Ramblings on sexuality, sex and marriage/attachment

[IndieGuy69]

I have been on the Lit boards for a few weeks now and have found it liberating.

I should state that I am a married man with a kid. Sex with my wife is infrequent and the same old thing. We have attempted to spice it up here and there, but nowhere near as much as I desire. In my younger years, I was quite fortunate in my sexual experiences. I had a girlfriend who was bisexual and loved sharing me with her best friend. I had a crazy MFFF four day sexfest that still provides me with fodder for masturbation. I had one threesome with a gal and a guy where there was a little oral. It was amazing.

And now, I find myself missing those days--immensely. This like many of you, I find myself here, reading stories and conversing with the like minded.

I came across biseattlegirl's post below, and it really resonated:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1166059

This lady loves sex. We all do. That is why we are here, n'est ce pas? We get ourselves off by reading stories, perhaps chatting with others and sometimes meeting in the real world.

But there are those of us who for whatever reason (myself included) must stay within our current relationships, even when such is not fulfilling in some respects. We look forward to our times with other Lit folks when we can chat, masturbate together and fulfill our desires.

I have chatted with men and women who are in similar situations. They are as dirty minded as I am, and Lit (and resultant Kik/Skype sessions) are where we can get off. We talk about what we are going to do to each others bodies. We stroke ourselves and rub ourselves until we orgasm. We love it.

I cannot say what the future holds, but I for one, am happy I found this place for my kinks, for the gals and guys I have orgasmed with.

Y'all are a great group of people. Whatever your kink, whatever your home situation, enjoy your time with your fellow lovers of sex. Our kinks may not always align; our enthusiasm may not always be in accord; our sexual preferences may be different, but we all love this place.

Happy hunting for whatever you desire. For the folks I have masturbated with, let's keep doing it!

 

[lovetoread]

I have been on the Lit boards for a few weeks now and have found it liberating.

I should state that I am a married man with a kid. Sex with my wife is infrequent and the same old thing. We have attempted to spice it up here and there, but nowhere near as much as I desire. In my younger years, I was quite fortunate in my sexual experiences. I had a girlfriend who was bisexual and loved sharing me with her best friend. I had a crazy MFFF four day sexfest that still provides me with fodder for masturbation. I had one threesome with a gal and a guy where there was a little oral. It was amazing.

And now, I find myself missing those days--immensely. This like many of you, I find myself here, reading stories and conversing with the like minded.

I came across biseattlegirl's post below, and it really resonated:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1166059

This lady loves sex. We all do. That is why we are here, n'est ce pas? We get ourselves off by reading stories, perhaps chatting with others and sometimes meeting in the real world.

But there are those of us who for whatever reason (myself included) must stay within our current relationships, even when such is not fulfilling in some respects. We look forward to our times with other Lit folks when we can chat, masturbate together and fulfill our desires.

I have chatted with men and women who are in similar situations. They are as dirty minded as I am, and Lit (and resultant Kik/Skype sessions) are where we can get off. We talk about what we are going to do to each others bodies. We stroke ourselves and rub ourselves until we orgasm. We love it.

I cannot say what the future holds, but I for one, am happy I found this place for my kinks, for the gals and guys I have orgasmed with.

Y'all are a great group of people. Whatever your kink, whatever your home situation, enjoy your time with your fellow lovers of sex. Our kinks may not always align; our enthusiasm may not always be in accord; our sexual preferences may be different, but we all love this place.

Happy hunting for whatever you desire. For the folks I have masturbated with, let's keep doing it!

Ah so another married person making excuses to cheat on their spouse.

 

[JohnnySavage]

I have been on the Lit boards for a few weeks now and have found it liberating.

I should state that I am a married man with a kid. Sex with my wife is infrequent and the same old thing. We have attempted to spice it up here and there, but nowhere near as much as I desire. In my younger years, I was quite fortunate in my sexual experiences. I had a girlfriend who was bisexual and loved sharing me with her best friend. I had a crazy MFFF four day sexfest that still provides me with fodder for masturbation. I had one threesome with a gal and a guy where there was a little oral. It was amazing.

And now, I find myself missing those days--immensely. This like many of you, I find myself here, reading stories and conversing with the like minded.

I came across biseattlegirl's post below, and it really resonated:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1166059

This lady loves sex. We all do. That is why we are here, n'est ce pas? We get ourselves off by reading stories, perhaps chatting with others and sometimes meeting in the real world.

But there are those of us who for whatever reason (myself included) must stay within our current relationships, even when such is not fulfilling in some respects. We look forward to our times with other Lit folks when we can chat, masturbate together and fulfill our desires.

