Reflections of a straight guy who recently bottomed

[28straightguy]

I am 28, married 7 years. For the past year and a half my wife and I have been involved in the swing scene. We live in a mid size city that has a strong lgbt community and our swing group is open to all. I am straight but have developed friendships with several gay men. Two weekends ago there was a large swing party help that encompassed 3 houses. A few of my gay friends had made plans with this other guy to attend the party at one of the houses and bottom for them but this guy ended up being a no show. Partly out of curiosity but mostly out of friendship I ended up suggesting that I take this guys place. After discussing it with me to make sure I was serious about this 4 friends of mine ended up topping me for about 2 hours. I cant say that I really felt into it sexually but felt ok doing it more from a friendship perspective. I don't have any regrets for it or feel any less of a man from the experience. I do feel that I grew some just as a person. I am just wondering if anyone else have had any type of similar experience.

 

[ramoredrake]

well?

Did you enjoy it? We want details!

D

I am 28, married 7 years. For the past year and a half my wife and I have been involved in the swing scene. We live in a mid size city that has a strong lgbt community and our swing group is open to all. I am straight but have developed friendships with several gay men. Two weekends ago there was a large swing party help that encompassed 3 houses. A few of my gay friends had made plans with this other guy to attend the party at one of the houses and bottom for them but this guy ended up being a no show. Partly out of curiosity but mostly out of friendship I ended up suggesting that I take this guys place. After discussing it with me to make sure I was serious about this 4 friends of mine ended up topping me for about 2 hours. I cant say that I really felt into it sexually but felt ok doing it more from a friendship perspective. I don't have any regrets for it or feel any less of a man from the experience. I do feel that I grew some just as a person. I am just wondering if anyone else have had any type of similar experience.

 

[28straightguy]

Did you enjoy it? We want details!

D

I am just frustrated that I have come away with a feeling of indifference from it.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I can relate to the feeling that "I don't have any regrets for it or feel any less of a man from the experience. I do feel that I grew some just as a person."
I actually felt more of a complete man, since I could enjoy his masculinity and satisfy him with my ass. I fully enjoyed that part of it. And I enjoyed the sensation of my ass being filled with hard cock. I'd fucked a few guys before that, and I really enjoyed being his top.
Ever since, when I'm in bed with a man I want him up my ass. Sadly, not every guy wants to fuck me. Mutual sucking is great, but the night seems incomplete without me getting fucked.
I'm a convert now. I could be happy with just M/M sex, if it weren't for the boobs. I love them too. Maybe I need a tranny. They have it all; tits, ass and cock.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Be sure to give it a few more tries, You may realize it is what you need. Or perhaps being a bottom is more for men who don't feel so manly and enjoy having sex without having to keep a hard on and make sure they cause others to find pleasure before cumming and wilting. I enjoy not having to be hard and virile but knowing my holes can be used over and over to bring others satisfaction. Ever notice a woman can lay there and enjoy while you work to perform.

 

[28straightguy]

Be sure to give it a few more tries, You may realize it is what you need. Or perhaps being a bottom is more for men who don't feel so manly and enjoy having sex without having to keep a hard on and make sure they cause others to find pleasure before cumming and wilting. I enjoy not having to be hard and virile but knowing my holes can be used over and over to bring others satisfaction. Ever notice a woman can lay there and enjoy while you work to perform.

I just felt more like I was there for them

 

[newhere2learn]

I'm kinda in this club. Early/mid-30s. Married and settled for a decade. However when that fell apart I started dabbling with cock. Always safe.

I'd bene toying my own ass for years, like 20+ so I know what feels good and what I can take.

However, month or two ago an impromptu stroke meet with a regular gay guy who's quite hung, resulted in me bottoming. On my back, legs over his shoulders.

Observations during; it was painful at first, good lord I felt full. Perhaps because I wasn't controling the ingress of 7"+ cock into me. However once he'd got going, it was incredible. I was writhing around his bed, making noises I've never done before in my life... Not faking either. Eyes shut... Moaning... Become at one with the cock in me. As soon as he touched my cock, I was solid, and begging for release.

In all honesty I probably lasted under 10 minutes from start to end before I had an explosive orgasm and felt him swell then fill my ass.


Aside from the physical feelings, the mental aspect was phenomenal. I had no interest in him, guys don't sexually arouse me. However, his cock filling me and pushing all the right spots... Insane.

Afterwards I felt spent, weak, and a little embarrassed. Especially when he mentioned how slutty I'd got.

Within an hour or two, is reconciled with myself and come to understand that I am indeed bi. I love women, all of them. 18-70yr old. There isn't many I wouldn't jump into bed with. Beguiling creatures, dangerous and yet so soft.

However, cock works for me on a couple of levels.. firstly the physical sensation, secondly the utter submission I go into... And lastly, guys are typically no fuss. So set meet up, meet, cum, leave.


My one and only bottoming experience left me wanting more, but on my terms. And when I want it. Equally I've had a couple of women since and had a whale of a time

 

[Hitchiker69]

"Become at one with the cock in me." You nailed it. That's exactly how I feel when a man fucks me. And I love it

 

[28straightguy]

I just thought I would have more of a definate feeling one way or another after doing this so its kind of frustrating to me that I don't.

