Raped & Tortured

[THEBRAT]

I have no memories of this happening to me I just know that it did happen.

Would it be best if I went under hipnoses to regain these memories or just let them stay buried?

I have self indused amenisha and I'm getting sick & tired of these memories only coming out while I'm asleep.

 

[*Lazer*]

Please check your email.

 

[THEBRAT]

I did check my email Lazer your a sweetheart.

 

[It'sasecret]

Well, I would not do anything without consulting a professional. But it does seem that if you deal with it in "real life" it may help you deal with it in your sleeping state. But, wouldn't hypnosis be similar to dreams? Would that really be effective? And what do you mean my self induced? Do you mean you actively repressed it or sunconciously repressed it? I am not a professional so I don't know if I am giving good advice, but I just wanted to give my opinion.

 

[THEBRAT]

That's what I want are other peoples opions.

 

[Jack Talk Thai]

I would definitely look into what the dreams might mean. If they're recurring dreams I would think it's a repressed memory.

 

[THEBRAT]

Jack I already stated that I've got Self Induced Amnesha damn they almost killed me with a speedball.

 

[White_Tigress_]

I have had some things happen to me in the past. I found the best way to 'deal' with it (you will never 'get over it'), is to talk about whats bothering you.
You say you don't know what happened, and you have Self Induced Amnesha .... You should find a way to stop that. It is eating you up inside, and will until it is let out.
Talk about your dreams to people that you know will listen, go to group therapy classes and listen to others that have similar problems, and you will feel alot more comfortable talking to them yourself.

I can't tell you what to do, only you are responsible for your actions...I'm only giving some advice like you asked. I was able to cope with life after I was able to get it out of my system. Sure it took months, but I feel sooo much better now.

Is what's bothering you effecting your life in general? Are you acting not yourself? Hurting others by doing so? Some questions to think about and if you answered yes, you really do need to do something to stop this.

I wish you the best to resolve it, and find out the sorce.

btw...hipnosis may help only to tell you what your dreams are about..but it will not help you to get that weight off your sholders. Talking is the best medicine (aside from laughter).

 

[THEBRAT]

I know that I'll never forget being raped.But this is the second time for me.

If I could remeber the dreams it just might help I've been living with this for 13 years.

Thank you for your advice & opnion

 

[daisyduke21]

I cant say that I know what youre going through. I cant imagine the hell of having supressed memories like yours, so why did I post this? Im a registered nurse whos going to med school, and my best friend, and fellow nurse, is also a hypnotherapist. She brought out repressed memories of a 40 year old lady who was raped by a family member,and the outcome was not good. So now my friend will no longer do this type of hypnotism unless the victim of sexual abuse has fully come to terms with being victimized, has talked with a therapist or trusted friend it, and can deal with those memories enough to able to go through the grieving process, where they can release all the anger and hurt and start to heal. I know you will not ever get over being victimized like this, but you can reclaim your life from the one responsible of doing this to you. It was truly a sick, power hungry person that did this to you, and now, in my opinion, you should face these memories when you (and only you) feel you are ready. Then take the needed steps to find a reputalble hypnotherapist, this is really important. Know that youre a strong woman whose stregnth far surpasses the hell you went through.