Relocating a sub

[ecstaticsub]

I always felt like if you really had a deep passion for being with some one you wouldn't wait around for them to finance the move. I didn't. When people told me I was stupid for buying my own ticket to visit my Love, I asked them why? I always heard soemthing along the lines of "if a man really wanted me that badly he'd pay for everything". I would respond "but what if I need him just as badly?"

It's not like I wasn't getting anything out of the trip. Actually I got all I wanted and more, most importantly I got time with him face to face. So what if I spent more money on the trip or he did? Why does that even matter?

I had one guy tell me once "Why should I pay for something I can have my slave buy?"

*shrug*

I totally agree. In the almost 4 years I have been owned I have paid for every plane ticket to go and visit him. I have moved once since meeting him and fortunately we are now at least in the same time zone though still a plane ride away. I always go to him, he doesn't come to me. That is just the way that feels right. I pay for most toys, costumes, whatever he demands that I wear.

He is realistic though, and is sympathetic to my other financial obligations (my family) and will usually pay for our hotel and some meals. I enjoy paying for his meals, too though.

I don't want or need a SugarDaddy.

 

[the captians wench]

I totally agree. In the almost 4 years I have been owned I have paid for every plane ticket to go and visit him. I have moved once since meeting him and fortunately we are now at least in the same time zone though still a plane ride away. I always go to him, he doesn't come to me. That is just the way that feels right. I pay for most toys, costumes, whatever he demands that I wear.

He is realistic though, and is sympathetic to my other financial obligations (my family) and will usually pay for our hotel and some meals. I enjoy paying for his meals, too though.

I don't want or need a SugarDaddy.

Just seems smarter to me to buy my own toys. I don't like the idea of using a toy that I don't know the person it was used on before me...I have a hard time with using toys I do know were used on a close friend if I don't see them sterilized myself. Call me germiphobic, but it just gives me an icky feeling.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Just seems smarter to me to buy my own toys. I don't like the idea of using a toy that I don't know the person it was used on before me...I have a hard time with using toys I do know were used on a close friend if I don't see them sterilized myself. Call me germiphobic, but it just gives me an icky feeling.

Absolutely agree. If he buys a toy, he buys it for use on me and only me. That includes floggers. He really enjoys flogging my bare pussy. I don't want a flogger that has ever been used on another woman's pussy ever used on mine.

 

[the captians wench]

Absolutely agree. If he buys a toy, he buys it for use on me and only me. That includes floggers. He really enjoys flogging my bare pussy. I don't want a flogger that has ever been used on another woman's pussy ever used on mine.

Exactly. *shudder*

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Different viewpoints on topics of importance to the different lifestyle communities are one of the reasons that this area of Literotica exists for the membership. You got a problem with that? Go check yourself. My bringing the topic up is not the problem here. The only problem with the topic would be your desire for it not to be discussed. So, why is that, huh?

I never said it should not be discussed. I stated My opinion.

If you don't like it, then don't start a thread looking for opinions that only agree with yours. Cause you're probably not gonna get it.

 

[YourCaptor]

As far as a TPE salve working the right sort of job, having an income, etc. It is a good idea, keep them sharp.

The only problem I have with that is when the slave is paying their own keep. I could not have that, I just feel I have to cover the foundation, all basic living expenses. As long as I do that I don't even care if the slave makes more money then me.

I supose this is not an issue for most people, but as a full time student it is a bit difficult to keep up.

 

[Etoile]

As far as a TPE salve working the right sort of job, having an income, etc. It is a good idea, keep them sharp.

The only problem I have with that is when the slave is paying their own keep. I could not have that, I just feel I have to cover the foundation, all basic living expenses. As long as I do that I don't even care if the slave makes more money then me.

I supose this is not an issue for most people, but as a full time student it is a bit difficult to keep up.

Interesting - some might say that a slave should contribute their money to you, and then you are responsible for maintaining both your lives using those funds.

In this economy, pretty much everyone has to pull their own weight. Fully supporting someone other than your children is a tough prospect in times like these.

 

[girlofurdreams]

That is hot...

I wish I head the means to relocate a sub/slave. Have my pick of the litter.

It is ridiculously expensive to keep a human, and I just don't know how I would do it. I got trouble feeding myself. With jobs hard to come by as they are, everything is uncertain.

Maybe when I have my degree.

300k... pfft. you're so transparent

do anything exciting for your birthday last weekend???

 

[catalina_francisco]

Those aren't serious 24/7 TPE relationships. Those are flings.

Have to agree, and does leave me wondering about the process behind the submission especially when the one 'submitting' as a TPE slave says they demanded a marriage proposal on one occasion. Anyway, this all looks like a Personal ad to me so I will help out by placing it there.

Catalina

 

[Etoile]

I see it's too late and it has been moved, but I disagree that it's a personals ad. It may have started out that way, but IMHO it has turned into a genuine discussion. Oh well.