Repost in new location: Females...serious question

[focus_on_you_2]

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[bailadora]

I can't answer your first question but I can the second: the white cream you observed was simply part of her vaginal fluids. Depending on where a woman is in her cycle, her vaginal secretions can vary from a very thin, clear appearance to thick and opaque or a mix of both. It's normal and nothing to worry about.

 

[SweetErika]

You should ask her the first question. It could be that she needs extended foreplay and/or tons of mental stimulation to come. You said she has kids, so maybe she rarely, if ever, gets the chance to really spend that time, relax and get the stimulation she needs. Being a mother is often stressful and exhausting; at least I find I have very little time for myself, erotica, fantasizing, etc., especially when I'm essentially a single mother. Or maybe it's something she tells partners so they don't get their hopes up. She's the only one who can really answer that for you.

And Bailadora's completely right on the second question. Read up on "cervical fluid" if you'd like to know more. Generally, if vaginal/cervical fluid doesn't smell funny, have a really weird texture (like cottage cheese; an "eggwhite" type of texture means a woman is extremely fertile), color, or produce symptoms like itching, it's totally normal.

 

[infinity706]

As for the whiteish fluid, I'd say it's also possible, she squirted noticably. Women have a prostate gland, too. That's what people refer to as the G-spot.

 

[bailadora]

As for the whiteish fluid, I'd say it's also possible, she squirted noticably. Women have a gland that's analogous to the prostate. That's what people refer to as the G-spot.

Fixed that for ya. Since you insist that potentially misleading or incorrect information not be put forth on the board.

(Sorry, Fin. I couldn't resist poking at you).

 

[focus_on_you_2]

Thanks all

Yes, I have talked to her again and she confirmed for me, she is not easily orgasmic. However she said I turned her on verbally and just being sensual that she said she could have came even without a touch and that NEVER happened for her. Last night, well all day really, I send her texts and a long email....last night we talked on the phone and she didnt but said she could cum just thinking about the other night.

 

[infinity706]

Fixed that for ya. Since you insist that potentially misleading or incorrect information not be put forth on the board.

(Sorry, Fin. I couldn't resist poking at you).

Well, actually, it's been called the female prostate in medical literature, so I'm technically correct. You are right that it's analoguous to the prostate, though.

 

[bailadora]

Well, actually, it's been called the female prostate in medical literature, so I'm technically correct.

Actually, no you aren't. As my own OB informed me, it's important to be precise when it comes to terminology, so the proper anatomical name is the Skene's gland, TYVM. C'mon Fin - get it together. Don't want to mislead anyone, now would you?

(Yes, I'm giving you shit).

 

[infinity706]

It also might have something to do with how up to date your OB is on the latest medical research. Nowdays, it's referred to as the paraurethral gland, lesser vestibular gland, or the female prostate, a lot of the time. They're going away from parts being named after people. It's just like how the Fallopian tubes are now being referred to as the uterine tubes or the Cowper's gland is now being referred to as the bulbourethral gland.

Of course, there's also a greater vestibular gland that's analogous to the bulbourethral gland. It dilutes the sodium chloride, urea and creatine in urine, the acetic acid from the vagina, causes guys to leak when they're excited, and keeps the vulva nice and moist. All those acids would kill the sperm cells.

The prostate/female prostate provides nutrients to sperm cells. Of course, considering how close the urethra and vagina are in women, it would leak/squirt out onto the penis and be pushed into the vagina. I have a feeling, that's the biological purpose of female orgasm.

 

[bailadora]

It also might have something to do with how up to date your OB is on the latest medical research.

Actually, he's keeps up with all the latest news and research. Or he wouldn't be my ob. And since he has the MD degree, and you don't (at least not that I know of), I'll follow his word on the matter. It's a gland that's analogous to the male prostate, but it is NOT A PROSTATE.

(Since we're being all accurate and shit).

 

[infinity706]

No, I don't have an MD. I used to be a nursing student, though, minored in community health, and ultimately ended up with degrees in psychology and education.

Oh, I know it doesn't develop identically to the prostate. It still develops from the same embryonic tissue, though, and performs the same functions. If we're nitpicking, though, it isn't a single gland like in men. The female prostate actually develops as multiple, smaller, less organized ducts.

 

[bailadora]

No, I don't have an MD. I used to be a nursing student, though, minored in community health, and ultimately ended up with degrees in psychology and education.

Fair enough. Thanks for being a good sport. I'm glad you can take a bit of teasing without getting all pissy about it.

 

[infinity706]

Oh, I'm perfectly fine with it. I've argued with someone for 60+ pages and never gotten upset. Some people just need to get used to the idea that if you voice an opinion, you open yourself up to criticism. To be honest, if I fuck something up, I'd be disappointed if no one called me out on it.