I have chatted with men and women who are in similar situations. They are as dirty minded as I am, and Lit (and resultant Kik/Skype sessions) are where we can get off. We talk about what we are going to do to each others bodies. We stroke ourselves and rub ourselves until we orgasm. We love it.

I cannot say what the future holds, but I for one, am happy I found this place for my kinks, for the gals and guys I have orgasmed with.

Y'all are a great group of people. Whatever your kink, whatever your home situation, enjoy your time with your fellow lovers of sex. Our kinks may not always align; our enthusiasm may not always be in accord; our sexual preferences may be different, but we all love this place.

Happy hunting for whatever you desire. For the folks I have masturbated with, let's keep doing it!

Instead of cheating on your wife, why not get a divorce so you can let your freak flag fly? You sound like a whiner to me.

 

[ElijaRDC]

I have been on the Lit boards for a few weeks now and have found it liberating.

I should state that I am a married man with a kid. Sex with my wife is infrequent and the same old thing. We have attempted to spice it up here and there, but nowhere near as much as I desire. In my younger years, I was quite fortunate in my sexual experiences. I had a girlfriend who was bisexual and loved sharing me with her best friend. I had a crazy MFFF four day sexfest that still provides me with fodder for masturbation. I had one threesome with a gal and a guy where there was a little oral. It was amazing.

And now, I find myself missing those days--immensely. This like many of you, I find myself here, reading stories and conversing with the like minded.

I came across biseattlegirl's post below, and it really resonated:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1166059

This lady loves sex. We all do. That is why we are here, n'est ce pas? We get ourselves off by reading stories, perhaps chatting with others and sometimes meeting in the real world.

But there are those of us who for whatever reason (myself included) must stay within our current relationships, even when such is not fulfilling in some respects. We look forward to our times with other Lit folks when we can chat, masturbate together and fulfill our desires.

I have chatted with men and women who are in similar situations. They are as dirty minded as I am, and Lit (and resultant Kik/Skype sessions) are where we can get off. We talk about what we are going to do to each others bodies. We stroke ourselves and rub ourselves until we orgasm. We love it.

I cannot say what the future holds, but I for one, am happy I found this place for my kinks, for the gals and guys I have orgasmed with.

Y'all are a great group of people. Whatever your kink, whatever your home situation, enjoy your time with your fellow lovers of sex. Our kinks may not always align; our enthusiasm may not always be in accord; our sexual preferences may be different, but we all love this place.

Happy hunting for whatever you desire. For the folks I have masturbated with, let's keep doing it!

Oh Lord, what a cop-out.

 

[Bookishleigh]

Yeah....you picked the wrong crowd to play the "have to stay in the marriage" card with. If being unfaithful (even emotionally) is your fetish, might as well just say it - I think people would have more respect for that then the old "well, I HAVE to stay married" game.

 

[Conager]

Just from the thread title, I knew this was not going to go over in the GB.

 

[Bookishleigh]

Just from the thread title, I knew this was not going to go over in the GB.

Hey! I was nice(ish).

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Yeah....you picked the wrong crowd to play the "have to stay in the marriage" card with. If being unfaithful (even emotionally) is your fetish, might as well just say it - I think people would have more respect for that then the old "well, I HAVE to stay married" game.

N'est ce pas?

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[lovetoread]

I felt no need to be nice.

Why do people think that just because this board is on a porn site we have no feelings of right and wrong?

I would have been fine with him saying that he was here to cheat on his wife cause he is an asshole, than to play that poor lil ole me dont get the sex I deserve fucking card.

 

[JohnnySavage]

Someone who breaks their commitment to another person is the worst kind of scum. Except for the kind of scum that comes to a message board looking for validation.

 

[Bookishleigh]

N'est ce pas?

You just KNOW I love your .gifs!!!!!!!

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[ElijaRDC]

N'est ce pas?

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You win the GB today.

 

[BotanyBoy]

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[Bookishleigh]

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Cheer up...there's always tomorrow.

 

[suckonsimon]

'The same old thing'. If that's how you see it, no surprise it's infrequent. Where's your esteem for her? Go find it before it's too late.

 

[ElijaRDC]

Yeah....you picked the wrong crowd to play the "have to stay in the marriage" card with. If being unfaithful (even emotionally) is your fetish, might as well just say it - I think people would have more respect for that then the old "well, I HAVE to stay married" game.

'The same old thing'. If that's how you see it, no surprise it's infrequent. Where's your esteem for her? Go find it before it's too late.

These thoughtful, helpful responses are unsettling.

 

[Bookishleigh]

These thoughtful, helpful responses are unsettling.

It was not my intent to be helpful/thoughtful in the least bit. I was simply saying that people would probably respect (and I use that term loosely) him more if he was just honest and said, yeah, I cheat or , yeah, I have a fetish for cheating than using the "woe is me, I'm not getting it enough at home" or "I have to stay in my marriage."

