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Miss_Ali

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Re: Suggestions

I started chatting with a person on here and had been having a really fun time. Then this person sent a bunch of pictures (clothed and suggestive) which I did not ask for or hint to. In fact I prefer to not have pictures sent (so says my profile). Up to this point, I was having fun but now, I admit, I am just no longer interested. I told this person that I'm not looking for a real life anything on this site, just fun. And now I have some guilt and don't know what to tell this person. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
 
Miss_Ali said:
I started chatting with a person on here and had been having a really fun time. Then this person sent a bunch of pictures (clothed and suggestive) which I did not ask for or hint to. In fact I prefer to not have pictures sent (so says my profile). Up to this point, I was having fun but now, I admit, I am just no longer interested. I told this person that I'm not looking for a real life anything on this site, just fun. And now I have some guilt and don't know what to tell this person. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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How do you know the pics were of the person you were chatting with?
 
Send me the pics, and some of you, and I'll give you some advice.
 
I guess you're right, I don't know if it was indeed this person. However, I cannot image this person sending pictures (including his face in them) if it wasn't him. They were incredibly unflattering.

I believe I have told the whole story. The fact is, I am no longer attracted. The curtain was lifted and I didn't like what I saw.
 
Miss_Ali said:
I guess you're right, I don't know if it was indeed this person. However, I cannot image this person sending pictures (including his face in them) if it wasn't him. They were incredibly unflattering.

I believe I have told the whole story. The fact is, I am no longer attracted. The curtain was lifted and I didn't like what I saw.
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Ignore my last post.
 
Miss_Ali said:
I am no longer attracted. The curtain was lifted and I didn't like what I saw.
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Fair enough.

If the pictures were unsolicited, that's your out. Tell him you're no longer interested and, if he says something akin to, "It's because I'm ugly, isn't it?", say "Yes". It'll be an important lesson for him.
 
If you've had as much of the "relationship" as you want, the very best thing you could do is first, make up your mind what exactly you intend to do and do exactly that - be honest with the other person about your feelings. State you do not wish to go any further - don't try to hint or be subtle - Be direct, frank and forthcoming about it. Don't leave any room for misunderstanding or hope to this other person you might change your mind later. Then, walk away from it.

Being subtle or indirect can be just as painful if not more, because it leaves the other person to try to interpret hidden meaning or wonder what you actually meant. This is far crueler than any outright rejection and it is my sincere hope there is miserable place in hell for people who do this with the intention of sparing feelings.

Make up your mind and do the right thing for the two of you. Then, walk away an educated person.

That's it - it isn't brain surgery or all that complex. It just puts you in the responsibility of making intentions clear and ending this before it gets any worse.
 
just be honest with him and tell him there truth and then close the door
 
So rip off the band-aid instead of trying to pull it slowly.

It wasn't a 'relationship' we chatted twice.

Thank you for the advice.
 
If he's a Lit member, he's already figured out this thread is about him, despite your alt.

Food for thought.
 
fuck guilt. tell him his foreplay isn't your kind of foreplay.... nice to meet you and goodbye :cool:
 
Miss_Ali said:
I started chatting with a person on here and had been having a really fun time. Then this person sent a bunch of pictures (clothed and suggestive) which I did not ask for or hint to. In fact I prefer to not have pictures sent (so says my profile). Up to this point, I was having fun but now, I admit, I am just no longer interested. I told this person that I'm not looking for a real life anything on this site, just fun. And now I have some guilt and don't know what to tell this person. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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fuck off, always works for me.
 
Miss_Ali said:
I started chatting with a person on here and had been having a really fun time. Then this person sent a bunch of pictures (clothed and suggestive) which I did not ask for or hint to. In fact I prefer to not have pictures sent (so says my profile). Up to this point, I was having fun but now, I admit, I am just no longer interested. I told this person that I'm not looking for a real life anything on this site, just fun. And now I have some guilt and don't know what to tell this person. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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A guillotine would guarantee your guilt goes away...
 
Thank you all for the advice (some better than others, obviously). Have a good evening.
 
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