Recovery Time

[Steve_9892001]

Hi,

I'm curious to hear from the ladies how long it takes you to recover from an orgasm. I love giving my girlfriend long and slow oral sex until she cums. I'd like to keep going to bring her to a second orgasm, but she is very sensitive after coming and doesn't want to be stimulated.

Any suggestions on easing her back into a state of arousal?

Steve

 

[schatz]

Try to avoid her clitoris for a few minutes, just continue with gentle licking inside her thighs and on her outer lips. Keep this up for a little while and then slowly get back to the inner lips and clit with gentle pressure and then slowly build up.

 

[dreamer]

Varies a ton depending on the woman...just like with men.

Talk to her. Play. Enjoy the learning curve

 

[alphacat]

I can't say this is true for every woman, but many women's clits get so sensitive after orgasm that they need at least a few minutes before it stops being almost painful to have it touched. However, women do have the whole rest of their body to play with , and if you want to keep giving her oral sex... you could always penetrate her with your tongue... that feels really good and she should probably be able to handle that even after orgasm.

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

good advice...

Try to avoid her clitoris for a few minutes, just continue with gentle licking inside her thighs and on her outer lips. Keep this up for a little while and then slowly get back to the inner lips and clit with gentle pressure and then slowly build up.

My clit is usually really sensitive after I cum. I have found that by avoiding it for a while and focusing attention elsewhere while I "recover" from my O, I can easily be brought to orgasm again..


*smile*
Reina

 

[Kelly_Liscious]

I notice that after I climax the first time, it will only increase my hunger for another orgasm. I do not get too sensitive that I have to stop ... but all women are different.

 

[Voosla]

Try to avoid her clitoris for a few minutes, just continue with gentle licking inside her thighs and on her outer lips. Keep this up for a little while and then slowly get back to the inner lips and clit with gentle pressure and then slowly build up.

totally agree with shatz, i can't stand having my clit licked after I cum, but if you avoid it for a few minutes its ok. Try probing her vagina with your tongue for a min or two, that'll start me back up again.

 

[SXCRgirl]

I am a bit sensitive right after I come during oral sex. So as a variation, and one of my most favorite things is, intercourse right after. My pussy is tingling and alive and my second orgasm isn't too far from happening. Plus, with him on top and thrusting and rubbing against my clit, it's not too difficult to come.

 

[huskie]

I am a bit sensitive right after I come during oral sex. So as a variation, and one of my most favorite things is, intercourse right after. My pussy is tingling and alive and my second orgasm isn't too far from happening. Plus, with him on top and thrusting and rubbing against my clit, it's not too difficult to come.

just had to say "Pussy" agan, didn't ya????

 

[Persephone36]

Sisters under the skin, lol

I am a bit sensitive right after I come during oral sex. So as a variation, and one of my most favorite things is, intercourse right after. My pussy is tingling and alive and my second orgasm isn't too far from happening. Plus, with him on top and thrusting and rubbing against my clit, it's not too difficult to come.

What can I say -- totally works for me too, lol.

Actually, I find it really depends during the whole course of sex...I'm in my mid-thirties now. So, sometimes I can keep climaxing one right on top of the other. And sometimes I get sensitive and sore and need a little break. Besides, that's when it's nice to focus my attentions on him too.

But you know, after I've hit the 6th orgasm -- I sort of stop counting. Truly there are *great* advantages to getting older!

Oh, and Huskie -- you just want us all to keep saying pussy.


Persephone

 

[SXCRgirl]

LMAO... mmmm hmmmmm...

You caught me there huskie!

 

[huskie]

Re: Sisters under the skin, lol

Oh, and Huskie -- you just want us all to keep saying pussy.


Persephone

Yes MAM I do!!!!! say it agan??? Please!!!!! (jumping up and down like a four year old I know) Please!!!!!

 

[Persephone36]

Re: Re: Sisters under the skin, lol

Yes MAM I do!!!!! say it agan??? Please!!!!! (jumping up and down like a four year old I know) Please!!!!!

