Halo_n_horns
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Thank you all for getting in on this conversation. Your views have been invaluable in bringing along the truest point of what I was writing about...
I know, this was a bit sneaky of me...
Except maybe in the cases of extreme mental retardation, there is always, always, always the potential for finding "The One."
The greatest point of my little discertation is not actually about finding that one special mate, so much as it was about finding "The One" that exists within each and every last one of us. Sounds horribly corny, doesn't it? But nonetheless true.
Everyone should have passions in their life. True, unwavering, always on your mind if only just a passing thought about it once a day, passions. Again, I'm not talking about passions over things that are ultimately trivial, like Bon Bons.
Some years ago I was given a little exercise that I'm sure many of you have heard of. Take a sheet of paper and something to write with and write out how you'd like your obituary to read about you, then live up to it.
That was when I stumbled into the concept of "The One."
Now you're saying What the fuck does that have to do with finding that special person? Well, some of you were very right about the there being more than just one person who is right for you. But, did you ever stop to think that by being a person who recognizes and pursues your passions, that you could come across people who are more right for you than others?
For some, that other person can be a number of people who were right for you during different times of your life, as stated in a prior post, while for others there holds the possibility of just one, or at most very few. Either way, by being the one and only person who knows yourself better than most people ever really try to, you'll also be attracting others who are like-minded to the passions you hold dear, and who have found "The One" within themselves, be it a conscious or uncnscious self-discovery.
I'm excited about the prospect of hearing from those of you who believe you've come across this in one form or another...
But there's also a challenge in what I've written: If you disagree with me don't just say that I'm wrong or that my logic is fouled, prove it.
Halo_n_horns said:
I know, this was a bit sneaky of me...
Except maybe in the cases of extreme mental retardation, there is always, always, always the potential for finding "The One."
The greatest point of my little discertation is not actually about finding that one special mate, so much as it was about finding "The One" that exists within each and every last one of us. Sounds horribly corny, doesn't it? But nonetheless true.
Everyone should have passions in their life. True, unwavering, always on your mind if only just a passing thought about it once a day, passions. Again, I'm not talking about passions over things that are ultimately trivial, like Bon Bons.
Some years ago I was given a little exercise that I'm sure many of you have heard of. Take a sheet of paper and something to write with and write out how you'd like your obituary to read about you, then live up to it.
That was when I stumbled into the concept of "The One."
Now you're saying What the fuck does that have to do with finding that special person? Well, some of you were very right about the there being more than just one person who is right for you. But, did you ever stop to think that by being a person who recognizes and pursues your passions, that you could come across people who are more right for you than others?
For some, that other person can be a number of people who were right for you during different times of your life, as stated in a prior post, while for others there holds the possibility of just one, or at most very few. Either way, by being the one and only person who knows yourself better than most people ever really try to, you'll also be attracting others who are like-minded to the passions you hold dear, and who have found "The One" within themselves, be it a conscious or uncnscious self-discovery.
I'm excited about the prospect of hearing from those of you who believe you've come across this in one form or another...
But there's also a challenge in what I've written: If you disagree with me don't just say that I'm wrong or that my logic is fouled, prove it.
