Rear Entry Trouble

[brw02]

Height difference

I'm 6' tall, and the shortest lady I ever "rear-entered" was 5'1". I know that there is some variation in the spine angle these ladies have taken, probably because of the height difference. One poster suggested that you could raise her legs if the connection is better that way. Perhaps some of the ladies could offer suggestions on how they dealt with lovers who were much taller than they were. I never made adjustments for it-the ladies did that for me and I was too much into it to remember how they arranged themselves.

 

[BlueSugar]

I agree with everyone else, there isn't too too much that can be done to make this position sweet, the best way to do it, is like the porno stars do.

girl's front half as far down as she can, her knees spread wide enough for you to fit between her and you leaning back at arms distance, or hunched over her.

My addition to the basic position to make it easier on you is relax, and tell her to do the same and make sure things are well lubed. When she isn't relaxing her back is arched, she needs to trust you and your aim ** and let her bellybutton drop down while her back and hips push towards the bed/floor as well.
When her hips are rotated foward her vagina is at an easier access and when her hips and back are arched backwards or upwards there isn't much access or deep penetration.
When you "master" the position, she can adjust the depth of penetration OR you can by following to faze two!


faze two: are twists on the position
so.. shes on her knees and you're behind her...

ask for both of her hands, and hold onto them as you pump into her. Or just hold them on the small of her back. Her face is in the pillows and she has to arch her back either way and its a bit of a power exchange in your favor.

or lifting her legs in your arms to cradle them and she can push into you as well as you can fuck into her - deep, hard, passionate...

... there are plenty more, but I'll let you explore on your own!

 

[jtmalone70]

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[LaJovena]

I guess when I first read the original post, it hadn't occurred to me that the author was talking about anal. I thought he was talking about simple doggy-style, in which case "head down, ass up" is highly recommended.

Now that we're talking about the ol' back door, here's a suggestion I haven't read here. (If it's here already and I missed it, I apologize.) If getting past its being painful is the problem, then let your lady be on top so that she can control the entry. Once the sphincters have relaxed and full entry has been obtained, she should be good to go in any position you want to try.

 

[brw02]

I guess when I first read the original post, it hadn't occurred to me that the author was talking about anal. I thought he was talking about simple doggy-style, in which case "head down, ass up" is highly recommended.

Now that we're talking about the ol' back door, here's a suggestion I haven't read here. (If it's here already and I missed it, I apologize.) If getting past its being painful is the problem, then let your lady be on top so that she can control the entry. Once the sphincters have relaxed and full entry has been obtained, she should be good to go in any position you want to try.

Like LaJovena, I had assumed we were talking about the doggy-style rear entry, although some of the same principles can be applied to anal. If we take this a step farther, either vaginal or anal rear entry may be easier to initiate in a "spooning" position. The lady on the receiving end should be allowed to dictate the pace of penetration until she is comfortably filled. After that, the move to the doggy position should be much easier. It all depends on what the lady is most comfortable with.