Regrets: My Almost Lesbian Experience

[juicylips]

Have you ever regretted NOT doing something sexual?

Years ago I had the opportunity to be with someone who was gay. She was one of my best friends and I knew that she was and I was ok with that. But never acted on it because she had a very jealous lover. I had deep feelings for her and was amazed at how sexual I felt about her too.

I haven't had those feelings since.

Has anyone else ever shyed away from something sexual and later regretted they didn't act on it?

Cassidy,
in a personal sharing mode

 

[lilminx]

Well, I'm the type of person who usually seizes sexual opportunities, so I'm more likely to regret something I have done than something I haven't done. I really can't think of any chances I've had that I haven't taken and regretted.

 

[lavender]

 

[TennBabe]

regrets...

Over the Christmas holiday, my first love... first everything... came into town with his family from Texas. He and I have been in contact ever since he found me on Classmates.com a few months ago. Anyway, we spent one afternoon together... re-living old times but when he asked if we could go to a hotel to "really re-live old times", I turned him down. I was feeling those old feelings again and knew if I made love with him, I'd fall in love with him all over again. My body ached to fuck him but my heart was afraid of breaking. My regret... that I didn't give into my body's desire.

 

[juicylips]

Re: regrets...

Over the Christmas holiday, my first love... first everything... came into town with his family from Texas. He and I have been in contact ever since he found me on Classmates.com a few months ago. Anyway, we spent one afternoon together... re-living old times but when he asked if we could go to a hotel to "really re-live old times", I turned him down. I was feeling those old feelings again and knew if I made love with him, I'd fall in love with him all over again. My body ached to fuck him but my heart was afraid of breaking. My regret... that I didn't give into my body's desire.

Smart move.

Heartbreaking, but smart. Do you think there will be another time when you will have the opportunity again?

Cassidy

 

[my_colours]

It is NEVER too late to start something new. ALWAYS live out your dreams. There are fantasies that you have that you want to remain fantasies. I have some dark ones that I masturbate to, but would never want to live out, but the ones that I want to explore, I've done all but one & I'm just waiting for the chance there. My advice: Get it done
GO
FIGHT
WIN

 

[TennBabe]

juicylips

Do you think there will be another time when you will have the opportunity again?

Not likely... at least until next Christmas. They live in Texas now and rarely come back to Tenn. In fact, once here, he confessed that the only reason he even came back this holiday was to see me. I suspected that all along but God, did it feel great to hear him say that! At this moment in time, if he were to return right now... I'd fuck him continuously and savor every moment of it! I don't really know why {or how} I was strong enough to turn him down only a few short weeks ago. I know it was for the best but I can't help but to have regrets now.

 

[juicylips]

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Not likely... at least until next Christmas. They live in Texas now and rarely come back to Tenn. In fact, once here, he confessed that the only reason he even came back this holiday was to see me. I suspected that all along but God, did it feel great to hear him say that! At this moment in time, if he were to return right now... I'd fuck him continuously and savor every moment of it! I don't really know why {or how} I was strong enough to turn him down only a few short weeks ago. I know it was for the best but I can't help but to have regrets now.

It sounds to me like this isn't finished between you two. Sometimes people are just destined to be together, even if it is just for one day or one night.

Cassidy

 

[YogiBare]

Missed opportunities

TennBabe, that sounds rough. Like Cassidy, I think that you made the right choice for yourself, but I can really understand the regrets, too.

Cassidy, there are a couple of opportunities that I regret passing by. I was invited to an orgy with some people I didn't know in my college dorm one afternoon, and said no because I was scared and had no chance to think it over. I've never had group sex and would like to have had the experience. There was one time that I had sex with another man just because I did want to experience it, and I'm glad that I did. It wasn't the greatest experience for me, but I'm glad that I tried it. There are several women whom I could have made love with and didn't, for one reason or another. Although it may have been the best decision at the time (to pass), as with TennBabe, I still long for some of them today.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Yes I have shyed away many times but Have never regreted it.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Missed opportunities

TennBabe, that sounds rough. Like Cassidy, I think that you made the right choice for yourself, but I can really understand the regrets, too.

Cassidy, there are a couple of opportunities that I regret passing by. I was invited to an orgy with some people I didn't know in my college dorm one afternoon, and said no because I was scared and had no chance to think it over. I've never had group sex and would like to have had the experience. There was one time that I had sex with another man just because I did want to experience it, and I'm glad that I did. It wasn't the greatest experience for me, but I'm glad that I tried it. There are several women whom I could have made love with and didn't, for one reason or another. Although it may have been the best decision at the time (to pass), as with TennBabe, I still long for some of them today.

Thanks for sharing that , Y.

I think when we experiment with our sexuality it makes us more sensitive to what our true needs are.

I have seen my friend from time to time and the feeling still creeps in even though we are a distance apart.

