Regrets, I've had a few

[nassauguy_2001]

So I am sitting here horny as always, a few glasses of wine too many, watching great quality porn and it hits me...

I am so jealous of guys who can fuck for long periods of time. I'm not talking porn actors, but amateur videos of guys pounding their ladies for 15-20 minutes before cumming.

I have always been a "minute man" and have never had the pleasure of bringing a lady to an orgasm with me fucking her, only via me eating her.

Oh well, such is life.

 

[Spiritedlady]

So I am sitting here horny as always, a few glasses of wine too many, watching great quality porn and it hits me...

I am so jealous of guys who can fuck for long periods of time. I'm not talking porn actors, but amateur videos of guys pounding their ladies for 15-20 minutes before cumming.

I have always been a "minute man" and have never had the pleasure of bring a lady to an orgasm with me fucking her, only via me eating her.

Oh well, such is life.

Well if it’s any consolation lots of women don’t cum from being fucked - me being an example. I’ve never had an orgasm from PIV.

 

[Jada59]

Very sorry. *Hug*

 

[klippert]

So I am sitting here horny as always, a few glasses of wine too many, watching great quality porn and it hits me...

I am so jealous of guys who can fuck for long periods of time. I'm not talking porn actors, but amateur videos of guys pounding their ladies for 15-20 minutes before cumming.

I have always been a "minute man" and have never had the pleasure of bring a lady to an orgasm with me fucking her, only via me eating her.

Oh well, such is life.

Well if it’s any consolation lots of women don’t cum from being fucked - me being an example. I’ve never had an orgasm from PIV.

My wife and I had this conversation last night...funny because we both thought the opposite of what the other thought. I've always had a hyper sensitive cock...but, If I controlled penetration I could last longer. Even after I cum I tend to stay hard. But, she and I both thought we both preferred penetration. Fucking, my orgasm is NOT nearly as intense as by hand or oral. Mrs K is the same way, stimulate her clit, maybe finger her ass... the penetration that gets her off...anal, to-which doesn't happen all the time.
we talked that at times she likes it hard. BUT, That's heat of the moment. She'd much rather we engage in non-penetration but for only that moment. shes told me a lot about her college sex days. parties, whiskey dick....

She said "Hon, I only knew one of my friends in college, that wanted (and she thought she was full of it) to be banged for 15 - 30 mins. " " some guy just romping me, my pussy was so sore, peeing was painful after a drunk'n fuk' and "if he was big, for get it" "do I Like a good hard fuk form time to time sure, but, banging away for an hour...nope, my body can't and couldn't take that. lets do this for and hour".... to which we engaged in everything but penetration, that ended in moon shot climax

The point is Nassuguy...If you're comparing yourself to what you are watching on the web. I suggest you take a long break. Look, i'm Bi, I don't compare myself to other Big dicks. I certainly don't compare myself to "what you see on the web" and you don't know if they are keeping it up with help!. There is something to say about physical health. Ill bet some of those guys are physically fit.
you will get yourself into a worse situation...if you're with a woman and suffer performance anxieties....you'll NUT in a second...now where will you be.. Be open and honest. We laughed...but, we also looked at each other and realized. We better communicate better.

 

[Erosfan]

So I am sitting here horny as always, a few glasses of wine too many, watching great quality porn and it hits me...

I am so jealous of guys who can fuck for long periods of time. I'm not talking porn actors, but amateur videos of guys pounding their ladies for 15-20 minutes before cumming.

I have always been a "minute man" and have never had the pleasure of bringing a lady to an orgasm with me fucking her, only via me eating her.

Oh well, such is life.

I was like you when I was much younger.

Most of the time, my wife will orgasm while having sex, she even passed out once. She is extremely fond of oral and has wonderful orgasms from that as well.

 

[MascaraRuns]

So I am sitting here horny as always, a few glasses of wine too many, watching great quality porn and it hits me...

