CutieMouse
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CutieMouse said:Jesusfuckingjosephandmary why the HELL do people have to subject women to rediculous standards in order to lable them "good"? What the fuck is wrong with people?
They think pornography degrades women? What degrades women is filling thier minds to overflowing with notions that good girls sit still, never question, always follow the rules, and ignore their own God given sexuality, thus putting themselves in such a tight lockdown of frigidity that they risk never opening up to the wonderous exploration that is there to be had if one is only willing to reach out and touch it. What degrades women is refusing to see them as sexual beings, period. What degrades women is robbing them of their sexuality and the power they have through that sexuality. What degrades women is holding them up against the light of some Virginal icon and declairing anything less to be dirty, shameful, or wrong *even* if the inquisitor making the judgement call is making a decision based on assumptions, their own issues, and a refusal to hear the facts as presented.
Expect people to behave ethically, maintian integrity, and embrace all parts of someone's soul as long as their behaviour is not dangerous or destructive. Leave the judgement calls about sexuality and "right" or "wrong" out of it. If people do get judged in the end it will be by someone or something greater than those of us here on earth, so just back the fuck off.
Stupid puritanical repressed idiots. Sheesh.
CutieMouse said:Sigh. It's just that my ex has a friend. She's his soulmate. Fine. Whatever- not my drama. LOL As long as their relationship is healthy I'm happy for him.
But last night I got an IM from someone whom I know casually asking questions about my decision to divorce and I realized she knows his soulmate. I explained quite emphatically that his friendhsip with her did NOT break up my marriage. I'm happy they have each other. I decided to divorce him over very very very old and deep hurts that after a lot of therapy still could not heal. She is *NOT* the "other woman".
The poor child is a 26 year old virgin so convinced that anything physical (even a kiss) outside the boundaries of marriage will take her down a sinful path that she hesitated to even develop a platonic friendship with him. They've fallen in love and everyone around them sees it, but she won't even do more than hug the man becasue she's afraid of what "they" will think of her. She's that tied to her virginal reputation. I honestly hurt for her. (and yes a part of me is snickering and thinking he'll get stuck with egalitarian, procreative, missionary position sex for all eternity while I won't.... but only a small part)
I was honest and clear that she has done nothing wrong IMO. She was sent an email today by the person I talked to last night. Apparently she rents a room from this woman and has been given 2 weeks to vacate the premises. The reasoning? She's an adultress and homewrecker. Narrow minded twit. And I can't even explain how very very wrong she is because it would be exposing facts about MY life I don't exactly wanting a narrow minded gossip like that knowing.
It just pisses me off to no end to see someone that repressed and STILL being judged. Grr.
Betticus said:Sounds like someone needs a good thorough spanking. Maybe some bondage too.
CutieMouse said:Ahem. I assumed you meant little miss repressed soulmate needed a good spanking, or maybe the narrow minded twit needed a spanking, but I'd be happy to take either or both spankings for them.You know- in the spirit of solidarity and sisterhood and all that shit. *giggle*
Betticus said:Sounds like someone needs a good thorough spanking. Maybe some bondage too.