Recovering Alcoholic

[shycoyote]

Wondering if there are any recovering alcoholics who might want to talk. Since sobering up my sexual tastes haven't changed but my ability to get the treatment I want is a lot harder without liquor. So much easier to get drunk and high and then be a slutty little nympho whore....
Anyone out there?

 

[YourCaptor]

Wondering if there are any recovering alcoholics who might want to talk. Since sobering up my sexual tastes haven't changed but my ability to get the treatment I want is a lot harder without liquor. So much easier to get drunk and high and then be a slutty little nympho whore....
Anyone out there?

You can try a diffrent approach. Don't pick a target, but just make friends with lots of people into the same stuff. You can get dates set up out of it, meet play partners, find people you can be comfortable opening up to, etc.

 

[DVS]

Wondering if there are any recovering alcoholics who might want to talk. Since sobering up my sexual tastes haven't changed but my ability to get the treatment I want is a lot harder without liquor. So much easier to get drunk and high and then be a slutty little nympho whore....
Anyone out there?

I had similar problems when I quit drugs (pot, mostly). I was using it as an enhancement crutch, because it worked quite well. For me, sex was a LOT more fun, exciting and creative, when high.

So, when I quit...which has been years ago, now...I didn't seem to enjoy or be able to get interested in some of my old sexual kinks, as much. But, in time, that all changed and now I'm just as kinky as I ever was, when I was high. And it's cheaper, too!

I don't know when you quit drinking, but it does take a while for your body and mind to disassociate the life with alcohol. Don't fret, if you are feeling lost and less kinky without it. Your kinky self will come out when sober, too. It just takes some time.

 

[working_girl]

*raises hand*

My family life was spectacularly fucked up and I moved out as soon as possible. I started out as an escort because my friend and I dared each other but I spiralled. I was 18 with a suddenly affluent lifestyle and zero life experience and self discipline. I had problems with cocaine and alcohol for a few years and I still have to treat alcohol with the utmost respect because I seem to have no sense of how drunk I'm getting and no inner voice that suggests I might have had enough. It's hard t explain to some people because some people think I'm just a greedy binge drinker making excuses. After half a bottle of wine though, the other half seems like a great idea and by the time that's gone any notion of moderation has exited my head completely. I'm always repentant but I have never learned to exercise greater self control.

It's something I will always find disheartening.