Re-Discover Myself !

[CuriousNude]

When we were all younger we either get stuck in the wrong role until we realize the mismatch or we have encountered opportunities to discover who we really are. I would hate to think of what my life would be like if I was still stuck in my junior high mindset. It might surprise you to know that I was not very interested in male sex, thinking it as something only gays enjoyed or that it wouldn't be that much fun. Oh how I've learned since then. I'm lucky though I escaped the limiting mindset of my small town school mentality and burst forth into an almost endless frontier of erotic possibilities. There are few things that I don't know if I will ever try, but there are many more enjoyable positions, role playing, mindsets and roles that I am sure that I would enjoy interchanging. I do not discriminate now; I enjoy company of both women and men! My first preference is to be with a woman but there are some times that I crave the feeling of a smooth shaved (hairless) and hard phallus in my mouth and or maybe in my ass once again. I am glad that I got over the limits that American Society had set on me and I have now discovered what I enjoy and who I am. I would enjoy having some secure friends and have a conversation about your thoughts. How about your comments …

 

[LingerieandLace]

Very well said !

Interesting

 

[CuriousNude]

Is anyone willing and ready to Re-Discover their true feelings

 

[CuriousNude]

Is anyone willing and ready to Re-Discover their true feelings

BUMP!

 

[done_got_old]

BUMP!

Hi there fellow St. Louisian ............ have been out to enjoy the beautiful weather we're having?

 

[CuriousNude]

Hi there fellow St. Louisian ............ have been out to enjoy the beautiful weather we're having?

Hello and yes the weather has been great. I also have spent most of the weekend outside just enjoying it also.

 

[Weenieschnitzel]

bump

 

[CuriousNude]

bump

Thanks but this thread needs more than a BUMP !

 

[Mr Stockings]

roles

hi Curious
I'm a guy (the Mr kinda gives it away) who has always felt curious about 'the bi thing'. I've experimented over time and figure if it makes you happy and doesn't hurt anyone - hell, go for it. I don't experiment these days as I'm married to my beautiful wife but the thought is there and so is the occasional fantasy - that's why I like Lit so much - you can fantasise with other anonymous people about the same kinda fantasies - love this place
Mr S

 

[CuriousNude]

Re: roles

hi Curious
I'm a guy (the Mr kinda gives it away) who has always felt curious about 'the bi thing'. I've experimented over time and figure if it makes you happy and doesn't hurt anyone - hell, go for it. I don't experiment these days as I'm married to my beautiful wife but the thought is there and so is the occasional fantasy - that's why I like Lit so much - you can fantasise with other anonymous people about the same kinda fantasies - love this place
Mr S

Thanks for your comments !

 

[princess4u]

ahhhhh the limits that american society does try to impose on us....i too have escaped the mindset i had as a younger person - i would never have even dreamed of being with another female - or a couple - or to be as adventurous as i am now

it is only with the past few years that i have begun to know myself - i am fortunate to have found a few online friends that embraced my naivete and encouraged me to be my best person - liberation is a terrrific feeling

i too have fantasies that i dont know if i will ever live out - but at least i'm free to fantasize about them without feeling guilty

my preference too is for the opposite sex - but occasionally i meet a female to whom i am sexually attracted - if she is open to an erotic encounter then how could it possibly hurt either of us or anyone else to act upon it? to me, it is another chance to expand my horizons, to experience new feelings, to make myself a better person by sharing inner feelings with another human

i admire your openness ~

 

[CuriousNude]

Re: Re: Re-Discover Myself !

ahhhhh the limits that american society does try to impose on us....i too have escaped the mindset i had as a younger person - i would never have even dreamed of being with another female - or a couple - or to be as adventurous as i am now

it is only with the past few years that i have begun to know myself - i am fortunate to have found a few online friends that embraced my naivete and encouraged me to be my best person - liberation is a terrrific feeling

i too have fantasies that i dont know if i will ever live out - but at least i'm free to fantasize about them without feeling guilty

my preference too is for the opposite sex - but occasionally i meet a female to whom i am sexually attracted - if she is open to an erotic encounter then how could it possibly hurt either of us or anyone else to act upon it? to me, it is another chance to expand my horizons, to experience new feelings, to make myself a better person by sharing inner feelings with another human

i admire your openness ~

As I do yours ! Thanks for your comments also.....

 

[bigcpl4fun]

Well, curious, I think we get too hung up on labels. Personally, we've always been open-minded towards sex. While neither of us is bi, when you're in a people pile, it doesn't really matter to us who is doing what to whom. If we feel uncomfortable with anything, we simply politely decline to continue participation. No need to see anything as a threat to one's own sexuality.

We also find, after talking to many people, that age is a big factor. When we're younger, we tend to take roles and labels much more seriously. With age, there seems to be a "what the hell, we're not gonna live forever, so let''s take a chance and see if we like it" attitude.

