Red's Thread - come in and read a bit, post a bit, and lick a bit... okay... alot!!!

[Jett_73]

*thank you Jett~ *enjoys the hug, maybe it will slow the shaking.~

i barely know you, so, im grateful. thank you for your kindness.

Cup of tea. Herbal. Soft music. Just sit quietly. Calm

 

[Callmetim]

Hi guys; i dont mean to be a thread/thrill killer, but, i could use your good thoughts, vibes, etc.

-- was in an accident this morning, busted my face, lost some teeth, got some stitches, etc.etc.

i'm just home from the minor emergency and i dont know what all they shot me full of, but the pain meds are waning. im going to try and dose off i think, and try and check in later- cuz y'all are the fun part of my life/days...
not all here mentally at present.- sort of all over the place with everything they threw at me. sorry

i'll have a "re-assess" Monday, unless something bad happens between now and then.

You know you have friends here WMW ... if you are still in pain, then call your primary before their office closes to get a script written.

(((((HUGS)))))

 

[lance gt]

Hi guys; i dont mean to be a thread/thrill killer, but, i could use your good thoughts, vibes, etc.

-- was in an accident this morning, busted my face, lost some teeth, got some stitches, etc.etc.

i'm just home from the minor emergency and i dont know what all they shot me full of, but the pain meds are waning. im going to try and dose off i think, and try and check in later- cuz y'all are the fun part of my life/days...
not all here mentally at present.- sort of all over the place with everything they threw at me. sorry

i'll have a "re-assess" Monday, unless something bad happens between now and then.

Ok, first off, rest and don't do any moving around. Even though they released you, symptoms can appear at any time, even days later. If you feel sick, it might be a sign of concusion, but hopefully they feel you're past that threat. Keep track of any changes in eye sight, neck pain, headaches, body functions/movement. Start a daily journal of everything as it happens, for insurance purposes. Trust me, it means everything come settlement time.

I say all this in earnest, because I have been in 5 major accidents, the last almost taking my life and starting my physical problems I have now. If you need anything and I mean anything, PM me and I will do what I can to assist you through this. The next 48 hrs are crucial to watch over, I'll be available at all times.

RICE (rest, ice, compression, elevation) any swelling around joints, heating pad on muscles to relax them, then massage to remove the stress. Don't bathe in the tub, unless supervised. Drink plenty of water and no caffiene or sugar. Herbal teas are best. I'll start you off with this for now and we can PM, if you want more.

Take care sweet lady

 

[Scentofawoman]

Thanks. *hug(gingerly) i can decide if i want to rip my pounding throbbing aching head off or cushion it in pillows and ice packs.

can i cry now? no, i'd better not. it will make everything hurt worse.

im starting to shake again. - stupid meds and nerves and accidents... i hate the shaking. it hurts.

i cant keep flipping back and forth between being mad and wanting to cry.

--

WMW:

Pm me too if you need anything. Listen to Lance's advice. When the meds wear off you WILL feel like crap. Rest now as you can

Cry WMW. you had a terrible fright. Heck I'll cry with you. Just rest. give us updates as you can.

 

[lance gt]

WMW:

Pm me too if you need anything. Listen to Lance's advice. When the meds wear off you WILL feel like crap. Rest now as you can

Cry WMW. you had a terrible fright. Heck I'll cry with you. Just rest. give us updates as you can.

Damn, the shit is really piling up today, isn't it? Madame Dubya, my Baby is suffering from a pill reaction and hasn't slept since last night, stalkers and pervs running rampant, what more?

 

[Scentofawoman]

Damn, the shit is really piling up today, isn't it? Madame Dubya, my Baby is suffering from a pill reaction and hasn't slept since last night, stalkers and pervs running rampant, what more?

I don't know, but I'm about to let out another primal scream!

 

[BlackCashmere]

Just wanted to stop in and say hi...

Wanted to send heartfelt hugs to all of you who have been going through tough times here...Bless you...

