Research... Jeez! I know I write Erotica, but give me a break!

[Dirty Kitten]

I've now been shut out of two discussion forums and I am NOT having fun. I am hella frustrated. Try to ask a question about a toy you've never used and it's disbelief and deletion all over the place.

This is more of a vent than anything else, but I am wondering... if you have technical questions about sexual things that you don't know the answers to, where do you go to find out?

I just joined wantedlist. Maybe I should just see if there's a flick that will show me all the ins and outs of this thing. Grrr...

 

[Stella_Omega]

I've now been shut out of two discussion forums and I am NOT having fun. I am hella frustrated. Try to ask a question about a toy you've never used and it's disbelief and deletion all over the place.

This is more of a vent than anything else, but I am wondering... if you have technical questions about sexual things that you don't know the answers to, where do you go to find out?

I just joined wantedlist. Maybe I should just see if there's a flick that will show me all the ins and outs of this thing. Grrr...

you ask here!

What toy is it?

 

[Dirty Kitten]

It's a double-headed dildo. My two characters want to use one, but they are thinking it's more difficult than it looks.

I was trying to ask at a w4w forum and they thought I was a man looking for kicks. I don't think I look like a man... maybe I should go check again.

 

[curiositykitten]

This is more of a vent than anything else, but I am wondering... if you have technical questions about sexual things that you don't know the answers to, where do you go to find out?

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Listen to Stella - I've ALWAYS gotten answers on the AH! Also, I had some questions about a toy once and went in on the chatroom here on Lit and just announced that I question in the Lit Lounge and found some folks willing to chat and help. But you might get a bit more than you're looking for - just be clear what you're wanting! Hang in there!

 

[Liar]

It's a double-headed dildo. My two characters want to use one, but they are thinking it's more difficult than it looks.

I was trying to ask at a w4w forum and they thought I was a man looking for kicks. I don't think I look like a man... maybe I should go check again.

Like Stella said. Ask here. Or in any of the other forums on Literotica that suits your question. The "how to" forum might be a good place.

Unless you want to know how to strangle puppies, very little will upset us.

 

[Dirty Kitten]

Thanks! I'll go looking for the Lounge. (And thank you for the warning. *grin*)

 

[Boxlicker101]

It's a double-headed dildo. My two characters want to use one, but they are thinking it's more difficult than it looks.

I was trying to ask at a w4w forum and they thought I was a man looking for kicks. I don't think I look like a man... maybe I should go check again.

I'v written a couple of stories about two people sharing a double-dong. I can't guarantee I have described its use correctly, but nobody has pointed out any errors in technique, and some readers like to do that whenever they can.

 

[Pen_Dragon]

Unless you want to know how to strangle puppies...

I'd recommend closing your eyes when you do it. It's really tough otherwise. Oh, and don't be anywhere near the mom.

It's a double-headed dildo. My two characters want to use one, but they are thinking it's more difficult than it looks.

I think I've seen two videos that involved a double sided. The first one had two girls in it, and it seemed to stick in one girl, and only be fun for the other girl. Of course, it was a porno, so they both acted like it was the most amazing sex of their life, which ruined it for me.

The second one was a three-some, where one girl was in the center holding it. That way both girls could push against it, or the girl in the middle could slide it back and forth and get both the other girls off at the same time. Very hot, actually.

 

[Boxlicker101]

I'd recommend closing your eyes when you do it. It's really tough otherwise. Oh, and don't be anywhere near the mom.



I think I've seen two videos that involved a double sided. The first one had two girls in it, and it seemed to stick in one girl, and only be fun for the other girl. Of course, it was a porno, so they both acted like it was the most amazing sex of their life, which ruined it for me.

The second one was a three-some, where one girl was in the center holding it. That way both girls could push against it, or the girl in the middle could slide it back and forth and get both the other girls off at the same time. Very hot, actually.

Actually, that last way is probably the most effective way to use one. However, none of the characters in a threesome I write about would ever be content to take such an inactive part.

 

[Pen_Dragon]

Actually, that last way is probably the most effective way to use one. However, none of the characters in a threesome I write about would ever be content to take such an inactive part.

When the alarm goes off you have to rotate!

 

[Stella_Omega]

When the alarm goes off you have to rotate!

*takes notes*

Now what did I do with that kitchen timer, dammit...

 

[Boxlicker101]

I've now been shut out of two discussion forums and I am NOT having fun. I am hella frustrated. Try to ask a question about a toy you've never used and it's disbelief and deletion all over the place.

This is more of a vent than anything else, but I am wondering... if you have technical questions about sexual things that you don't know the answers to, where do you go to find out?

I just joined wantedlist. Maybe I should just see if there's a flick that will show me all the ins and outs of this thing. Grrr...

For as long as I have been in this forum, I have never read a nasty comment directed at an author who asked such a reasonable question as that.

I also have to wonder why anybody would see anything strange with a man using a toy like that, by himself, with a woman or with another man.

 

[Dirty Kitten]

I think I've seen two videos that involved a double sided. The first one had two girls in it, and it seemed to stick in one girl, and only be fun for the other girl. Of course, it was a porno, so they both acted like it was the most amazing sex of their life, which ruined it for me.

The second one was a three-some, where one girl was in the center holding it. That way both girls could push against it, or the girl in the middle could slide it back and forth and get both the other girls off at the same time. Very hot, actually.

Thank you! That was my question exactly. I kept thinking about the mechanics of the situation and all I came up with was a belief that unless you had something to hold it immobile while moving against it, it would get stuck.

I haven't asked the question in the How To forum yet because I got distracted by life, but I will. Thank you for all the answers and support. I was getting very discouraged elsewhere.

I should have known better and just asked here

 

[human_male]

I'm stumped by those double ended dildos too. Ok I've got one end in, now what the hell do I do with the other end?

 

[Pen_Dragon]

I'm stumped by those double ended dildos too. Ok I've got one end in, now what the hell do I do with the other end?

Yeah. I've been laughing at this comment for about 3 minutes now.

 

[FaCiNaTe]

I'm stumped by those double ended dildos too. Ok I've got one end in, now what the hell do I do with the other end?

cute question! why don't you check at 'how to' and get back to us with your top 3 things to do with the other end! then i'll tell you mine

 

[Stella_Omega]

Thank you! That was my question exactly. I kept thinking about the mechanics of the situation and all I came up with was a belief that unless you had something to hold it immobile while moving against it, it would get stuck.

I haven't asked the question in the How To forum yet because I got distracted by life, but I will. Thank you for all the answers and support. I was getting very discouraged elsewhere.

I should have known better and just asked here

Write it that way! Let your characters fumble around a little bit- then the relief when they get it right is sooo hot..
I'd think your more agressive woman would get her hands down there to grab it and keep it steady.

 

[EveAnna]

I watched a porn film once where a woman used a double ended dildo on herself - one end up her arse, the other up her pussy. I've watched a few porn films and I'd never seen that before, OK maybe its common practise but it was new to me and not something I'd like to try LOL

 

[Boxlicker101]

I watched a porn film once where a woman used a double ended dildo on herself - one end up her arse, the other up her pussy. I've watched a few porn films and I'd never seen that before, OK maybe its common practise but it was new to me and not something I'd like to try LOL

I've seen that film, or at least a preview of it. As I recall, it was set at a girl's camp named Camp Quim, or something like that. I even wrote a story about a woman using a double-dong on herself.

 

[EveAnna]

I'll have to look your story up Boxlicker101

 

[Boxlicker101]

I'll have to look your story up Boxlicker101

Okay. The name is Dora's Double-Dong.