Relationship Advice

[iioopp]

Things are solved except for myself.
I need to become more humourful again, any advice?

Thanks.

 

[Bobmi357]

You don't build trust based on her past behavior. You build trust on her behavior now and how she treats you. Her past is just that, her past and you have (a) no control over what someone has done before they met you and (b) no right to judge her by her past actions before you two became an "item".

Judge her by what she is today, not by what she did last month or last year. If you're that insecure, break it off with her. Not for your sake, but for hers.

We all have things in our past that we probably wish we hadn't done. Thats part of the human experience. But NO ONE, not even our spouses/mates/life partners can hold our past against us, only we're able to do that.

So forget what she's done before she met you. If you can't do that, break it off with her, tell her you're not ready for an adult relationship because you're not ready for one.

 

[iioopp]

You don't build trust based on her past behavior. You build trust on her behavior now and how she treats you. Her past is just that, her past and you have (a) no control over what someone has done before they met you and (b) no right to judge her by her past actions before you two became an "item".

Judge her by what she is today, not by what she did last month or last year. If you're that insecure, break it off with her. Not for your sake, but for hers.

We all have things in our past that we probably wish we hadn't done. Thats part of the human experience. But NO ONE, not even our spouses/mates/life partners can hold our past against us, only we're able to do that.

So forget what she's done before she met you. If you can't do that, break it off with her, tell her you're not ready for an adult relationship because you're not ready for one.

Your right, but she told me there won't be anymore strip poker aslong as she is with me, and that she wants to spend the rest of her life together, it's not like she said she didn't like doing it. She said she will still do poker though.

 

[LadyTemptress]

Everyone has a right to their past and not to be judged for it. What if she had loved playing strip poker? So what? If she loves you and you don't want to play it then she shouldn't. But I don't like the fact that we must regret our past. I had some wild, great times and memories I don't tell know one. Their mine.

You should tell your woman you don't like to hear about her past to much and just want to think about the here and now. Which is all we really have any control over.

 

[iioopp]

Your right... It has nothing to do with me to an extent but her life from now on has. I've heard not just from her but many people that she loves me more than anything, she's young and wild, I mean if I looked like she did I'd probably of done something similar.

Thank you all for posting, you made me see clearer. We are alike in so many way it's unbelieveable, however recent months I haven't been too much myself. Does anyone have any tips for making funny conversations, I've lost my humor to a degree I think lol.

 

[Bridget69]

As long as it's in the past, I don't see any problems. I think we've all had past experiences we kind of wish we'd never done.