shell seeker2
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Many have been burned, so here's your chance to vent. A friend on another thread said this and I thought it might envoke a good venting thread! Enjoy!
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shell seeker2 said:Many have been burned, so here's your chance to vent. A friend on another thread said this and I thought it might envoke a good venting thread! Enjoy!
yourcharms said:Two years since she left, and I still think about her most days. I know it's over, but a part of me will always burn for her.
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Saoirse said:I dont think real love can be switched off.... I know I cant stop the feeling.. nor do I want to!![]()
Shell, I hate to be lied to as well. I don't think this particular situation has much to do with fear - I think he played with my emotions - perhaps I believed too hard.shell seeker2 said:btw Shell, welcome to Lit. I have enjoyed your postings on the Defining Love thread.
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Thank you Cathleen for your welcome. I have really enjoyed posting here. I hate that you were lied too. I have to say though, I agree with Dream. You can't just turn on and off your feelings regardless of how hurt or betrayed you feel. Do you think some guys are just extremely fearful of the unknown? I'd like to lean that way, but damn!
It's nice meeting you and I hope we can chat again soon![/B]
Cathleen said:Shell, I hate to be lied to as well. I don't think this particular situation has much to do with fear - I think he played with my emotions - perhaps I believed too hard.
I am tired of the lying - I just don't understand that behavior.
Cathleen said:Shell, I hate to be lied to as well. I don't think this particular situation has much to do with fear - I think he played with my emotions - perhaps I believed too hard.
I am tired of the lying - I just don't understand that behavior.
Hell Yea!!!shell seeker2 said:Well then, my suggestion without the sugar coating is leave him at the curb and don't stop driving! You will find someone who deserves you and appreciates you!![]()
How long were you together? to that way real fast.....if something gets in your way, turn!Cathleen said:Hell Yea!!!
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I agree. But when things are good, isn't it wonderful?brinkeedinkee said:Real love lasts a lifetime and then some.
Sometimes that REALLY pisses me off....wish it would just go away.
Brinky
Nikkitta said:Well Shell seems you took the words right out of my mouth *grins* but i have to say i like it i shall stop in here and there
Kindhart said:The core to moving on is forgiveness. I was in what I thought was a "forever" type of relationship. No idication she was displeased or anything, then those magical words "I'm to different now" came about and smashed what was built to last.
When I dedicate myself to someone my heart is really attached to it. Hopeless romantic some say. I'd say I'm hopelessly hopefull that I'll find the one true person I can really enjoy life with in many aspects.
to all you ladies that were burned
redrider4u said:that's part of life.
But, what really disturbs me.......(and it's prevalent on the net)
......is the amount of deceptions, omissions, and lies........
Each time something happens, your trust quotient declines some.
IMHO.
I agree with you both. It's especially hard when you don't know why or it's out of the blue. I've been on that end before. We got past it, but I still questioned what the problem was with ME. Come to find out it wasn"t me at all.tonitits said:I agree with you Kindhart I think sometimes we are going along in a relationship and ppl just seem to change and gradully drift apart. You can see that happening and that the inevitable is just a matter of time. But when you both have been sooo happy and have done everything you can to make each other happy and there are no signs that anything is wrong and all of sudden one just decides that they want to end the relationship whether it is just that their feelings have suddenly changed or something outside the relationship causes them to, it hurts. It hurts like hell and if you (the one that is being left) doesn't know or understand why it is hard to forgive and move on with your life. You may forgive the person for walking out on you or for hurting you, but unless you can understand the reason why they did it in the first place you will not be able to learn from that experience and to move on with life and possibly another love. Just my opinion.
redrider4u said:that's part of life.
But, what really disturbs me.......(and it's prevalent on the net)
......is the amount of deceptions, omissions, and lies........
Each time something happens, your trust quotient declines some.
IMHO.
shell seeker2 said:I agree with you both. It's especially hard when you don't know why or it's out of the blue. I've been on that end before. We got past it, but I still questioned what the problem was with ME. Come to find out it wasn"t me at all.
Communication is key. If there is good communication both will know where the other is coming from and there wouldn't be any surprises. Am I wrong?