Realistic Cuckolding

[TN_Voyeur]

If it's a mutual decision, is it cockolding?

Some guys (like me) get turned on by seeng their wife dress like a slut and encourge her to have sex with men. She enjoys giving her sexuality free-reign, and I get inredibly turned on watching. judging from the LW contributions, it a not entirely unique situation.

But maybe "cockoldin" is defined by the wife cheating behind the husband's back and creating a negative situation where the mutual trust that should the the foundation of a marriage is destroyed.

Enough phlosophy and semantics. Any opinions??

 

[BedtimeStories77]

I never thought "cuckolding" was about a "cheating wife" who was uncaring. I thought it was a fetish a couple shared together.

Like I stated before, I've never lived this lifestyle. My knowledge comes from others...


(I do know that a lot of the stories in Loving Wives is actually about cheating wives... Maybe you got the two confused?)

 

[Sean Renaud]

No, it's a winter holiday--because that's what it was originally. A holiday to celebrate the birth of Mithras and/or the solstice. The Catholic Church decided artifically to absorb that holiday and make it the birth of Christ. There was a great deal of discussion and disagreement about it at the time.

Biblically speaking, the evidence speaks to Jesus being born closer to the spring time when shephards would be out at night with their lambs, not the dead of winter.

It's really rude to try and force such things down people throats. You don't convert, you don't convince, and you end up reinforcing the belief that Christians are anything but Christian.

Happy Holidays

First I wouldn't mind a few comments from people who have read atleast some of my series. Though i suspect that the sudden revival of this thread suggests some of you have read it.

Second. ITS CHRISTMAS if you are american. It has nothing to do with catholics or christ. Welcome to the 21st century. This holiday is about everybody being cool with each other, giving is better than recieving, a man in a red suit and some reindeer. I willing to accept haneuka. (I"m black and my father was a panther but fuck all you Kwanzaa bitches) but lets be honest Christmas has nothing to dow with christianity any more.

For the record I do believe Christ should have been born in spring. Forget the part about how old the sheep were. We know for a fact that that Romans' Census was in the spring when traveling was good not winter when it sucked. There is no way in hell that Jesus was born in December.

 

[sirhugs]

First I wouldn't mind a few comments from people who have read atleast some of my series. Though i suspect that the sudden revival of this thread suggests some of you have read it.

Second. ITS CHRISTMAS if you are american. It has nothing to do with catholics or christ. Welcome to the 21st century. This holiday is about everybody being cool with each other, giving is better than recieving, a man in a red suit and some reindeer. I willing to accept haneuka. (I"m black and my father was a panther but fuck all you Kwanzaa bitches) but lets be honest Christmas has nothing to dow with christianity any more.

For the record I do believe Christ should have been born in spring. Forget the part about how old the sheep were. We know for a fact that that Romans' Census was in the spring when traveling was good not winter when it sucked. There is no way in hell that Jesus was born in December.

your calendar is historically valid, the early Church MOVED the date to preempt a pagan new years feast. so the secularization is really ' what goes around comes around'. Though as a somewhat lapsed Christian, I like to keep Christ in Christmas sometimes.

 

[sirhugs]

I never thought "cuckolding" was about a "cheating wife" who was uncaring. I thought it was a fetish a couple shared together.

Like I stated before, I've never lived this lifestyle. My knowledge comes from others...


(I do know that a lot of the stories in Loving Wives is actually about cheating wives... Maybe you got the two confused?)

there is a "Loving Wivwes" thread on the AH which breaks LW stories inti, I think, 6 categories. Al are present on Lit. That is part of the reason why LW stories get mixed reactions- because you are bound to find some readers who are looking for a different flavour.

fyi, Daughter - 'cuckolding' does not usually means consensual or together. It is the wife screwing another man without hubby's consent.

 

[BedtimeStories77]

fyi, Daughter - 'cuckolding' does not usually means consensual or together. It is the wife screwing another man without hubby's consent.

Well, I've said I was a novice when it came to this. From what I've seen/read in several different areas of the net I thought it was a lifestyle/fetish shared.

 

[stories 4 U 706]

My thinking/understanding of a cockold husband is a man who is more submissive than the character you are creating. Your story sounds more like what I've heard called "hot wife". Hot wife being the wife is more "slutty" or "whorish" and the husband is more or less "pimping" her out for his enjoyment. Less as a vengeful
choice then what I'm getting from your description. For the story to fit into this theme I think the husband would have to get off on seeing his wife being fucked by other guys rather than making her more or less he personal hooker to shell out.

I agree, the discription of the story is confusing. she is cheating while he is away, he catches her, says it WOULD have been ok if he knew but throws her out. where is the cuck part? A cuck likes to be humiliated, and loves his wife no matter what. they seem to always have an inferiority complex. they are not good enough for thier wives so they let other men please them, and still get to stay and love thier wife and watch her be satisfied.

 

[emz182]

that sounds good, with character development

 

[Carmenica Diaz]

I used sex with another as a form of punishment in one of my stories (A Matter of Trust) and it was quite effective.