 

[newhere2learn]

"Become at one with the cock in me." You nailed it. That's exactly how I feel when a man fucks me. And I love it

As I say, little/no attraction to men. But cock? It's an item that leads to pleasure.

 

[newhere2learn]

I just thought I would have more of a definate feeling one way or another after doing this so its kind of frustrating to me that I don't.

I feel exactly the same about blowjob from men or women

 

[WordsAreErotic]

I'm kinda in this club. Early/mid-30s. Married and settled for a decade. However when that fell apart I started dabbling with cock. Always safe.

I'd bene toying my own ass for years, like 20+ so I know what feels good and what I can take.

However, month or two ago an impromptu stroke meet with a regular gay guy who's quite hung, resulted in me bottoming. On my back, legs over his shoulders.

Observations during; it was painful at first, good lord I felt full. Perhaps because I wasn't controling the ingress of 7"+ cock into me. However once he'd got going, it was incredible. I was writhing around his bed, making noises I've never done before in my life... Not faking either. Eyes shut... Moaning... Become at one with the cock in me. As soon as he touched my cock, I was solid, and begging for release.

In all honesty I probably lasted under 10 minutes from start to end before I had an explosive orgasm and felt him swell then fill my ass.

Aside from the physical feelings, the mental aspect was phenomenal. I had no interest in him, guys don't sexually arouse me. However, his cock filling me and pushing all the right spots... Insane.

Afterwards I felt spent, weak, and a little embarrassed. Especially when he mentioned how slutty I'd got.

Within an hour or two, is reconciled with myself and come to understand that I am indeed bi. I love women, all of them. 18-70yr old. There isn't many I wouldn't jump into bed with. Beguiling creatures, dangerous and yet so soft.

However, cock works for me on a couple of levels.. firstly the physical sensation, secondly the utter submission I go into... And lastly, guys are typically no fuss. So set meet up, meet, cum, leave.


My one and only bottoming experience left me wanting more, but on my terms. And when I want it. Equally I've had a couple of women since and had a whale of a time

Good God that got me hard and ready. I've only touched and sucked. And that was in my teens. But this. This is what I crave.

 

[Umanual]

Bi

Be sure to give it a few more tries, You may realize it is what you need. Or perhaps being a bottom is more for men who don't feel so manly and enjoy having sex without having to keep a hard on and make sure they cause others to find pleasure before cumming and wilting. I enjoy not having to be hard and virile but knowing my holes can be used over and over to bring others satisfaction. Ever notice a woman can lay there and enjoy while you work to perform.

I am Bi and enjoy sex with both men and women. I agree with the above as far as I enjoy man sex and not having to be hard, or even have direct stimulation with my penis during sex. After ensuring that my Top is fully satisfied I enjoy jerking myself off, but until he is done I am his bottom guy and love having hard cock pounded into me, ...and take his load deep when I know he is safe.

 

[CuriousColorado]

As I say, little/no attraction to men. But cock? It's an item that leads to pleasure.

I couldn't agree more... I'm not really attracted to men, but I melt when I see a cock. A gym membership became a bit difficult because I went into the men's sauna and ended up getting some rather angry looks because of my raging hard-on.

I have fantasized about bottoming, and tried a dildo a couple times (makes me cum so fast, but even after I cum I keep fucking myself with it for a long time), but I've never had the pleasure or opportunity... much less four at once! I can't imagine... must be a great way to discover! I'm sorry it wasn't better for you.

 

[suckcurious]

I'm kinda in this club. Early/mid-30s. Married and settled for a decade. However when that fell apart I started dabbling with cock. Always safe.

I'd bene toying my own ass for years, like 20+ so I know what feels good and what I can take.

However, month or two ago an impromptu stroke meet with a regular gay guy who's quite hung, resulted in me bottoming. On my back, legs over his shoulders.

Observations during; it was painful at first, good lord I felt full. Perhaps because I wasn't controling the ingress of 7"+ cock into me. However once he'd got going, it was incredible. I was writhing around his bed, making noises I've never done before in my life... Not faking either. Eyes shut... Moaning... Become at one with the cock in me. As soon as he touched my cock, I was solid, and begging for release.

In all honesty I probably lasted under 10 minutes from start to end before I had an explosive orgasm and felt him swell then fill my ass.


Aside from the physical feelings, the mental aspect was phenomenal. I had no interest in him, guys don't sexually arouse me. However, his cock filling me and pushing all the right spots... Insane.

Afterwards I felt spent, weak, and a little embarrassed. Especially when he mentioned how slutty I'd got.

Within an hour or two, is reconciled with myself and come to understand that I am indeed bi. I love women, all of them. 18-70yr old. There isn't many I wouldn't jump into bed with. Beguiling creatures, dangerous and yet so soft.

However, cock works for me on a couple of levels.. firstly the physical sensation, secondly the utter submission I go into... And lastly, guys are typically no fuss. So set meet up, meet, cum, leave.