As someone who just left their marriage and is now divorced, believe me, I don't buy what he's selling in the least bit. Divorce is messy and awful but it's better than constantly screwing around on your spouse.

 

[ElijaRDC]

It was not my intent to be helpful/thoughtful in the least bit. I was simply saying that people would probably respect (and I use that term loosely) him more if he was just honest and said, yeah, I cheat or , yeah, I have a fetish for cheating than using the "woe is me, I'm not getting it enough at home" or "I have to stay in my marriage."

As someone who just left their marriage and is now divorced, believe me, I don't buy what he's selling in the least bit. Divorce is messy and awful but it's better than constantly screwing around on your spouse.

I just meant in the context of the GB. The GB I know and love doesn't do anything even close to resembling thoughtful or helpful. And despite your protestation, what you said was useful.

 

[BotanyBoy]

Cheer up...there's always tomorrow.

Will the whole too chicken shit to own up to ones behavior going to be less lame then??

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[Bookishleigh]

I just meant in the context of the GB. The GB I know and love doesn't do anything even close to resembling thoughtful or helpful. And despite your protestation, what you said was useful.

Lol - so noted! Next time I will just kick him in the shins and put Nair in his shampoo (assuming he's not already bald).

 

[Bookishleigh]

Will the whole too chicken shit to own up to ones behavior going to be less lame then??

I assumed your meme was in response to not winning the GB for the day (as opposed to IrezumiKiss). I suggest you read my other responses. I am not condoning his post.

In fact, I feel like now I need to stand up and yell I AM NOT MARRIED! I AM NOT A CHEATER! I DON'T CONDONE CHEATING! BACK THE FUCK OFF!

 

[jezzilee]

I assumed your meme was in response to not winning the GB for the day (as opposed to IrezumiKiss). I suggest you read my other responses. I am not condoning his post.

In fact, I feel like now I need to stand up and yell I AM NOT MARRIED! I AM NOT A CHEATER! I DON'T CONDONE CHEATING! BACK THE FUCK OFF!

Come on Fermina!! You can tell us how you really feel~

 

[DesEsseintes]

I have been on the Lit boards for a few weeks now and have found it liberating.

I should state that I am a married man with a kid. Sex with my wife is infrequent and the same old thing. We have attempted to spice it up here and there, but nowhere near as much as I desire. In my younger years, I was quite fortunate in my sexual experiences. I had a girlfriend who was bisexual and loved sharing me with her best friend. I had a crazy MFFF four day sexfest that still provides me with fodder for masturbation. I had one threesome with a gal and a guy where there was a little oral. It was amazing.

And now, I find myself missing those days--immensely. This like many of you, I find myself here, reading stories and conversing with the like minded.

I came across biseattlegirl's post below, and it really resonated:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1166059

This lady loves sex. We all do. That is why we are here, n'est ce pas? We get ourselves off by reading stories, perhaps chatting with others and sometimes meeting in the real world.

But there are those of us who for whatever reason (myself included) must stay within our current relationships, even when such is not fulfilling in some respects. We look forward to our times with other Lit folks when we can chat, masturbate together and fulfill our desires.

I have chatted with men and women who are in similar situations. They are as dirty minded as I am, and Lit (and resultant Kik/Skype sessions) are where we can get off. We talk about what we are going to do to each others bodies. We stroke ourselves and rub ourselves until we orgasm. We love it.

I cannot say what the future holds, but I for one, am happy I found this place for my kinks, for the gals and guys I have orgasmed with.

Y'all are a great group of people. Whatever your kink, whatever your home situation, enjoy your time with your fellow lovers of sex. Our kinks may not always align; our enthusiasm may not always be in accord; our sexual preferences may be different, but we all love this place.

Happy hunting for whatever you desire. For the folks I have masturbated with, let's keep doing it!

You forgot the attachment.

 

[Bookishleigh]

Come on Fermina!! You can tell us how you really feel~

Lol - what? No! I don't have anger issues! I mean it has NOTHING to do with the fact that since my divorce every man I have attracted has been married...

I mean, come on! Facebook gives you away EVERY TIME!!!

 

[BotanyBoy]

I assumed your meme was in response to not winning the GB for the day (as opposed to IrezumiKiss). I suggest you read my other responses. I am not condoning his post.

In fact, I feel like now I need to stand up and yell I AM NOT MARRIED! I AM NOT A CHEATER! I DON'T CONDONE CHEATING! BACK THE FUCK OFF!

Oh well that totally make sense....

Sorry guess I should have been more specific....I can see how you came to the conclusion you did.
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