Just for you sweets -- (I can't resist Southern men, particularly when they beg)

Pusssssssy, pussy, puuuuuuuusy, hmmmmm, PUSSY, pussssssssssssssssssssy!

How was that?


Persephone

 

[huskie]

Re: Re: Re: Sisters under the skin, lol

Just for you sweets -- (I can't resist Southern men, particularly when they beg)

Pusssssssy, pussy, puuuuuuuusy, hmmmmm, PUSSY, pussssssssssssssssssssy!

How was that?


Persephone

Thank you!!!!! hey did you ever meet the Crockadile Hunter when you lived down under? and how the hell can you stand the cold north after living in Aussie??

 

[SXCRgirl]

Re: Sisters under the skin, lol

What can I say -- totally works for me too, lol.

Actually, I find it really depends during the whole course of sex...I'm in my mid-thirties now. So, sometimes I can keep climaxing one right on top of the other. And sometimes I get sensitive and sore and need a little break. Besides, that's when it's nice to focus my attentions on him too.

But you know, after I've hit the 6th orgasm -- I sort of stop counting. Truly there are *great* advantages to getting older!

Oh, and Huskie -- you just want us all to keep saying pussy.


Persephone

LOL... Persephone! You are right. I'm in my early 30s and I found that I love being a multi kind of girl.

I love being an active participant when it comes to sex. I'm not one of those that just lays there and lets it happen. Now, I just need to find the right partner and I'll be in heaven.

Oh, and just for you huskie... pussy, pussy, pussy... mmmm... good... pussy. Said in a breathy, turned on voice.

 

[Persephone36]

Sisters under the skin

LOL... Persephone! You are right. I'm in my early 30s and I found that I love being a multi kind of girl.

I love being an active participant when it comes to sex. I'm not one of those that just lays there and lets it happen. Now, I just need to find the right partner and I'll be in heaven.

********************

Well SXCRgirl -- I can tell you retain that attitude -- and you won't have to wait for long, lol. After all -- what kind of man wouldn't appreciate that? Wait -- don't answer that question, lol.

I completely agree with you! What's more, I've personally found, that they become easier and more frequent the further you get into your thirties. And my god, isn't *that* a beautiful thing!!

Oh, and here's a few more for huskie -- pussy, hmmm, pusssssy, pussy, pussy, pussy (also said in deep breathy voice)

Now you just need SXCRgirl and I to be saying "pussy" at the same time for you, lol

P.

 

[huskie]

Re: Re: Sisters under the skin, lol

LOL... Persephone! You are right. I'm in my early 30s and I found that I love being a multi kind of girl.

I love being an active participant when it comes to sex. I'm not one of those that just lays there and lets it happen. Now, I just need to find the right partner and I'll be in heaven.

Oh, and just for you huskie... pussy, pussy, pussy... mmmm... good... pussy. Said in a breathy, turned on voice.

THANK YOU!!!!!
I know i'm going to piss some twenty yr old girls off, But I just can't help it! I love them girls over thirty! They are so much more open, smart, funny and they know what the hell they want and are less afraid to after it....... just wish I had had my 20 something stamina back, though, to keep up with'm.

oh and PUSSY!!!!! "I can't wait to eat your wet little pussy" huskie says in an even breathyer voice

 

[Persephone36]

Re: Re: Re: Sisters under the skin, lol

THANK YOU!!!!!
I know i'm going to piss some twenty yr old girls off, But I just can't help it! I love them girls over thirty! They are so much more open, smart, funny and they know what the hell they want and are less afraid to after it.......

My god huskie! You just described me and all my friends to a "T"

 

[SXCRgirl]

Re: Re: Re: Sisters under the skin, lol

THANK YOU!!!!!
I know i'm going to piss some twenty yr old girls off, But I just can't help it! I love them girls over thirty! They are so much more open, smart, funny and they know what the hell they want and are less afraid to after it....... just wish I had had my 20 something stamina back, though, to keep up with'm.

oh and PUSSY!!!!! "I can't wait to eat your wet little pussy" huskie says in an even breathyer voice

Mmmmm... breathy voice. I love hearing a man's voice get husky when he gets turned on.