My one and only bottoming experience left me wanting more, but on my terms. And when I want it. Equally I've had a couple of women since and had a whale of a time

I am so happy that you got to try anal, my first time has yet to come but when I topped a guy we both loved it, I didn't cum in him but he sucked me dry, my cock was hurting with the amount of spunk he sucked out of me.

 

[hogjack]

he sucked me dry, my cock was hurting with the amount of spunk he sucked out of me.

Hopefully no IV was necessary for recovery.

 

[jabberwockyjon]

Well I would like to be in that position sometime soon.

 

[28straightguy]

I just been asked to consider doing it again. I am just not sure

 

[Astroman72]

Wow, four guys your first time!

You said you were kind of indifferent about the experience. On a purely sexual level, did you find the sensations pleasant or unpleasant? Did you notice a difference between the guys, based on their penis or their technique? How did you end up cumming?

Oh, and did you try any sucking?

 

[28straightguy]

Wow, four guys your first time!

You said you were kind of indifferent about the experience. On a purely sexual level, did you find the sensations pleasant or unpleasant? Did you notice a difference between the guys, based on their penis or their technique? How did you end up cumming?

Oh, and did you try any sucking?

It was just anal sex, me laying on my stomach. I just took it and didn't really feel anything from it emotionally.

 

[Astroman72]

Being a bisexual guy, your experience sounds super-exciting to me.

On the other hand, I can think of a lot of sexual scenarios that wouldn't exactly turn me off, but wouldn't appeal to me all that much, so I kind of get where you're coming from.

 

[jabberwockyjon]

It was just anal sex, me laying on my stomach. I just took it and didn't really feel anything from it emotionally.

We keep asking how it was physically, not emotionally. You very clearly aren't emotionally into it, other than helping out your friends, but it must not have been terrible since you haven't made up your mind whether to do it again or not. Did it hurt, feel good, somewhere in between? Have you experienced anal play before? I would assume if you hadn't there's no way you would have offered.

 

[28straightguy]

We keep asking how it was physically, not emotionally. You very clearly aren't emotionally into it, other than helping out your friends, but it must not have been terrible since you haven't made up your mind whether to do it again or not. Did it hurt, feel good, somewhere in between? Have you experienced anal play before? I would assume if you hadn't there's no way you would have offered.

I had not had any prior anal play. It hurt with the 1st couple of guys but after that not so much. I think the big thing that allowed this to work is that they did this respectfully and not too rough. The after effects of this was me just being sore the next day but I guess that should be expected just from the friction aspect.

 

[jabberwockyjon]

I had not had any prior anal play. It hurt with the 1st couple of guys but after that not so much. I think the big thing that allowed this to work is that they did this respectfully and not too rough. The after effects of this was me just being sore the next day but I guess that should be expected just from the friction aspect.

Thanks. Wow, you're pretty brave then, with no prior anal play. Some of that soreness was probably from being stretched out in a way you aren't used to. As long as enough lube was used there shouldn't be too much soreness from friction....but too much lube is almost enough, so they say.

 

[rickdickerson]

I'm kinda in this club. Early/mid-30s. Married and settled for a decade. However when that fell apart I started dabbling with cock. Always safe.

I'd bene toying my own ass for years, like 20+ so I know what feels good and what I can take.

However, month or two ago an impromptu stroke meet with a regular gay guy who's quite hung, resulted in me bottoming. On my back, legs over his shoulders.

Observations during; it was painful at first, good lord I felt full. Perhaps because I wasn't controling the ingress of 7"+ cock into me. However once he'd got going, it was incredible. I was writhing around his bed, making noises I've never done before in my life... Not faking either. Eyes shut... Moaning... Become at one with the cock in me. As soon as he touched my cock, I was solid, and begging for release.

In all honesty I probably lasted under 10 minutes from start to end before I had an explosive orgasm and felt him swell then fill my ass.


Aside from the physical feelings, the mental aspect was phenomenal. I had no interest in him, guys don't sexually arouse me. However, his cock filling me and pushing all the right spots... Insane.

Afterwards I felt spent, weak, and a little embarrassed. Especially when he mentioned how slutty I'd got.

Within an hour or two, is reconciled with myself and come to understand that I am indeed bi. I love women, all of them. 18-70yr old. There isn't many I wouldn't jump into bed with. Beguiling creatures, dangerous and yet so soft.

However, cock works for me on a couple of levels.. firstly the physical sensation, secondly the utter submission I go into... And lastly, guys are typically no fuss. So set meet up, meet, cum, leave.


My one and only bottoming experience left me wanting more, but on my terms. And when I want it. Equally I've had a couple of women since and had a whale of a time

This is exactly how I envision bottoming for a Man for the first time. I've trained my ass and mind to love the feeling of being filled with Cock by masturbating with dildos frequently, I absolutely love to be filled up and experience the sensations of my 9 inch rubber dildo sliding in and out of me. I am able to cum and have extremely explosive orgasms from fucking my dildos, and the orgasms are like no other orgasm you've ever felt, even with any woman.

I crave to experience the feeling of a real Cock now, and a warm body to share this experience with. I have a natural submissive side and want to offer my hole to a masculine dominant Man.