Rape

[NYWings]

okay , I have a question about rape fantasy but I need to set the background first.
Happened many years ago when in college.
Hanging out with group of friends in a bar this girl starts talking to us and being a tease. We brushed her off and assumed she was a new freshman at the college.
Several nights later the same thing , she walks up and butts in to the conversation and starts to tease.
Happens several times and at different places as if this girl is stalking us.
We all just let it slide except one guy who got upset with her. She now really centered on him to tease ... She started to warn her if she didn't stop.
At one point he slapped her ass hard and told her to "Git"

Now at an outdoor concert on campus were drinking and having a good time untill this one shows up and starts in. Were all drunk and smoked up and the one guy turns the tables on this girl. Starts acting nice instead of pushing her away. Well he gets her down to the parking lot and gave her the ultimatum... Stop stalking us and go away or we will have our fun with you. I'm sure she was drinking to but she just wouldn't take him serious. Finally he starts pulling her top up and showing us her tits. She pulled away each time but stood there to let him do it again. Finally the kid looses it with her and grabs her from behind , Holding her his friend helps him strip her clothes off. She is now kicking at them and is pissed off. He tells her she can go streak the entire campus naked and he will be her friend or she can run home and never come back... He refused to give her her clothes back forcing her to run naked around the concert field ... She came back and he finally gave her clothes back.

I've often wondered how this would be looked at ,,, Rape? Other than the boys getting some feels nothing happened. Nobody actually had sex .
I understand as she ran naked a lot of guys grabbed her and had fun with her but nobody had sex with her.... Not that I know of.
I'm sure she could have got free from him before the guys stripped her.
She never said "STOP" .. she said "If you Strip me I'll be pissed..."

So you think she had a rape fantasy... or just wanted to get any attention she could ?

 

[quietwoman187]

okay , I have a question about rape fantasy but I need to set the background first.
Happened many years ago when in college.
Hanging out with group of friends in a bar this girl starts talking to us and being a tease. We brushed her off and assumed she was a new freshman at the college.
Several nights later the same thing , she walks up and butts in to the conversation and starts to tease.
Happens several times and at different places as if this girl is stalking us.
We all just let it slide except one guy who got upset with her. She now really centered on him to tease ... She started to warn her if she didn't stop.
At one point he slapped her ass hard and told her to "Git"

Now at an outdoor concert on campus were drinking and having a good time untill this one shows up and starts in. Were all drunk and smoked up and the one guy turns the tables on this girl. Starts acting nice instead of pushing her away. Well he gets her down to the parking lot and gave her the ultimatum... Stop stalking us and go away or we will have our fun with you. I'm sure she was drinking to but she just wouldn't take him serious. Finally he starts pulling her top up and showing us her tits. She pulled away each time but stood there to let him do it again. Finally the kid looses it with her and grabs her from behind , Holding her his friend helps him strip her clothes off. She is now kicking at them and is pissed off. He tells her she can go streak the entire campus naked and he will be her friend or she can run home and never come back... He refused to give her her clothes back forcing her to run naked around the concert field ... She came back and he finally gave her clothes back.

I've often wondered how this would be looked at ,,, Rape? Other than the boys getting some feels nothing happened. Nobody actually had sex .
I understand as she ran naked a lot of guys grabbed her and had fun with her but nobody had sex with her.... Not that I know of.
I'm sure she could have got free from him before the guys stripped her.
She never said "STOP" .. she said "If you Strip me I'll be pissed..."

So you think she had a rape fantasy... or just wanted to get any attention she could ?

Hmm, I can't really comment on her mental state, but it seems as if she was a little bit out of it and wasn't in full control of her facilities. Was she drunk/high herself? If not, it's also possible despite everything, she still didn't take it quite seriously and was looking for attention. However, if she kicked and struggled when they removed her top, even if she didn't speak, that seems to imply she wasn't into it. I did have a friend who was assaulted coming back from an event with a guy she had met. She was slightly drunk (probably more than slightly) but remembers trying to push him away but not being cognizant enough to actually say no. Sometimes the person just doesn't quite know how to voice the no due to shock or something else - But physical or vocal struggles tend to imply a negative. But, it's different strokes for different folks and I can't fully comment on that woman. Maybe you'll run into her one day and can ask her about it -

 

[dan_wlls]

almost raped

my wife was almost forced off the road very late at night but a car full of guys

 

[YUKIYU]

man that's not rape...