The wonderful thing about hitting 30 is self-acceptance. You don't get there until you've lived through your 20s and found what works and what doesn't FOR YOU. You've realized what your strengths are and your weakness, and love yourself anyway. You know that you're not going to be on the cover of a magazine competing with Jennifer Lopez, but find yourself sexy anyway. This quiet confidence is what makes a woman extremely alluring and desirable. This is what I found when I hit my 30s. I know who I am and what I am all about AND what I want.

Okay, just my 0.02.

 

[SXCRgirl]

Re: Sisters under the skin

Well SXCRgirl -- I can tell you retain that attitude -- and you won't have to wait for long, lol. After all -- what kind of man wouldn't appreciate that? Wait -- don't answer that question, lol.

I completely agree with you! What's more, I've personally found, that they become easier and more frequent the further you get into your thirties. And my god, isn't *that* a beautiful thing!!

Oh, and here's a few more for huskie -- pussy, hmmm, pusssssy, pussy, pussy, pussy (also said in deep breathy voice)

Now you just need SXCRgirl and I to be saying "pussy" at the same time for you, lol

P. [/B]

LOL... okay, I won't answer that question. Needless to say, my last partner and I didnt work out, even though we had an awesome sex life. *shrug* I'm not worried about it. It's his loss and I'm looking ahead to the future.

Oh yes, frequent wonderful sex is a good thing. A very good thing.

 

[Persephone36]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Sisters under the skin, lol

The wonderful thing about hitting 30 is self-acceptance. You don't get there until you've lived through your 20s and found what works and what doesn't FOR YOU. You've realized what your strengths are and your weakness, and love yourself anyway. You know that you're not going to be on the cover of a magazine competing with Jennifer Lopez, but find yourself sexy anyway. This quiet confidence is what makes a woman extremely alluring and desirable. This is what I found when I hit my 30s. I know who I am and what I am all about AND what I want.

Okay, just my 0.02.

*APPLAUSE*

That was SO incredibly well said! The same thing happened for me when I got into my thirties -- but you really phrased that all so beautifully! If I were you...I would save what you wrote and stick it in a journal. Good thing to remind yourself of when you're having a bad day. After all, even confident women have their insecure moments here and there.

Persephone

 

[SXCRgirl]

Thanks P. You just made my day.

 

[huskie]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Sisters under the skin, lol

Mmmmm... breathy voice. I love hearing a man's voice get husky when he gets turned on.

The wonderful thing about hitting 30 is self-acceptance. You don't get there until you've lived through your 20s and found what works and what doesn't FOR YOU. You've realized what your strengths are and your weakness, and love yourself anyway. You know that you're not going to be on the cover of a magazine competing with Jennifer Lopez, but find yourself sexy anyway. This quiet confidence is what makes a woman extremely alluring and desirable. This is what I found when I hit my 30s. I know who I am and what I am all about AND what I want.

Okay, just my 0.02.

oh ya like JLOW could EVEN attempt to compete with you or some of the other girls on LIT, in BED!!!!! Looks aint nothing to action. form always follows function.

 

[Ladybird]

Yeah... I think it's an age thing.

When I was in my twenties my clit would be very sensitive after orgasm. Just a couple of minutes was all that was need to rest, and I'd be ready for my second. And there it would stop.

Now though, I'm in my forties. Baby... don't stop, cos my O's just keep on coming. My clit is no longer as sensitive, so I don't need a rest, and I never stop at two orgasms.

After my first, they just flow, one after another. Around ten is my usual now. I love being this age.. I enjoy so many things so much better than I ever have before.

 

[Persephone36]

Yeah... I think it's an age thing.

Now though, I'm in my forties. Baby... don't stop, cos my O's just keep on coming. My clit is no longer as sensitive, so I don't need a rest, and I never stop at two orgasms.

After my first, they just flow, one after another. Around ten is my usual now. I love being this age.. I enjoy so many things so much better than I ever have before.

Okay LB!! -- you just gave me a reason to stop dreading turning the big 4-0 in the next 3 years, lol! Yippee!

THANKS!

Persephone