I think it is in our nature to do both. I look back on all my experiences as wonderful, always learning something, and how they were arousing then and arousing now when I think about them. I do think what if I didn’t have sex with that one guy and get married, but then I wouldn’t be a mom.Interesting thread. The question I have is, "Do you remember wonderful, sexy and satisfying times and run those back through your mind, or do you remember times where you didn't take advantage of a situation and run through your mind all of the different 'what if' scenarios?" I find myself doing one just as often as the other. Maybe it's because I'm in my mid-60s, now.
I do have thoughts of what if I had let that happen, what if I had …
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