Random question about threesomes

[NewJourneyAz]

Ok, so this is a super random question. This weekend the older guy I am seeing, along with his wife and my husband got together to talk about how things were going to make sure everyone was on the same page and the conversation went very well, I am still amazed at how excited my husband and his wife are for us and how supportive they are.

His wife raised the idea of adding another, either another guy or girl, to what we have. I think both of us were caught off guard by that but not entirely shut off to the idea either.

Let’s assume we all agree to pursue this, where would one even go to find a third? Some kind of app? Some kind of local club or something?

 

[FlashTrey]

Well that escalated quickly.

 

[Isinlarsa]

Ok, so this is a super random question. This weekend the older guy I am seeing, along with his wife and my husband got together to talk about how things were going to make sure everyone was on the same page and the conversation went very well, I am still amazed at how excited my husband and his wife are for us and how supportive they are.

His wife raised the idea of adding another, either another guy or girl, to what we have. I think both of us were caught off guard by that but not entirely shut off to the idea either.

Let’s assume we all agree to pursue this, where would one even go to find a third? Some kind of app? Some kind of local club or something?

Are only the older guy and you fucking? Are your spouses are okay with it but not interested participating? Right there you would have your FMF and/or MFM.

We were able to find our third at lifestyle parties or sex clubs.

 

[Rob_Royale]

His wife raised the idea of adding another, either another guy or girl, to what we have.

My spidey-sense says she already has someone(s) in mind.

 

[Isinlarsa]

My spidey-sense says she already has someone(s) in mind.

Or has already done it.

 

[NewJourneyAz]

My spidey-sense says she already has someone(s) in mind.

She does have someone in mind. We haven’t met or anything yet but that may be something that we do in the future

 

[NewJourneyAz]

Are only the older guy and you fucking? Are your spouses are okay with it but not interested participating? Right there you would have your FMF and/or MFM.

We were able to find our third at lifestyle parties or sex clubs.

Both his wife and my husband have similar injuries which is how initially met, through a support group in our area. They have no interest in watching, as of now, and would not be able to participate otherwise

 

[Rob_Royale]

This surprises me that the disabled spouses are okay with this turn. Having the able bodied spouses getting together is one thing. Very understandable and I applaud your spouses for agreeing to it, but to go further into group sex is more than the average married person can expect.

 

[NewJourneyAz]

This surprises me that the disabled spouses are okay with this turn. Having the able bodied spouses getting together is one thing. Very understandable and I applaud your spouses for agreeing to it, but to go further into group sex is more than the average married person can expect.

I don’t disagree, it caught me off guard when she raised it. It hasn’t come up again since so it could have been something to just test the waters in a way

 

[Dragoman69]

Mabe she has been a cuckqueen before accident

 

[NewJourneyAz]

It is possible for sure

 

[Sign54]

Mutual friends??? How does orientation play into this?? I mean, obviously 3 women who are into women don't have that issue(given they are obviously around their preferred sex).

 

[coasttocoast1234]

I've had multiple threesomes. First rule, let the females decide everything. I've only had MFF threesomes, but each time, it was their decision, not mine. If the female is not choosing the partner, male or female, it's not going to work. How does it happen? Organically. My experience is that a woman is not going to just randomly choose someone, she already knows in her mind who she wants. The aftermath can be a little messy. Someone, despite their declaration that they won't, will get jealous. But overall, I wouldn't take back one minute of any of them. It was very different than I expected. In a good, non-sexual way.