Really rough sex

My issues are more from the distance between us but I've gone on enough about that. I just know what I hear from several of my friends. I think the biggest bedroom problem is caused by job stresses. Men don't deal with stress like we do. We cry, we hug we talk to each other zillions of times a week and we get it out. Men don't and then they wonder why their erections aren't what they used to be.

The simple solution from where I sit is for men to start letting it out and turn that passion and aggression into rougher sex occasionally in the bedroom. HINT HINT. I want little more than for him to tell me to shut up, bend over and for him to fuck me like the only other thing he wants to do is maybe slap me if I open my big mouth. Not gonna happen in my bedroom anytime soon but a girl can fantasize right?

For men sex is how they deal with stress. Well sex beer and sports. Unlike us woman, men can be ready to go at a moments notice. they don't need the foreplay we do. For men sex is visual and external. For woman it's mental and internal. A womands experience is much more personal than a mans.

Think of it like this...

Everyone especially kids will stickk their fingers into any opening they can find. No one male or female goes around letting others probe them internally. This is why men usually want sex more often then woman. For us we accept something into our bodies, men are just exploring another hole.

This came from a therapist hubby and i went to to try and overcome his hangups.
 
I'm not saying that what you are experiencing isn't true. There are so many here on "lit" to prove that point. I am saying that it does work both ways. There are couples here that have found ways to keep things exciting, and I'm sure that it must come from communicating. In my opinion, some can find ways to please each other, and some can't. Marriage in all respects is a compromise.

I will say that I am NOT one of those lucky few that found ways to make things work. I do know what it takes, but it does take two to make it work.

Funny how the old saying has always been that opposites attract and in lots of cases it's true but in the bedroom it really can cause some issues. We can usually agree to find a compromise with our spouse in most aspects of the marriage but sadly the one place that should be our most common ground, the bed, is where we resent the most. Well that and my closet. My husband really freaks out at all my stuff. :D
 
Funny how the old saying has always been that opposites attract and in lots of cases it's true but in the bedroom it really can cause some issues. We can usually agree to find a compromise with our spouse in most aspects of the marriage but sadly the one place that should be our most common ground, the bed, is where we resent the most. Well that and my closet. My husband really freaks out at all my stuff. :D


And THAT is soooooo true...
 
Funny how the old saying has always been that opposites attract and in lots of cases it's true but in the bedroom it really can cause some issues. We can usually agree to find a compromise with our spouse in most aspects of the marriage but sadly the one place that should be our most common ground, the bed, is where we resent the most. Well that and my closet. My husband really freaks out at all my stuff. :D

We all must decide what's important. I've been married 36 years, and the sex wasn't one of the main reasons. Sex is very important thing to me, but many other factors contributed to us staying together.

I will say that some of my most memorable sex partners were women that I could never have had a life with. I do envy those here that seem to have found a way to make all aspects work.
 
Well tell him to come out of the closet and that won't be a problem :D

I have said before that if he didn't work with a bunch of sweaty greasy stinky macho men then I'd think he was gay maybe. Know what I'd love to have? A husband that was like a closet bi. I have been for years and if I could combine the rough sex fetish (and get that out of him) with the sexiness of being bi and being able to show it, omg I would be over the moon. :cattail: this kitty would purr
 
I have said before that if he didn't work with a bunch of sweaty greasy stinky macho men then I'd think he was gay maybe. Know what I'd love to have? A husband that was like a closet bi. I have been for years and if I could combine the rough sex fetish (and get that out of him) with the sexiness of being bi and being able to show it, omg I would be over the moon. :cattail: this kitty would purr

I like Best Buy....

...probably wrong kinda Bi.
 
You, Professor, are speaking my language. My wife and I are big into choking - I love doing it to her because it's a rush seeing how far I can push her, and she loves it done because it makes her very, very sensitive.

Over the weekend we went down to our alma mater for homecoming, and we got a cabin out in the middle of nowhere with a nice sturdy bed. After warming up a bit in the hot tub, we took the night inside to the bed where I warmed her up with my usual go-to. It quickly turned into me slapping her tits and ass, pulling her hair, and choking the hell out of her. (I'm aware of the risks and so is she - we don't do it all that often, but when we do, we go fucking crazy.)

We fucked in the spoons position hard and rough, and I choked her as I fucked her. She fucking loved it. Then I finished her off afterwards (even if she doesn't get off during sex, I love to finish her - we bought a vibrator just for that purpose. We left it at home, so I improvised with the handle of an electric toothbrush.)
 
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One thing I enjoyed once is face fucked a girl. Made her sit on the steps and just pushed my cock in as far and hard as I could till I unloaded in her mouth. She choked or gaged a little as I was Cummings. Can't do that to the lady I'm with now her mouth can't take it all. Befor someone says force it in. It just doesn't fit. I don't want my cock cut from her teeth and I'm not going to dislocate her jaw.
 
I love, love, LOVE when my big brother is rough and really aggressive during sex, it gets me soaked.

It's great to see that you and your brother get along so well. I'm sure that you make him very happy when he pins you down and forces himself deep inside you...again and again 😋
 
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