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Reflections on Gentleman Doms

cascadiabound said:

"Find someone who loves you well.
Someone who never belittles you. Even
in the heat of an argument. Someone
who is gentle with you, but does not treat
you like you are fragile. Someone who
knows what you are capable of, and
celebrates those pieces of you. Not
someone who is intimated by your
strength. Someone who can call you out
for being a brat, but doesn’t make you
feel guilty for being flawed. It is not love’s
job to punish you. And remember the
person you love is just as broken as you
are when they fall short. No one is
perfect – do not hold them to this
standard. Find someone who is patient,
forgiving, and apologetic. Someone who
practices forgiveness freely and often.
Love someone who is humble, kind and
empathetic. Not only with you, but with a
beggar on the street, or a stranger in the
supermarket. Common courtesy is
important. Compassion is important.
Kindness is important."
​

This I love. :heart:. (although I am not really in need of being called out for being a brat...the rest is perfect)
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Thanks CB :heart:
 
Wild_Honey_66 said:
I bristle at the thought of being called a brat. In my mind, a brat is a sub who willfully and knowingly rebels against their authority for no good reason, which isn't submission at all.

Brattish behavior is different from playful, saucy behavior meant to tease, please, and engage a partner. Different too, from a sub who is petulant or out-of-sorts due to stress or illness or not having their needs met.
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barefootgirl69 said:
I agree with this so much! I never want to willful or bratty, I want to tease and have fun, within limits. I want to please Him.
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It seems to me that both of you describe a kind of bratty/ playful / wanting to please/ submit behavior that is quite enticing to some men/ Doms.

Gentlemen... what kind of "bratty" behavior is fun and irresistible to you? What is a turn off? Do you gravitate to the bratty playful kind of subs? or is that not your cup of tea at all? Why or why not?

I am curious about how the men see it. Please pipe up. :rose:
 
Wild_Honey_66 said:
'How To Get More Out Of Your Dom'

:eek:

I'm kidding, of course. ;) My experience tells me that the best way to get what i want or need isn't through manipulation (which would be topping from the bottom, whether intentionally or subconciously), but simply by asking.

What does that conversation typically look like for you? :)
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Wait.....you're not supposed to manipulate your partner, but simply ask?

Who the hell have I been dating all this time? (except Kat :heart:)
 
cascadiabound said:
It seems to me that both of you describe a kind of bratty/ playful / wanting to please/ submit behavior that is quite enticing to some men/ Doms.

Gentlemen... what kind of "bratty" behavior is fun and irresistible to you? What is a turn off? Do you gravitate to the bratty playful kind of subs? or is that not your cup of tea at all? Why or why not?

I am curious about how the men see it. Please pipe up. :rose:
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I'd also like an answer for this question. Just showing some support. :rose:
 
DarkSimian said:
Wait.....you're not supposed to manipulate your partner, but simply ask?

Who the hell have I been dating all this time? (except Kat :heart:)
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Yeah, this doesn't compute with me, either.

If I ask they might say no!

It's far simpler to passive aggressively allude to what I want in the most vague terms possible.

But what can I say? I'm a catch.
 
Lunation said:
Yeah, this doesn't compute with me, either.

If I ask they might say no!

It's far simpler to passive aggressively allude to what I want in the most vague terms possible.

But what can I say? I'm a catch.
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Mhmm... :rolleyes:

That passive-aggressive thing never works for me. They always make me say exactly what I want in painfully lurid detail.

Fuckers.
 
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Wild_Honey_66 said:
Mhmm... :rolleyes:

That passive-aggressive thing never works for me. They always make me say exactly what I want in painfully lurid detail.

Fuckers.
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Were you vague?

You need to be really, really vague.


Also I see there was a question for the 'gentlemen' above and while I (loosely) fit that definition I, unfortunately, have no answer.
 
Lunation said:
Were you vague?

You need to be really, really vague.


Also I see there was a question for the 'gentlemen' above and while I (loosely) fit that definition I, unfortunately, have no answer.
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Hell yes I was vague! But they tortured it out of me like only a sadist can.

They sat and waited. In silence. 😲
 
found elsewhere...


As a Dominant

I am in control: of myself, of your safety, of your happiness, of our relationship.

I am not controlling.

A key point to remember…

In control to choose what is best.​

Not controlling.
 
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Rimmy is a Dom.

Posting PM's is against forum rules
 
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Claimed by me

Held by me

Humbled by me

Shielded by me

Taken by me

Loved by me

I feel the sigh in your soul as my soft lips whisper against your tired skin and I wrap you in the peace and the safety of my arms.
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:heart:
 
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