Real-time meeting

[hardmanepr]

I've met several people face-2-face that I first met online. Three of those meetings lead to sex, very passionate exciting sex. I'm curiou how common this is.

 

[theblackthought]

I have met women, couples, groups from being online first- and more often than not- they turn out to be genuine people. What I don't understand is the people who lie, and STILL want to meet you- like you won't pick up on the fact that they are not who they have built themselves up to be...

 

[wildrose70]

My comments...in the past 2 years I have met over 35 people that I met online...some resulted in rather long relationships..some were not good at all and some were sexually terrific...if only the one meeting...never regretted meeting people from online

 

[gingerann]

I have had several meetings offline from people that I have spoken to in various chat rooms, etc. Some were really great times and some were not so great. But often than not, I have had some great and kinky times.

 

[sweetaspeaches]

I met someone face to face that I met online and we spent 10 days together. We had awesome sex and have started to develope a great friendship. We were friends online for about 6 months before meeting, I cannot say that I regret in any way meeting him.

 

[Sienna]

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What happened to "Not yet, but looking to do so"

Surely there is lots of people who are new to this who have yet to meet in real-time?

YOU MISSED OUT A BIG CATEGORY!......

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[pdx39]

A Few Extra Pounds????

I've met several women via the web who described thier figure as 'a few extra pounds' when 'double extra large' would have been more accurate. How many pounds are 'a few extra pounds'?

 

[JennyOmanHill]

I have not yet met people from online, but the opportunities are there, and I anticipate one very special meeting this February! I'll hold my "vote" until then!

 

[SusieB]

Over four years ago, I brought home my first PC, plugged it in and went into a "nasty" chat room. The very first person to say hello ended up being an incredible guy from Canada. We were both married, but the passion that sizzled over the phone lines during that first couple of weeks was incredible and we met in person three weeks later in Chicago. I checked myself into his hotel room and was waiting when he got back from his conference that day. We had never even exchanged photos, so the risk I was taking was incredible. Fortunately, we were both exactly as advertised in the chat room. We fell into bed together within 30 seconds, and savored those first three days together. We will be married (to each other!!) this January 13, and he is the best thing that ever happened to me. The sex is still incredible, even though we do more mundane things now in addition. I know how lucky I was, but sometimes you have to take a shot at something that others might find insane. Good luck to all of you.

 

[midas2001]

Good topic to post...

The answer is yes... have met a few from chatrooms offline. In my case, all were friends that I had spoken to for some time and we had a real good time. (They were just friends... so no hanky panky...LOL)

If you've spoken to them long enough... you'll get to know who are genuine people - and who are pretending to be what they portray. And as theblackthought says... why bother lying??? If you're going to 'Actually' meet some of the people offline... your fantasy character is going to be sussed anyway!

But Sie's question deserves looking into. There will be a large proportion of people who haven't yet met offline - but may do so in the future. So can that category be added now... or is it too late?

Stay cool

Midas2001

 

[MissTaken]

Yes. I have met a number of people in real life that I met on line first. Those meetings that were disappointing, weren't really so disappointing as they were with men that I had reservations about anyway.

Being safe and intelligent about meeting is the first key. Having NO expectations is the second key.

And yes, some of these have lead to frequent and incredible sex. Others have lead to great friendships and other meetings have lead to romance.

As far as pdx's question concerning what are a "few extra pounds?" That has happened to women as well. I would say that again, having no expectations is key !

If being with BBW's isn't something that falls into your what you are comfortable with, saying it upfront in a non hurtful manner can be helpful. Then, the BBW probably won't waste anyone's time by trying to pursue a relationship.

For me, older men aren't normally people I would consider meeting. (Simply because I have very young children and most men older than me would not be too thrilled at the prospect of raising a family or taking second seat to the little one's needs.)

Sorry to carry on so, I haven't had my coffee yet and have confetti brain!

 

[Halx]

I've met people who were online friends before, but never anything sexual - there were just buddies who I played online games with.

I am very willing, however, to meet someone with whom to spend time with and meet for the sole purpose of getting to know her. Sex will come if it all goes right.

 

[ShyGuy68]

I think it's a bit sharply devided in that poll. Since I can answer yes to most of them.

I have so far met around 15-20 people in real life that I've talked to on-line, and some of them have let to hot sex, while others have just been great friends that I had a great time with, and hope to meet again.

So far I haven't had a bad experience at all with meeting people from on-line in real life. There is some I don't talk to anymore, but that happens with real life friends as well.

 

[Ventoso]

I met several ladies from chatrooms and Forums and, generally, I had very positive experiences. All experiences have been short but intensive and sexually satisfactory for both parties!

I hope to be lucky enough to meet some Lit-ladies in Europe or South-Est Asia!

 

[princess4u]

my experience

i have met several people from on-line - and i regret none - there is something to learn from every experience

i met my first on-line "love" about 4 months after we started chatting - that was about 4 years ago and we remain friends to this day - it has been two years since we've been together but we talk occasionally and we both have the peace of mind knowing that we are there for each other come what may - i think it will be a lifetime friendship - actually we were tatooed together during one of our visits (same tat) so that we would always have that "link"

i have also met a few other couples and individuals from on-line and formed friendships - some with sexual overtones, some without

all in all, they have been good experiences for me - it's like real life - you just have to use good judgment - you can usually read the other person after a while and know if it is genuine ~

 

[InABox565]

I have...

I've met several people from online, all of which lead to great sexual experiences, but never to lasting relationships. Why? I'm not really sure. But the excitment in meeting someone is incredible, its fun and I would say go for it! Again, just be careful, don't do anything you're gut is saying you shouldn't.

You know best!

 

[OLIEOGRE]

yes I have met several people that I have met online, lead to sex??? no but then that is not what we were looking for. Most of them have been people with the same interests and have led to some very great friendships.

 

[Cloak38]

I've met a couple of women from another chat site.
In one case we exchanged pictures very early on in the cyber relationship. In the other, I gave her my pic but she didn't have one.

Both of these meetings were several years back and they were both very nice experiences. And the sex was incredible....