I am so jealous of guys who can fuck for long periods of time. I'm not talking porn actors, but amateur videos of guys pounding their ladies for 15-20 minutes before cumming.

I have always been a "minute man" and have never had the pleasure of bringing a lady to an orgasm with me fucking her, only via me eating her.

Oh well, such is life.

Dont feel that way. There are many ways to experience pleasure in the sex department. When younger, its thought about cuming during intercourse but as woman mature a bit, I believe they realize there is a lot more to it than that. More important to cum than not cum, not a battle as to how.

 

[SubmissiveMom]

I can only climax by having my clit stimulated by tongue or fingers x only climaxed twice in my lifetime properly and these were guys with unusually large cocks who knew how to angle x had my first g-spot orgasm a couple of years ago with another large guy but he had such a massive bend that achieved this I think x was scary, my first ever squirting, soaked the mattress x x x

 

[Vitriolhack]

So I am sitting here horny as always, a few glasses of wine too many, watching great quality porn and it hits me...

I am so jealous of guys who can fuck for long periods of time. I'm not talking porn actors, but amateur videos of guys pounding their ladies for 15-20 minutes before cumming.

I have always been a "minute man" and have never had the pleasure of bringing a lady to an orgasm with me fucking her, only via me eating her.

Oh well, such is life.

You are not alone, this is not uncommon, my question to you is; when you masturbate alone, do you also come quickly?

You can learn how to modulate your level of excitement.

Without going the 20 to 30 minute route, which could be painful for your partner if not well lubricated, a few minutes 3-7, can be very pleasurable.

Try modulating your hand movements, slowing down to the point that you can recognise your body’s actions. Stopping every time you feel your “autopilot” will take over and cum. This, also referred to as “the plateau,” will gradually take longer. If with a partner, take this pause as an opportunity to kiss your partner and caress them.

Strengthening your pelvic muscles with Kegel exercises will also help.

Enjoy your “homework!”

V.

 

[Gelista]

If I feel like i'm about to cum, I just pull out, and either go down on her or finger her for a bit, think of something non sexual like football scores and then go again

 

[Dreamer110]

When I get my wife in the right position, ass on the edge of the bed, she gets off every time.

 

[SearchingNomad]

When I get my wife in the right position, ass on the edge of the bed, she gets off every time.

Hold her down bro.., then...you can do it..
Fuck her like no tomorrow

 

[mrmiwon]

So I am sitting here horny as always, a few glasses of wine too many, watching great quality porn and it hits me...

I am so jealous of guys who can fuck for long periods of time. I'm not talking porn actors, but amateur videos of guys pounding their ladies for 15-20 minutes before cumming.

I have always been a "minute man" and have never had the pleasure of bringing a lady to an orgasm with me fucking her, only via me eating her.

Oh well, such is life.

There's a happy medium between going quickly and 15-20 minutes or longer. You can learn to last longer by jerking off and recognizing when you're about to go so you can break the momentum toward explosiong by slowing down and tightening your muscles. You may also have to hold your breath and clench your sphincter to hold back the flood.

Practice enough where you can last five-ten minutes with your hand, you'll be fine in the bed and no more revolutionary war hero.

 

[amofiga]

So I am sitting here horny as always, a few glasses of wine too many, watching great quality porn and it hits me...

I am so jealous of guys who can fuck for long periods of time. I'm not talking porn actors, but amateur videos of guys pounding their ladies for 15-20 minutes before cumming.

I have always been a "minute man" and have never had the pleasure of bringing a lady to an orgasm with me fucking her, only via me eating her.

Oh well, such is life.

You can train yourself to have more control. There are tricks but I suppose each has his own ways to prolong. However, I'd say you should also train your tongue. It's always more relaxed if you first get a woman off at least once orally and then there is a genially more relaxed environment to the proceedings that helps prolong it, sometimes to a second or third orgasm with different techniques. Also, using a vibrator while fucking is a good way to get her off and watching HER and concentrating on HER rather than thinking about your own pleasure can help to last.