Red's Thread - come in and read a bit, post a bit, and lick a bit... okay... alot!!!

[Scentofawoman]

I have been sent orders to turn myself in here in this thread... after reading the last page I'm feeling a little nervous. LOL

A I'm glad you followed those orders. lol!

You got to go back about 4 pages i think now to see what we are talking about.

 

[lance gt]

I have been sent orders to turn myself in here in this thread... after reading the last page I'm feeling a little nervous. LOL

No need to be nervous beautiful lady. This is a place to come and comfortably explore those things that intrigue and frighten us.
Welcome to Red's and make yourself comfortable

 

[VioletFlame]

A I'm glad you followed those orders. lol!

You got to go back about 4 pages i think now to see what we are talking about.

Well, I'm glad I managed to find someone to please by following orders. LMAO

 

[lance gt]

Well, I'm glad I managed to find someone to please by following orders. LMAO

I'm pleased, that makes two. Batting a 1000 so far.

 

[WearMeWell]

The tools that WearMeWell has given me over the many weeks, months and hopefully years to come are now within my reach. I find the leather loop of the crop's handle and slide my wrist inside it.

*well farg. it was the crop.

FINE. I'll get another one to replace the broken one.

 

[VioletFlame]

I'm pleased, that makes two. Batting a 1000 so far.

I'll bet the girls around here like pleasing you quite a bit.

 

[lance gt]

*well farg. it was the crop.

FINE. I'll get another one to replace the broken one.

I have a very good memory of what has scarred my flesh

 

[WearMeWell]

Well, I'm glad I managed to find someone to please by following orders. LMAO

*deep curtsey~ Greetings VioletFlame; a pleasure to meet you. Thank you for coming on over. Welcome to THE best place on Lit. I'm WMW~,-- and dont mind me just now; im throwing a fit over a crop i gave Lady Red, that lance broke.

 

[lance gt]

I'll bet the girls around here like pleasing you quite a bit.

Pleasing me??? They like to strip me naked and beat and humiliate me.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

*well farg. it was the crop.

FINE. I'll get another one to replace the broken one.

I know!! It felt good swinging that down on his thigh.

*chuckles* Well, your job is complete. Welcome and don't be too nervous we only bite when permission is given.

~ I'm Red.

Scent posted on top of my greeting for you VioletFlame.

 

[sereneone4u]

you're welcome.

Serene, if you have a good dominant then he will have asked you what your limits are then he will explore those limits with you. But if you say no, and he doesn't stop, then you know he is truly in it for himself and not for you. That is when you move on.


A Dominant that does not ask questions or listens to answers is not a good dominant at all. Period
***For you lurkers***

Oh no, that is not the issue at all...

I just mean I sometimes complentate what work it is or I assume it is to be a good Dom and I wonder if it is worth all that work.

It obviously is or they would not do it.

I quite often think too much.

 

[lance gt]

*deep curtsey~ Greetings VioletFlame; a pleasure to meet you. Thank you for coming on over. Welcome to THE best place on Lit. I'm WMW~,-- and dont mind me just now; im throwing a fit over a crop i gave Lady Red, that lance broke.

And broke for good reason. defiling the highlander in such a way. There can be only one, so don't cut me down and make me only a half, lmao

 

[WearMeWell]

I'll bet the girls around here like pleasing you quite a bit.

*smirk~ nah. we're still keeping our distance, in recovery mode from his "exchange" with Lady Red a couple of days ago.(on the 29th)

other than that, i think i may have planted a flogger on his rask a time or two.

 

[Scentofawoman]

Oh no, that is not the issue at all...

I just mean I sometimes complentate what work it is or I assume it is to be a good Dom and I wonder if it is worth all that work.

It obviously is or they would not do it.

I quite often think too much.

I am always overthinking. Sometimes i really just want to stop thinking. Thats when I come to Lit. lol!

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Oh no, that is not the issue at all...

I just mean I sometimes complentate what work it is or I assume it is to be a good Dom and I wonder if it is worth all that work.

It obviously is or they would not do it.

I quite often think too much.

It is a lot of work, I'm sure. But so is being a submissive.

The worst experience I ever had was when I confessed to my partner who I had been with for about a year that I was feeling as if the things he was doing was not right... they felt like mind games to me. I was new and learning as was he (thus while I'll never become involved with a new Dom - ever). I explained that I was hurting and he told me he knew this and he said he couldn't help it (Hurting me and playing the mind games) ... He said it was like watching a man get kicked in the balls. You know it hurts, but you can't help but watch and laugh every time it happens.

