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Paul_Chance
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PM and tell me about the most unexpected sexual act that you enjoyed.
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At any rate. I'd like a PM. Doesn't have to be a deep, dark secret, although those are fine too. Something that's been on your mind lately. Anything from a random response to a near obsession. Something you don't exactly want to say out loud, for whatever reason.
Or your favourite colour... That works too.
Or your favourite colour... That works too.
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Dreamscape12
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I'd like a PM about the last thing that frustrated you at work. That or the last thing that turnned you on at work 
Still tucked up in bed from a nightshift, had instances of both ends of the spectrum.
Still tucked up in bed from a nightshift, had instances of both ends of the spectrum.
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lol. Yes it can.
jameslewis
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*chuckle*
'Unwanted,' eh? Might need to rethink that bit.
I got three responses.
I think you took my comment the wrong way; I wasn't saying your PMs were unwanted. I read a lot of complaints from ladies about unwanted types of PM's. If they gave suggestions about what they did want to get, some guys might get a clue and get better results. Not an attack on you dude, just an attempt to help folks communicate.
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Stryderthorongil
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I request a pm from a woman that would like to give me a back massage. My muscles are tight. Oh, and since this is virtual I need a description of the massage.
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No, no. Not an attack on me.
I do understand that there are a LOT of unwanted PM's, but the few responses I got led me to believe that perhaps not so many of those PM's are as unwanted as you might think. Obviously some cross the line, with the dick pics and the crude, graphic descriptions of sexual scenarios, but (at least to the women that responded), less than that seems somewhat okay, depending on the individual tone of the PM. I wish I would have gotten more of a response so this doesn't feel like so much of a generalisation, but it seems that the women on here enjoyed being pursued. Don't be creepy, but express interest nonetheless. It's the positive attention that's wanted, not the sex.
mouthybrunette
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No, no. Not an attack on me.
I do understand that there are a LOT of unwanted PM's, but the few responses I got led me to believe that perhaps not so many of those PM's are as unwanted as you might think. Obviously some cross the line, with the dick pics and the crude, graphic descriptions of sexual scenarios, but (at least to the women that responded), less than that seems somewhat okay, depending on the individual tone of the PM. I wish I would have gotten more of a response so this doesn't feel like so much of a generalisation, but it seems that the women on here enjoyed being pursued. Don't be creepy, but express interest nonetheless. It's the positive attention that's wanted, not the sex.
Well said. I'm generalizing a bit too here, but I would say that sex is the result of a deeper connection, not the initial goal.
ashesatwork
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Suggestions for netflix movies or shows... its another crappy day in this state...come on spring
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This is a pm for both the ladies and the gents.
Tell me about the lister that means the most to you. Don't name names! I don't want to know who's with who. I want to know what that special Lister does to make a bad day better or get you to smile. Does he/she send you funny pictures? Random pm's about how a song reminded he/she of you?
Tell me about the lister that means the most to you. Don't name names! I don't want to know who's with who. I want to know what that special Lister does to make a bad day better or get you to smile. Does he/she send you funny pictures? Random pm's about how a song reminded he/she of you?
SquirtnBrat
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Okay. Again.
Women.... what kind of PM requests are you most likely to answer?
I only ignore pm's that come from a Litster with no profile or posts. If a compliment is included I always reply back in thanks. Finding a common interest helps! Obviously we all enjoy erotic lit and sex, but only talking (or bragging) about your cock size in the first pm is a no-no. Asking a question usually prompts a responce. Those are my three tips to help you men out there.
emma_the_librarian
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I would love a PM from a longtime Litster. Tell me some of the lessons you've learned here.
jameslewis
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think I caught a bug and I'm lying here feeling like crap. I'd like to get messages to distract me from how lousy I feel.
katherineotica
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I suppose I want one about anything at all. I'll talk to anyone tonight. ♡
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I would enjoy a PM asking me a personal question
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