Ramblings

[sereneone4u]

It's not about telling yourself that you don't care how others think, it's about loving yourself for who you are. If you don't care how others think, then how could you care if someone was interested. Accept yourself for who you are, and life will change. It did for me. Btw, your profile picture is beautiful. You say you are a large woman, but that's the only modifier you used. I'd personally say you're a beautiful woman.


And, my ramble: I never get birthday threads on Lit. Even when I was super super active here, I got one (because I intentionally went and told one of my friends and they felt bad enough to start it). I don't know why this is. I really don't care about birthdays at all, it's just another day to laugh and spend time with friends. I just find it odd, since i don't talk about how I'm indifferent about birthdays at all on here either

Wonderful advice, Tolyk and so true.

And Happy Birthday

 

[Cipher]

I guess this thread is for when we have an issue we need to discuss but cant with our real life people. A place for advice or musings.









My first one is more a rambling about myself. Im 28 and i feel like i should be married with at least one kid, and basically that im failing at life because im not. Logically i know this isnt true, but when are feelings always logical? Im a BIG girl.. not chubby, just plain fat. Always have been. I try to act like i dont care. I'll say "if they dont like it they dont have to look". But in order to meet someone dont they first have to look at you?
Im not going to lie. Lit is great for meeting guys who like bigger women, or at least guys who SAY they like bigger women, and isnt it just a kick in the ass that they always live so far away.

I was just "rambling" this on another thread with a few other BBW'S how on Lit, there's plenty of lovers of us..but in the RL it's the total opposite.

I am proud of who i am, and what i look like. It wasn't always as such. But i did what i felt i needed to do to make me proud of who i am.
I walk and go boxing daily, i even started wearing a diff style of makeup..little things to make me comfortable with who i am. I'm still BBW i'm a size 22. And i'm a PROUD 22! lol

I'm a 37 yr old career driven woman, with no kids, never been married. & i'm happy. i've never felt like a failure. You shouldn't either. I'm optomistic, i'll meet a good guy. You should be too!