Reciprocity

Simone808619

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Hello litsters...just wondering if anyone else gets frustrated at people who are looking for chat, but it is all about them ?! I consider yawls a giver and definitely get aroused at giving pleasure. But I have noticed there are some who just seek to be gotten off with no thought to the needs of the other. Granted online encounters naturally lack a certain intimacy but the experience seems better when both parties are interested in the other. Lol I think maybe "service me" in the the subject line would help. Just N observation.
 
Hello litsters...just wondering if anyone else gets frustrated at people who are looking for chat, but it is all about them ?! I consider yawls a giver and definitely get aroused at giving pleasure. But I have noticed there are some who just seek to be gotten off with no thought to the needs of the other. Granted online encounters naturally lack a certain intimacy but the experience seems better when both parties are interested in the other. Lol I think maybe "service me" in the the subject line would help. Just N observation.

Agree. I always try to provide full service. :D
 
Very nice to know! And to clarify I have met and chatted with some very giving awesome people. It's just the few selfish ones that make me wonder.
 
As they say

It takes two to tango
Even if I need lessons before I can really tango well, I like a good conversation. Whether dancing or learning how my partners likes to rumba, you need to communicate to have it work out for both parties. Nice to be sure everyone has finished satisfactorily or at least arranged reciprocity in a future lesson
 
Chats are usually more fun when you can share your interests too. I love reading about someone else's fantasies and taking turns adding on to them. I think it makes something unique that we both can share, and use for shared pleasure.
 
you're right

Hello litsters...just wondering if anyone else gets frustrated at people who are looking for chat, but it is all about them ?! I consider yawls a giver and definitely get aroused at giving pleasure. But I have noticed there are some who just seek to be gotten off with no thought to the needs of the other. Granted online encounters naturally lack a certain intimacy but the experience seems better when both parties are interested in the other. Lol I think maybe "service me" in the the subject line would help. Just N observation.


you know, sometimes it goes both ways. some women act too demanding in the chats...and leave without a prosper response
 
Hello litsters...just wondering if anyone else gets frustrated at people who are looking for chat, but it is all about them ?! I consider yawls a giver and definitely get aroused at giving pleasure. But I have noticed there are some who just seek to be gotten off with no thought to the needs of the other. Granted online encounters naturally lack a certain intimacy but the experience seems better when both parties are interested in the other. Lol I think maybe "service me" in the the subject line would help. Just N observation.


you know, sometimes it goes both ways. some women act too demanding in the chats...and leave without a prosper response
 
Agree

Totally agree with the original post, I enjoy a cyberchat much more if the woman I am chatting with cums that's part of the thrill for my part - much the same as in reality of course. Even if it doesn't get to that point it's better to be in touch with what the other person is thinking and doing and keeping things 'level'
 
Agreed! Most of the more self centered people I have chatted with have been women! Why do we have to be such bitches?!!! It is my fellow female litsters (not all of you of course) that I am talking to. Most men have been pretty respectful even when you are telling them to get lost ....
 
Agreed! Most of the more self centered people I have chatted with have been women! Why do we have to be such bitches?!!! It is my fellow female litsters (not all of you of course) that I am talking to. Most men have been pretty respectful even when you are telling them to get lost ....

Maybe you are being a little hard on your fellow females. Only met a couple that were "bitches".
 
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