As I said, that never really was a problem with us, just the actual participation part. We had opportunites when we were a young couple and would have acted on them if the situation had continued (too many long stories to go into details here).

Anyway, good luck in your explorations. And have fun

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[princess4u]

We also find, after talking to many people, that age is a big factor. When we're younger, we tend to take roles and labels much more seriously. With age, there seems to be a "what the hell, we're not gonna live forever, so let''s take a chance and see if we like it" attitude.

have to agree with you there bigcpl - roles and labels do get much less important with age - i really don't want to feel like life has passed me by - i want to experience everything that i can - and like you said, if you don't like it, well just move along....

 

[bigcpl4fun]

have to agree with you there bigcpl - roles and labels do get much less important with age - i really don't want to feel like life has passed me by - i want to experience everything that i can - and like you said, if you don't like it, well just move along....

Yup...never let an experience pass you by. As long as you can't get hurt, you should try it. If it doesn't work out, just chalk it up to experience.

It realy doesn't pay to have a long list of regrets at the end. Better to have a long list of

 

[CuriousNude]

have to agree with you there bigcpl - roles and labels do get much less important with age - i really don't want to feel like life has passed me by - i want to experience everything that i can - and like you said, if you don't like it, well just move along....

Well said, If and when I get to old to participate, I do not want to be sitting around and wonder what if.... Life is just to short to have limites. There is a lot in life to explore and I for one would like to explore all I can.

 

[CuriousNude]

Yup...never let an experience pass you by. As long as you can't get hurt, you should try it. If it doesn't work out, just chalk it up to experience.

It realy doesn't pay to have a long list of regrets at the end. Better to have a long list of

Since I have re-define myself my list is growing..... and I love it so far. Experience is the best teacher in Life !

 

[SouthSkyEyes]

Curious ... and Princess too ...

Yea, it's refreshing to find this thread and read the courageous words of others.

For me ... it's women who leave me tasting my lust. Been married now for 25 years. Still in deep love and lust with my mystery-of-a-wife, I'm glad to say.

Certainly within the the privacy of my thoughts I've imagined having threesomes for some time. Yes, going back quite a while, imagining what it would be like to have a free flesh encounter involving my wife and I and another woman. But as I've opened more over the past year to the stirrings in those shadowy realms that I believe are inherent in our primal beings ... I've more than once played out scenarios, imagining a threesome involving my wife and I and another man.

Not saying I'd indulge this imagination in flesh. But over the past I have drafted a few stories of such encounters. And over the past six months or so my wife and I have taken our erotic play a bit further into this realm. In a similar vein to my teases of her ... as wife presents 'Sir O'Gate' (the novelty cock I bought her), dripping with the juices of her sweet-mystery of her pussy, I've playfully licked it and sucked it. It's a strange but surely tantalizing experience, this feeling of letting go and just being so "nasty." And it surely drives me crazy, in a good way, watching my wife lapping away at 'Sarah Get's' cute shaved pussy.

That's the truth, and I'm grateful for this place to share it,

Sky

 

[sybilrose]

Thanks For visiting my thread

I so agree with your point of view... I dislike labels.... they serve only to limit Lifes Experiences.

 

[CuriousNude]

Re: Thanks For visiting my thread

I so agree with your point of view... I dislike labels.... they serve only to limit Lifes Experiences.

.....and life is just to damn short to have limits !

 

[LingerieandLace]

Re: Thanks For visiting my thread

I so agree with your point of view... I dislike labels.... they serve only to limit Lifes Experiences.

Who needs Lables ...... I also consider myself 'sexual'. Surely to be able to love and make love to people of both sexes with equal desire and pleasure is true sexuality.

 

[venus_can]

Well said...
Interesting sentiments

Venus

 

[Flashmor]

Re: Re: Thanks For visiting my thread

.....and life is just to damn short to have limits !

CN
You are so correct about life being short and limits!

Some one one Lit has a sig line about life that is great.....I wish I had copied it....It is something about not arriving at the grave good looking...but sliding in saying "What a ride...!" That is too cool...
I'm going to look around and see who has that and ask permission to send it to you.

 

[CuriousNude]

Re: Re: Re: Thanks For visiting my thread

CN
You are so correct about life being short and limits!

Some one one Lit has a sig line about life that is great.....I wish I had copied it....It is something about not arriving at the grave good looking...but sliding in saying "What a ride...!" That is too cool...
I'm going to look around and see who has that and ask permission to send it to you.

That sounds interesting....

 

[MarkSand]

I am much more than willing. I believe that self-discovery is a life-long process if not obligation, challenging but infinitely rewarding if you're willing to be introspective, open and honest with yourself. You're to be congratulated for your pluck and bravery.