 

[warl0ck1]

ok what the hell is going on first my wife almost gets killed last night then my nephew this morning and now WMW this shit just has to stop now.

 

[WearMeWell]

sorry guys; had to change my gauze and rinse and stuff.
*yuck.
and seriously starting to feel like crap. this may be it for a few hours.

You know you have friends here WMW ... if you are still in pain, then call your primary before their office closes to get a script written.

(((((HUGS)))))

Thank you for the reply and advice.-- and the hug~
*Penecillin, Naproxren, Procardia...got em. all doped upand supposedly good to go.

Ok, first off, rest and don't do any moving around. Even though they released you, symptoms can appear at any time, even days later. If you feel sick, it might be a sign of concusion, but hopefully they feel you're past that threat. Keep track of any changes in eye sight, neck pain, headaches, body functions/movement. Start a daily journal of everything as it happens, for insurance purposes. Trust me, it means everything come settlement time.

I say all this in earnest, because I have been in 5 major accidents, the last almost taking my life and starting my physical problems I have now. If you need anything and I mean anything, PM me and I will do what I can to assist you through this. The next 48 hrs are crucial to watch over, I'll be available at all times.

RICE (rest, ice, compression, elevation) any swelling around joints, heating pad on muscles to relax them, then massage to remove the stress. Don't bathe in the tub, unless supervised. Drink plenty of water and no caffiene or sugar. Herbal teas are best. I'll start you off with this for now and we can PM, if you want more.

Take care sweet lady

I'd be very grateful, if it's ok with you and Ms. Tricia - to be able to bother you with all this in PM instead of dragging down the thread.

im going to have to read this reply, to gather all that was said, after while. Not feeling so great just now...
*Huuuuuuuuuuuuuuug~ very very grateful for you and this...

Damn, the shit is really piling up today, isn't it? Madame Dubya, my Baby is suffering from a pill reaction and hasn't slept since last night, stalkers and pervs running rampant, what more?

*hug~
dont ask what more,...it give it an excuse to happen.

*baby stuff...try breaking open an activated charcoal tablet, mixing it with honey and gently smearing it on the roof of his/her mouth and on
her tongue to get it in her.(this works if they have trouble swallowing pills, too)
dose: up to 3 capsules worth, depending on age.

warm fomentations to the spine with a massage~

fennel tea

 

[lance gt]

ok what the hell is going on first my wife almost gets killed last night then my nephew this morning and now WMW this shit just has to stop now.

I know W, hugs man, this has been a hell of a day to take so far. All I can say is Thank God everyone is alive, pains we can deal with. Follow the same advice that I gave to WMW and if you need anything in the way of help, let me know. Ease your heart, friend, we'll get through it all together.

 

[WearMeWell]

WMW:

Pm me too if you need anything. Listen to Lance's advice. When the meds wear off you WILL feel like crap. Rest now as you can

Cry WMW. you had a terrible fright. Heck I'll cry with you. Just rest. give us updates as you can.

dont know how i missed you in the multi-post thing...
hug~ thank you.


...seriously feeling like sh*t now...going to go laydown.- i hope.

 

[lance gt]

sorry guys; had to change my gauze and rinse and stuff.
*yuck.
and seriously starting to feel like crap. this may be it for a few hours.




Thank you for the reply and advice.-- and the hug~
*Penecillin, Naproxren, Procardia...got em. all doped upand supposedly good to go.





I'd be very grateful, if it's ok with you and Ms. Tricia - to be able to bother you with all this in PM instead of dragging down the thread.

im going to have to read this reply, to gather all that was said, after while. Not feeling so great just now...
*Huuuuuuuuuuuuuuug~ very very grateful for you and this...




*hug~
dont ask what more,...it give it an excuse to happen.

*baby stuff...try breaking open an activated charcoal tablet, mixing it with honey and gently smearing it on the roof of his/her mouth and on
her tongue to get it in her.(this works if they have trouble swallowing pills, too)
dose: up to 3 capsules worth, depending on age.

warm fomentations to the spine with a massage~

fennel tea

I await your PM's WMW.

