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Honey, you are unbelievable!! My tongue and dick are both hard!!!
 
You are definitely not the problem.
I think you might have to confront him
Good luck:kiss::rose:

:kiss:
So... I've kind of been cheating on y'all. I started seeing someone... an old someone, but not my ex husband. Anyway, there are issues and I'm just not sure it is going to work. I'm really trying to figure out if I have the problem or if I just meet shitty guys.
Back to the personal drawing board. Maybe it is me... Who the fuck knows?!? But I was in only my thong tonight and I got out of his bed to come home. Maybe I'm looking for something that just isn't possible. Maybe my expectations are too high, but it just seems like there should be more. Bad thing is, I'm pretty sure I love him.

So, I have a question... Is it possible to be in so much pain, balls area, for many months after a snip, that you don't want to do anything sexual for weeks? I mean the least you could do would be snuggle with me and get me off. Is that to much? And should I have to ask? There are other issue I have with him, but this is a big concern for me. I don't want to go weeks without, if I'm in a relationship. I don't want to have to take care of myself if I'm with someone. I'm more then willing to do whatever I can for my man. He even said he had masturbated a couple of times, but it hurt so bad the only way he could do it was to watch a vid of me or my pictures. (btw I haven't taken any recently) So it isn't me... He keeps saying. Not that I was really worried about it being me, but I was worried it could be someone else. Or some sick withholding that I'm just not into... Or is it really that painful?
 
I really do hope that you get "in the mood" again really soon. You don't deserve any of this crap. You deserve so much more. It basically sounds like he is causing you way too much frustration in a very important part of a relationship. Sometimes we guys can't take a hint and just need it all spelled out for us. I would just tell him exactly how disappointed and frustrated you are. You may just need to 'bust his balls' a little so to speak. No matter how much they are hurting.

;)

Please keep us up to date as to how everything turns out.

:)

Yeah, I think it has probably been 6 months or more... He is going to the doctor for nerve blocks in that area... I get that it must hurt, but wouldn't/shouldn't he want to take care of me? I'm not asking for every day... But at least once a week would be nice... It has been almost 2 weeks. Maybe I'm being selfish... Hell I'm going to go to bed and still not get off... Blah! I think I'm too frustrated now... I'm not in the mood and that is rare for me.
 
:kiss:
So... I've kind of been cheating on y'all. I started seeing someone... an old someone, but not my ex husband. Anyway, there are issues and I'm just not sure it is going to work. I'm really trying to figure out if I have the problem or if I just meet shitty guys.
Back to the personal drawing board. Maybe it is me... Who the fuck knows?!? But I was in only my thong tonight and I got out of his bed to come home. Maybe I'm looking for something that just isn't possible. Maybe my expectations are too high, but it just seems like there should be more. Bad thing is, I'm pretty sure I love him.

So, I have a question... Is it possible to be in so much pain, balls area, for many months after a snip, that you don't want to do anything sexual for weeks? I mean the least you could do would be snuggle with me and get me off. Is that to much? And should I have to ask? There are other issue I have with him, but this is a big concern for me. I don't want to go weeks without, if I'm in a relationship. I don't want to have to take care of myself if I'm with someone. I'm more then willing to do whatever I can for my man. He even said he had masturbated a couple of times, but it hurt so bad the only way he could do it was to watch a vid of me or my pictures. (btw I haven't taken any recently) So it isn't me... He keeps saying. Not that I was really worried about it being me, but I was worried it could be someone else. Or some sick withholding that I'm just not into... Or is it really that painful?

I'm sure there are different circumstances but I did have this done also. The job I had at the time required a lot of heavy lifting so I scheduled the next week off. I did just as the doctor told me to and took it very easy for the week. Except for the first couple of days there was no pain and by the second week everything was back to normal. If it has been months for your fellow and he is still hurting he needs to go back to the doctor. If it were me I would have already gone back to see what the problem is because there is no way I could go weeks without making love to you!
 
It only took 3 or 4 days for me to get back to being, ah, fully functional, as it were.

Multiple weeks is -very- uncommon.
 
Selfish is what I've been thinking and I tend to believe I'm the opposite of selfish. But I was starting to worry it might be selfish of me to want it. But I also like to believe if it was me in pain I'd still take care of him... I've been very loving and gentle when we have fooled around. Gave him his first road head while he drove my new truck home. He said it was amazing. So give me something amazing?

Thank you sweetie :kiss:


Correct, his fingers and tongue work just right and he knows I enjoy it.. He has always seemed to enjoy doing it, when that happens, which is less often then the sex. I almost always give him a little head. Even give him head during that time of the month when I know I won't be getting any.

Grrr... I may visit single again... I'm really going to sleep now... Good night all :kiss:

I really dont think you are being selfish at all!
Nothing wrong with once a week. Should be at least that in a relationship!
 
Just stopped in to check out some of your sexy pics and I love your av. Damn. :D
 
Hey y'all!!

It has been a while. Life gets busy and lit gets pushed to the side. I finally finished my master's degree!! I ended it with the last guy I spoke of on here and was in a relationship for 1 1/2 years, but I just ended that last weekend. I am not doing the relationship thing again. I'm happy single! I have trust issues and really amazing intuition. I am more than capable to do life on my own, with a friend here or there. I can't understand why men commit to a relationship then cheat. Expecially if I offered fwb first. No commitment had to be made and he could do what he wanted. Instead he wanted me to commit, but he wanted to run around, bullshit! So, I'm heart broken, but working on healing.

Hope everyone is well *smooches*
I'm thinking about taking a few new pics this weekend. Guess we will see if I'm in the mood.
 
Sorry to hear if your heartache. I am glad to see you back and hope you will be sharing that beautiful body again with us. :rose:
 
Congrats on the masters degree! Sorry to hear about the guy,
hopefully is for the best in the long run!
 
Welcome back, Angel. It's always fun to see a thread revitalized and then go back and revisit some of the LOVELY past works. Congrats on all your accomplishments, personal and professional. Sounds like you've come into your renaissance!
 
Thank y'all

I'm trying to get motivated today. Fresh out of the shower. Let's see if this gets my day moving.
 
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