Rape Fantasies

[redAlf]

Are there really women out there that have rape fantasies, or is that just a product of male minds wishing that women would want them to act out their aggressive personalities. Personally I would love for this to be true because there is just something about being the forceful aggressor that appeals to my innate maleness, but is it pure fantasy? and how far is too far?

RedAlf

 

[ilike2ponder]

Are there really women out there that have rape fantasies, or is that just a product of male minds wishing that women would want them to act out their aggressive personalities. Personally I would love for this to be true because there is just something about being the forceful aggressor that appeals to my innate maleness, but is it pure fantasy? and how far is too far?

RedAlf

Although I would say it is pure fantasy, it is not fantasy shared only on the male side. Yes, there are women who do in fact have fantasies of this. Regarding how far is too far....well of course that varies with each and every individual person.

 

[alonelygal]

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[Miss_Shy_Newcastle]

Are there really women out there that have rape fantasies, or is that just a product of male minds wishing that women would want them to act out their aggressive personalities. Personally I would love for this to be true because there is just something about being the forceful aggressor that appeals to my innate maleness, but is it pure fantasy? and how far is too far?

RedAlf

I've always had rape fantasies. I'm yet to meet a guy who has them too!!

 

[alonelygal]

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[Miss_Shy_Newcastle]

Re: Re: Re: Rape Fantasies

I have to say that this is a fantasy that maybe the men you have encountered did not want to share.Rape itself,beyond the fantasy,is a horrible thing to have to endure.Maybe no one wanted to scare you off...

Just a thought...

I'd never thought of it that way. Certainly an interesting point!!

 

[redAlf]

Miss Shy, I'd love to make you my willing (unwilling) victim, but alas you are in the UK and I am in the US, just a little far for a quick romp no matter how tasty you sound.

Alonelygal
You sound very .... yummy .... I'd love to attend this summers fun and meet up with you. When is the fun going to commence. I am new to this site and don't know much about the cummings and goings on here. Know of anything similar happening on the west coast. I live close to seattle area so, the distance, (once again) may be a problem.

 

[cremebrulee]

There was another thread about this a while back ~ a couple months maybe? Anyway, it really went in depth in discussing the whole subject. Maybe someone knows where it is???

Personally, I have had rape fantasies with myself being the agressor, but I would never EVER commit such a hideous crime without it being consented upon. Which would make it not rape now wouldn't it...hmmmmmmm.
Forced sex is more the deal I think. I was once the victim of a real rape, and it was not the least bit pleasurable nor would I want to relive it or cause that anguish to be part of anothers' life.
As far as the fantasy goes, that's another story. It can be so HOT. It's all about trust and consent. Some folks can get kinda confused when you talk about rape and consent in the same sentence.

Well, that's my two cents worth.
Thanks for listening

~Creme

 

[redAlf]

cremebrulee (another "tasty" name)
I don't think there are many things out there that can get me quite as hot as thinking about 1 woman taking another by force. I may just have to creme myself over that one.
I also would never force my attentions on a woman who didn't want it, I guess that's why I started this discussion to see if there were any women out there who would like to play along with my fantasy.

Think there is a girl out there who would like to be "raped" by both a man and a woman? Would you care to join me cremebrulee?

 

[Miss_Shy_Newcastle]

Miss Shy, I'd love to make you my willing (unwilling) victim, but alas you are in the UK and I am in the US, just a little far for a quick romp no matter how tasty you sound.

OK, let me make something much more clear - I am ONLY interested in the cyber sense of rape. I would NEVER do it in real time unless it had been pre-arranged and although being unwilling, I would actually then be willing.

 

[odonna]

red and creme .....you make my heart skip a beat That is a fantasy of mine also. Being forced, yet feeling all the pleasure and trying not to show it.....what an experience!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. I should also point out that true rape is not about sex but power......what is being discussed here is pure sex

 

[redAlf]

miss shy,
I never meant to scare you off. I guess I have a strange sense of humor. I would love to work out a cyber scenario with you though. PM me and we can go from there.

 

[redAlf]

I would like to applaud odonna on her observation of power vs sex, I concur with the sentiment. And your right, this discussion is purely sexual

 

[cremebrulee]

Originally posted by odonna
red and creme .....you make my heart skip a beat That is a fantasy of mine also. Being forced, yet feeling all the pleasure and trying not to show it.....what an experience!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

P.S. I should also point out that true rape is not about sex but power......what is being discussed here is pure sex

Part of me agrees, but part disagrees with the sentiment that true rape is about power. Play rape is about power too, although the "victim" submits to acting it out so the power is GIVEN rather than taken in a sense.
The real deal with rape is that it is a mis-use of power, not about power itself. Power can be used for good or bad.

It's the using it for good/mutual fun that we're talking about if I am not mistaken. There has to be a great trust established with guidelines set. It's still erotic and exciting, no matter how planned that sounds, but you have to be sure you're on the same page or things can go terribly wrong. It's a touchy subject, I'll try to find the other thread about this for y'all.

~Creme

(who just might be stalking you as you read this )

 

[redAlf]

I would like to applaud odonna on her observation of power vs sex, I concur with the sentiment. And your right, this discussion is purely sexual

 

[redAlf]

cremebrulee, you are a woman after my own heart. (might already be stalking you ... lmao) and I can see what you mean by mis-use of power, power in and of itself is not a bad thing, but the intent with which power is used determines whether it is good or bad. Kind of like magic, magic is not inherently evil or good, just the person who is using it. Sorry I don't have a better analogy at this time
I guess in the end it what matters is whether a person enjoys it or not. I for one extremely enjoy the play of power in my hands, and then again at other times I enjoy the power being taken out of my hands (yes even guys fantasize about being raped by women)

 

[alonelygal]

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[cremebrulee]

Originally posted by redAlf
(yes even guys fantasize about being raped by women)

Now that's one I could play with, YUM!

The stalker has now become the stalkee

 

[Slutty GF]

Multiple cock fuck fantasies.....

I have the most wicked gang-bang rape fantasy where I am kidnapped and held captive by some guys and used as their fuck toy...repeatedly...before being sold to a biker gang.......

 

[redAlf]

slutty gf,
sounds like my kind of fun girl, too bad your down under instead of "down under" me.

Cremebrulee,
Play with me me

Alonelygal,
still haven't received info about the literotica gathering

 

[Slutty GF]

Mmmm......RedAlf....I would love to have my fuck fantasies fulfilled by you........even via a kinky e-mail.........

PM me.

 

[redAlf]

Slutty GF,
I'd love to pm you, but your pm box is full and won't allow me to send a message to you

 

[Slutty GF]

I would love your cock in my ass.....

Mmmm....should be empty now......try again?

 

[Machiavellian]

Are there really women out there that have rape fantasies, or is that just a product of male minds wishing that women would want them to act out their aggressive personalities. Personally I would love for this to be true because there is just something about being the forceful aggressor that appeals to my innate maleness, but is it pure fantasy? and how far is too far?

RedAlf

I've had the same thoughts of rape fantasies - but like most - i'd put up a struggle and then get taken regardless... enjoying it all the same. but my dear hubby is too passive to consider it i think.. but we have had some forceful play - just not to that extent... yet.

 

[Machiavellian]

Re: Multiple cock fuck fantasies.....

I have the most wicked gang-bang rape fantasy where I am kidnapped and held captive by some guys and used as their fuck toy...repeatedly...before being sold to a biker gang.......

^You and me both - I've had that one before too!