 

[lance gt]

Just wanted to stop in and say hi...

Wanted to send heartfelt hugs to all of you who have been going through tough times here...Bless you...

Thank you sweet lady we are having a troubling day here.

 

[creaman_nsa]

Damn, the shit is really piling up today, isn't it? Madame Dubya, my Baby is suffering from a pill reaction and hasn't slept since last night, stalkers and pervs running rampant, what more?

Don't ask... Today seems to be a day for the Devil to run rampant.
I pray for the return of good things for everyone.

 

[creaman_nsa]

Just wanted to stop in and say hi...

Wanted to send heartfelt hugs to all of you who have been going through tough times here...Bless you...

Hi and now that your here, things are looking up.

 

[sereneone4u]

Hello all...
I have been a Lit member since this past March and so far I can say that I have met some awesome individuals.....It has been quite fun to participate in the threads, especially the Playground.... have received some wonderful messages from females , however , I did receive a few messages from a woman who was mad as hell because I wouldn't " fuck " her..............


I wrote about it in a post that explains what happened....fortunately, she cooled off and never messaged me again....

We live in a world where people feel the urgency to be in control, who want their esteem to be heightened by deflating some one elses....it happens online and in real life as everyone knows. It's all around us...children are abused at the hands of their parents, teens are bullied at school from other teens, spouses are verbally and physically hurt by their spouses words and hands, elders are abused by their children.....I could go on and on...

My sig says that I always treat women with RESPECT , whether it"s online or offline....and I get hot under the collar if I hear that a woman has been treated poorly. I believe that we as humans should all treat one another with respect...no excuse not to....
We definitely ALL need to be one another's eyes and ears in this world...but, we must always remember that we need to be our very own advocate and not allow ourselves to become a bullie's victim.

Yes, I agree...words hurt....whether it's online or offline...but, when they are coming from someone who doesn't have an ounce of decency then let it go and don't look back.

Online activity is entertaining and indeed friendships are made, that have just as much substance as out in the real world...however, always remember ....keep your guard up and be cautious on how much you reveal to someone...

Having said that...this is my very first post in this thread and I like it very much. Scent is a great gal and she recommended that I read the posts that transpired today.

Looking forward to coming in more often.

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!

Hello BEG

You are a perfect gentleman...perfect

 

[sereneone4u]

You're very welcome, Serene and I trust there's been no further incidents.

He came back with an ALT and has laid low, however in the last few months a lady Litster PMed me about him and said that things ended because I moved on to "other men"

To refresh your memory he is the one I had a relationship on here with on and off for three years, finding out everything he had ever told me was a lie other than the fact that he was male. Then when I finally ended it, he made passive-aggressive comments about me and to me. Luckily you handled it before it esculated and I always appreciate you doing that for me. Thank you again.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Hi guys; i dont mean to be a thread/thrill killer, but, i could use your good thoughts, vibes, etc.

-- was in an accident this morning, busted my face, lost some teeth, got some stitches, etc.etc.

i'm just home from the minor emergency and i dont know what all they shot me full of, but the pain meds are waning. im going to try and dose off i think, and try and check in later- cuz y'all are the fun part of my life/days...
not all here mentally at present.- sort of all over the place with everything they threw at me. sorry

i'll have a "re-assess" Monday, unless something bad happens between now and then.

I'm really sorry to hear that happened to you...

I just came into this thread yesterday, and I see all the terrible things everyone is going through and it makes me feel like such a jerk that I complain about te day to day crap.

Anyway, I just wanted to wish WMW to get better soon, and let everyone else know as well that you are in my thoughts. What a horrible day

 

[Scentofawoman]

I'm really sorry to hear that happened to you...

I just came into this thread yesterday, and I see all the terrible things everyone is going through and it makes me feel like such a jerk that I complain about te day to day crap.