I ended things after that, I believe within a couple days after he had said it.

I know that to some it sounds like I am bitter about him, but I'm not. Not anymore. He was young and new and I was new and not-so-young. He made a mistake in his treatment of me and I made a mistake in allowing it to go on for so long. It scarred me, and it took many many many years before I even considered looking again and even then I wasn't really looking. I stumbled into a very caring relationship that helped to heal me.

I forgave the boy - for that is what he was - a boy - I like to think he is a man now, but I don't know. I do know that I would not trust him ever again with my soul, even though I do forgive him.

 

[lance gt]

I am always overthinking. Sometimes i really just want to stop thinking. Thats when I come to Lit. lol!

I come to Lit to think. RL boggles me to no end sometimes. I come here and the world seems like a normal place again. I'm not normal, but the world seems to be.

 

[lance gt]

It is a lot of work, I'm sure. But so is being a submissive.

The worst experience I ever had was when I confessed to my partner who I had been with for about a year that I was feeling as if the things he was doing was right... they felt like mind games to me. I was new and learning as was he (thus while I'll never become involved with a new Dom - ever). I explained that I was hurting and he told me he knew this and he said he couldn't help it (Hurting me and playing the mind games) ... He said it was like watching a man get kicked in the balls. You know it hurts, but you can't help but watch and laugh every time it happens.

I ended things after that, I believe within a couple days after he had said it.

I know that to some it sounds like I am bitter about him, but I'm not. Not anymore. He was young and new and I was new and not-so-young. He made a mistake in his treatment of me and I made a mistake in allowing it to go on for so long. It scarred me, and it took many many many years before I even considered looking again and even then I wasn't really looking. I stumbled into a very caring relationship that helped to heal me.

I forgave the boy - for that is what he was - a boy - I like to think he is a man now, but I don't know. I do know that I would not trust him ever again with my soul, even though I do forgive him.

Trust. A fragile thing that takes along time to grow and nurture. A thing that inspires confidence and hope. A thing that brings a peace to a frightened spirit.
The fragility is such, that even the smallest of deviations from it, can make it wither, or die.

 

[VioletFlame]

*smirk~ nah. we're still keeping our distance, in recovery mode from his "exchange" with Lady Red a couple of days ago.(on the 29th)

other than that, i think i may have planted a flogger on his rask a time or two.

Ah... see I needed correction, not just commands. LOL

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Trust. A fragile thing that takes along time to grow and nurture. A thing that inspires confidence and hope. A thing that brings a peace to a frightened spirit.
The fragility is such, that even the smallest of deviations from it, can make it wither, or die.

Yes, and once broken it is hard to mend. I am very good with forgiving a person and have forgiven many and I know I have been forgiven too, but trust -- break that and forgiveness may come to you, but you must work hard to rebuild the trust.

 

[Scentofawoman]

I come to Lit to think. RL boggles me to no end sometimes. I come here and the world seems like a normal place again. I'm not normal, but the world seems to be.

yeah, well tell that to the 2 baskets of laundry ! got next to my feet!

Lance i'm glad you get some serenity.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I'll bet the girls around here like pleasing you quite a bit.

He's a big softy. So he's easy to please and easy, so he fits in.

I have a very good memory of what has scarred my flesh

Mmm... memories are so sweet. *sighs blissfully*

Pleasing me??? They like to strip me naked and beat and humiliate me.

Again --- you like it.

 

[Jett_73]

I am always overthinking. Sometimes i really just want to stop thinking. Thats when I come to Lit. lol!

Morning all. just a quick visit before work.
I see we're all a little reflective today.
I know what you mean, Scent. I have a tendency to over-analyze stuff. Sometimes I've just got to consciously let it go and go with the flow. And surprise! Stuff usually works out OK.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Morning all. just a quick visit before work.
I see we're all a little reflective today.
I know what you mean, Scent. I have a tendency to over-analyze stuff. Sometimes I've just got to consciously let it go and go with the flow. And surprise! Stuff usually works out OK.

JETT!! Quick post again fast! Your post count is 666!!!!!

 

[Jett_73]

JETT!! Quick post again fast! Your post count is 666!!!!!

 

[lance gt]

Morning all. just a quick visit before work.
I see we're all a little reflective today.
I know what you mean, Scent. I have a tendency to over-analyze stuff. Sometimes I've just got to consciously let it go and go with the flow. And surprise! Stuff usually works out OK.

Good morning Jett Hope the day is better than the last.