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bislutwannabe

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Hi guys. I'm a bi male. I'm a bit worried about something. I think I may have done something silly.

I just bought a dildo from a website but it was a bit too big (only six inches but I could tell it was too thick for me). I decided not to use it. But just now I got a bit over excited and ended up using it. I used lots of lube but I didn't take my time and really hurt my ass. I went a bit easier and eased it in and it was great. But afterward I started getting really worried that I may have permanently hurt myself, like loosened my butt. It stings a bit inside as well. I've always had quite a lose one, I used to enjoy anal play when I was younger and I don't know if that had anything to do with it. I'm forty now and I haven't done it for years and I'm worried.

I'm not going to do it again but does it sound like I should be worried?

Sorry to sound like a whiner.

Thanks guys.
 
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Mellow out. It sounds like you just went quicker than your butt was used to. A day or two of rest is all you need.

Next time, don't be so anxious to get that thing up there so quickly!
 
Thanks, I'm being a worry wort but I just don't remember it being so sore hours later. I really did give it a pounding though. Once it was in I went nuts.

I'm not doing it again. I can't imagine anything worse than having to go to the doctor about this. Which I will do if it's still sore on Monday.

Thanks.
 
Had a similar situation when I tried my wife's 8" (and thick) dildo some years ago. I did use vaseline for lube, but I was still sore about 3 or 4 days later. Don't worry, it should pass. :)
 
Don't worry, you'll be fine. I have done this several times in the past 20 years. Last time was a month ago with my wife's big pink dildo, about 9" x 2". I put it between the matress and box springs, slid up a comfy chair, threw my legs up on the bed and started sliding that monster in. It really felt huge and definitely hurt at first, but I took my time and finally got it in and then really went to town on it, fucking myself into delerium and a massive orgasm. I was really sore for about 4 to 5 days but I got better, well worth it!! ;)
 
Thanks, I'm being a worry wort but I just don't remember it being so sore hours later. I really did give it a pounding though. Once it was in I went nuts.

I've done it myself a few times. Sometimes I end up sore afterward, sometime I don't. As long as you haven't given yourself a rectal prolapse, or gotten the toy stuck up there, you shouldn't have to worry.
 
Thanks guys, it feels alright now. If I do it again I'll let someone else do it so I don't get carried away.

God the thought of a prolapse makes me cringe! Can that actually happen from ass sex?
 
you might be better off leaving your ass alone - maybe try a vacuum cleaner instead :)

Hi guys. I'm a bi male. I'm a bit worried about something. I think I may have done something silly.

I just bought a dildo from a website but it was a bit too big (only six inches but I could tell it was too thick for me). I decided not to use it. But just now I got a bit over excited and ended up using it. I used lots of lube but I didn't take my time and really hurt my ass. I went a bit easier and eased it in and it was great. But afterward I started getting really worried that I may have permanently hurt myself, like loosened my butt. It stings a bit inside as well. I've always had quite a lose one, I used to enjoy anal play when I was younger and I don't know if that had anything to do with it. I'm forty now and I haven't done it for years and I'm worried.

I'm not going to do it again but does it sound like I should be worried?

Sorry to sound like a whiner.

Thanks guys.
 
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