Anyway, I just wanted to wish WMW to get better soon, and let everyone else know as well that you are in my thoughts. What a horrible day

Tricky,

don'tfeel bad. today was a weird day.

Actually sometimes things like this need to be said. I know there are a lot of new woman out there that read but don't post. For 2 months I was one of them. I hope that what each of has shared will help anohter.

Somedays we have self counceling sessions. Other nights it's all about sex.

 

[creaman_nsa]

Sorry to all the new posters in the thread. It is not normally like this in here... However like we have said in past posts, we are real, the things we bring to Red's house are real. We all share each others sadness and hurts as well as the good and beautiful things that happen.
I (We) wish for only the best for all of our friends here.

 

[lance gt]

He came back with an ALT and has laid low, however in the last few months a lady Litster PMed me about him and said that things ended because I moved on to "other men"

To refresh your memory he is the one I had a relationship on here with on and off for three years, finding out everything he had ever told me was a lie other than the fact that he was male. Then when I finally ended it, he made passive-aggressive comments about me and to me. Luckily you handled it before it esculated and I always appreciate you doing that for me. Thank you again.

I do remember him. He was a vile man and needed to be taken care of. I remember the hurt he caused you and it sickened me that it was happening to someone so sweet. No matter what went on between you in private, he had no place making it a public issue. I'm thankful I have the tenacity to deal with these asshats and make them stop. I was hounded by people to stop harrassing a guy, because I stalked him in each and every thread he went to, no matter what forum. I was hated and put on iggy, for my attacks. In the end, he left, never returned, even as an Alt., that I know of. Me, those that know why, admire me, those that don't, can think what they want. Those that have been harrassed, know where they can come for help, those that harrass, know that I await patiently to strike at anytime.

 

[sereneone4u]

I know that sometimes ignore doesn't work --- I don't understand why though. If all the folks you are friends with agree not to quote the person and you don't see what they are saying than you don't see it. You don't get their PMs. If they step into your real world you can take more legal actions.

I'm not trying to make light of this subject, I'm not. I know it is a serious one. I just don't see how not responding/ignoring/blocking emails/chat etc. doesn't work.

Where else are they able to harass you?

True if your friends agree not to quote him and you put him on ignore, etc. However, people I did not know well would PM me and ask why is this creep following you around, calling you a whore and a slut and why is he making a thread about you causing him a heart attack, etc. They did it out of concern for me and it was appreciated but it kept esculating. He would follow me around and post after me constantly. Sometimes someone has to step up and put a stop to it, I don't know who like I said, but I am really thankful.

Yes ignoring works in most cases for sure, but sometimes there are extreme cases.

 

[lance gt]

I'm really sorry to hear that happened to you...

I just came into this thread yesterday, and I see all the terrible things everyone is going through and it makes me feel like such a jerk that I complain about te day to day crap.

Anyway, I just wanted to wish WMW to get better soon, and let everyone else know as well that you are in my thoughts. What a horrible day

If anything Tricky, this is the best Reality show going. It doesn't get anymore real than what goes on in here. Thanks for helping us get through this, this is what makes this a great thread to come to and great people to know.

 

[sereneone4u]

Hi guys; i dont mean to be a thread/thrill killer, but, i could use your good thoughts, vibes, etc.

-- was in an accident this morning, busted my face, lost some teeth, got some stitches, etc.etc.

i'm just home from the minor emergency and i dont know what all they shot me full of, but the pain meds are waning. im going to try and dose off i think, and try and check in later- cuz y'all are the fun part of my life/days...
not all here mentally at present.- sort of all over the place with everything they threw at me. sorry

i'll have a "re-assess" Monday, unless something bad happens between now and then.

Oh WearMe, I am so very sorry to hear this.

Thankfully it was not worse, although it was bad enough....prayers for complete healing, love.

 

[warl0ck1]

yeah we do seem to be a danger prone group lately. but on a strange bit of wacky thing I got to see my wife on TV last night because of her adventures.