Cassidy

 

[cuz cracker]

Yes, I've turned down several damn fine ladies over the years for different reasons. One of the was naked!

Looking back, I should of had sex with them. It would not have change anything. Well, I would have enjoyed it!

 

[Spinaroonie]

Yeah, I had a girl calling me up wanting me and I didn't go.

God, I was stupid. She really wanted me. But I only learned how much later. She'd wanted me from she'd first met me and I had no clue. And then one day she gave me her number... I thought it was a friend sort of thing. But when I called her... it wasn't like that. She wanted me to come over to neck and stuff like that... and I didn't go. Now, I can't even remeber why I didn't go, I just started making up stupid excuses. And the next day, it was like I hadn't shunned her, she sat on my lap and stuff.

God damn it, I was stupid. I could've done...something... anything... it'd be more than I've done to this point.

Stupid me.

Oh yeah, and the next day, I had a friend take my hand and put them on her breasts and she didn't freak out, she liked it there. And then the friend told me to squeeze, and I did. I squeezed hard, cos I didn't know any better, but she just smiled and stuff.

And after all of this, I didn't make a move. So, it's pretty easy to see why I regret it!

 

[SharkE]

I almost had a lesbian experience once, but one of them spotted me and I had to leave.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Has anyone else ever shyed away from something sexual and later regretted they didn't act on it?

Cassidy,

When I first started college I met this guy named Ryan. He was every thing a woman could want ... he was tall , dark , sexy,& handsome. He was so sensual and had a wonderful sense of humor. He was down on break when I met him we hit it off & there was such a sexual chemistry. He told me he liked me & I lusted him too.
Needless to say I turned down his advances because he was younger then me. I was stupid for turning such a man down. I think about him from time to time & he still calls me to say hello - his voice sends shivers up & down my body.
I always wondered what it would have been like...

 

[Juspar Emvan]

I I almost had a lesbian experience, but I think i would have regretted the opperation.


My first serious g/f was considerably younger than me, and I wnated to protect her. She sucked my cock once, but I was uncomfortable with it (despite the fact that it remained the oral hightlight of my life until I met Myst), I stopped her and the evening.

A week later we broke up, two days after that she fucked a guy my age who I really disliked.

I regret not giving her what she wanted, in a safe and loving way. Instead she gave away something special because she was so urgent to be rid of it, to a man who cared for her not at all.

 

[juicylips]

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When I first started college I met this guy named Ryan. He was every thing a woman could want ... he was tall , dark , sexy,& handsome. He was so sensual and had a wonderful sense of humor. He was down on break when I met him we hit it off & there was such a sexual chemistry. He told me he liked me & I lusted him too.
Needless to say I turned down his advances because he was younger then me. I was stupid for turning such a man down. I think about him from time to time & he still calls me to say hello - his voice sends shivers up & down my body.
I always wondered what it would have been like...

You let age be a factor in your response? And he sent shivers and chills..awwww girl.....damn...

We all have lines we don't cross.

I keep moving mine

Cassidy

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Has anyone else ever shyed away from something sexual and later regretted they didn't act on it?

In some respects, yes; there were plenty of times when I could have had sex that I haven't because I was shy, or later because I had learned about the ramifications of casual sex. OTOH, I am glad I have not had to pay the price for everytime I let something pass by, but I still miss the sex itself.

 

[talk2024]

I almost had a lesbian experience once, but one of them spotted me and I had to leave.

lol ... I know it's not the point of the thread but I liked it anyway !

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

all the time

a few times in my life....

 

[Aphrodisiac]

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You let age be a factor in your response? And he sent shivers and chills..awwww girl.....damn...

We all have lines we don't cross.

I keep moving mine

Cassidy

Yes, I let age get in the way ... back then I was young & was not thinking !!

Now that I am "older" and some what wiser.... I would ravish and devour him.

RYAN !!!!!!!

 

[juicylips]

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Yes, I let age get in the way ... back then I was young & was not thinking !!

Now that I am "older" and some what wiser.... I would ravish and devour him.

RYAN !!!!!!!

Ravish and Devour....sounds totally YUMMY!!!



Cassidy

 

[Aphrodisiac]

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Ravish and Devour....sounds totally YUMMY!!!



Cassidy

Juicy ,

If you could have seen this man ... he is one of those men you just want to bite, You just want to ravish and just eat him up.


He was sexxxy.

Damn .... now I am getting " Ryan " flashbacks !

 

[juicylips]

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Juicy ,

If you could have seen this man ... he is one of those men you just want to bite, You just want to ravish and just eat him up.


He was sexxxy.

Damn .... now I am getting " Ryan " flashbacks !

Now we are biting??? god, girl!!!

When you are through with him, I want him!!!

That is if there is anything left

I think you are REALLY into regret now, babe..lol

Cassidy