REALLY important questionnaire... PLEASE respond!

[Jade]

Expert... uh oh... I think some pudding fell off of my spoon into my lap... not sure if I can get it off without some assistance...

 

[Expertise]

Forming a vapor trail from the sheer speed.....

... of my face first lunge toward Jades lap.

PS. Sorry about the windows... breaking MACH 1 indoors can have some nasty effects*grin*

 

[Xander]

Chocolate pudding for breakfast LOL. Ah well each to their own.
Now back to the origional question.
I've tried it, and though it didn't work out for me, it may do so for you Jade.
As it has been states many times here. It'd different for everyone.
Whatever you decide, please do be careful. It can only flip to ways. Bad or very good.

 

[April]

It's a dangerous path to walk, Jade. But if you're up to a little danger...go for it. Just be careful. Emotionally. I could never have a fuck buddy. I get too involved. Just the way I am.

 

[Jade]

April and Xander ... that's what I'm afraid of... *sigh*


Expertise... you are just in time... don't worry about the windows... I think we have renter's insurance... I think... ah well.. it was worth it... that pudding can cause some problems if not removed promptly AND thoroughly...

 

[Expertise]

DO NOT, worry about me being thorough..... i'd be downright fastidious.LOL

Happy hunting cutie.

 

[Jade]

Expertise

Thanks... hehe... my body is so hot and wet now.. thanks a lot.

 

[Latina]

For me, sex without love was not much, not satisfying. But I didn't have both in one relationship until 5 years ago, so I didn't know what I was missing, what I COULD have and now DO have. But you must decide that for yourself, whether a relationship based ONLY on sex is right for YOU.

-- Latina

 

[Angel]

I just wanted to get an idea of the general moral here...

If someone was really really reall sexually deprived... like say a female friend of yours and she was considering getting a "fuck buddy." (aka: someone she goes and has mutual sex with but without the benefits of a relationship... until she does get into one,) would you advise her against it or support her?

Also, have you ever done this or would you ever consider it?



I won't lie... it has been 2 and a half months for me... and I don't know how much more I can take.
I have already gained about 7 pounds of chocolate weight and it is just getting ridiculous.

It depends. I had ONE fuckbuddy ever. And like an asshole I fell in love with his stupid ass, he was sour on females (His Son's mother fucked his brother) And I, like a fool stuck around trying to make him see I wasn't like that. But he didn't give a shit and I ended up getting hurt - BAD. So I would advise against it...but whatever she does is up to her. I hate seeing people get hurt.

 

[Jade]

Yes I agree... I can't stand to see people hurt... that is why it took me years and years to break off my last relationship.

Selfishly... now I am thinking about the other half of the fb scenario... what if the guy falls instead of the girl... then what? Same shittiness really, depending on who we are looking at.

@%$^#$^

 

[Whispersecret]

Don't do it.

 

[Gymble]

Just do it.

(Hoping these subliminal messages improve my Nike stock )

 

[Jade]

I was hoping she would respond

Thanks Whisper

 

[fgarvb1]

FB's not for everbody..but has worked for me...

..Between marriages.
Jade, Hi. The board has given just about the same advise i would. I..And i'm not sure if this is good or bad. Have had a lot of experience with lady freinds that i have had sex with. From nineteen seventy six till now i have had four marriages. This last {I hope} has lasted almost nine years.
Yes we started out as fuck buddies. What happened.? i still don't know.! I blame it on love. It just got to the point where it just did not feel right being with all the other people. I never asked her, for myself i also had two
other FB'S if you will. Up to that point i was as happy as
a single person could be.

What i am trying to say is Fuck buddies can work. You have to be strong, Believe in yourself, Be willing to walk away
if you think yourself or the other person will get hurt. Not
everyone can handle this kind of relationship no matter what they say, Think, Or do.

I think the most important things are to be honest, Straight forward and tell them what you are looking for early in the relationship. By that time you should have spent enough time with them to have formed an opinion about what kind of person they are. You may have already had sex with them. I always did. I mean that's most of the point is it not.? The other part is..Do you like them.? Do you like
being around them. Are they fun to be around when you are just hanging out.? The bond between freinds like this can be very strong.! The most FB'S i ever had at one time was four. I would think the number depends on your age, Amount of spare time; And of coarse your sex drive. If i was single now at the age of fourty three i think two would be
enough.