worry about others' feelings, and I didn't ever want a partner to think he wasn't "doing it for me." I never faked arousal, but I did sometimes exaggerate. Or is that the same thing? I HAVE faked an orgasm.

Hope that answers your question.

 

[Whispersecret]

Thanks all you men! I appreciate your candor. I hadn't taken age into account, but the character I was thinking about is young. The various methods of hiding the erection are in my memory bank now. It was also helpful reading what types of stimuli cause those erections.

Thank you.