Quirky turn-on/turn-offs

Phirefly

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I have this strange turn-off, and I have no clue what triggers it. But once in a great while, when a man has his mouth on my nipples, all of a sudden the slurping sound of it really starts to irritate me. And once I notice it, I can't focus on anything else but the sound, even if there's not really a slurp. And then I lose all interest in play. Isn't that weird? Most of the time I don't even notice the sound, but when I do.. blegh!

What quirky/strange/fun turn-ons or turn-offs do you have?
 
I have a hard time being in the mood when I am having vanilla sex but that might not quite be what you were reffering to.
 
No, that's perfectly fine! Vanilla sex is definitely a quirky turn-off! ;) But boy, I think a lot of us probably have that feeling sometimes!
 
Phirefly said:
No, that's perfectly fine! Vanilla sex is definitely a quirky turn-off! ;) But boy, I think a lot of us probably have that feeling sometimes!

I just cant quite figure it out but if my partner isn't dominating me I don't want the sex.
 
I am they EXACT same way, Rick.


my biggest one is when my ears or neck are being kisses; I hate the slimy residue left over from (their) saliva. *shudders*

I don't know why i hate being overly wet. Does that make any sense?
 
Turn-offs- people who ask me if they can ask me something

Turn-ons- depends on the day. Today it was just being ball deep in a tight ass. Not fucking just deep.
 
Turn-offs: hairy males <shivers>, rudeness and liars.
Turn-ons: strong arms, a good speaking voice (especially if he can sing too), and sincerity .. always.
 
SweetGigi said:
I am they EXACT same way, Rick.


my biggest one is when my ears or neck are being kisses; I hate the slimy residue left over from (their) saliva. *shudders*

I don't know why i hate being overly wet. Does that make any sense?

yeah i get ya... you wanna have sex with a man not some slobbering beast lol
 
If I watch someone eating and their plate is piled high with food, and all the food touches other bits of food on the plate, which is then smothered in sauce, it makes me feel ill.

I can't later get my head into a place to find them erotic or sexy, that plate of food just keeps flashing in my head.

Makes me feel ill.

I have the same reaction to seeing trifles in bowls or other desserts where the food is all messed up!

I know it isn't exactly sexual but it is really is a big turn off.

I have a friend who finds it hilarious that I don't like foods touching other foods on a plate :rolleyes:
 
One of my major turnoffs is when the guy starts calling me any type of "endearing terms" like "honey," "sweetie," "cutie," etc. in a sickly sweet voice. Or any type of voice at all. I don't like being called those things at all.

Another big one is the guy imitating Cartman. That is real bad. It has happened. :rolleyes:
 
sister76 said:
One of my major turnoffs is when the guy starts calling me any type of "endearing terms" like "honey," "sweetie," "cutie," etc. in a sickly sweet voice. Or any type of voice at all. I don't like being called those things at all.

Another big one is the guy imitating Cartman. That is real bad. It has happened. :rolleyes:

OMG Did you slap the cartman guy??

I would have lol

(in a submissive, caring way of course)

Oh another turn off, a man who has a name for his cock!
 
Another turnoff for me is excessive foreplay. I'm thinking "Fuck me already!" and I have had to say that before. Not every girl likes extended foreplay. For me the real foreplay is the mental stuff that precedes any actual interaction. Maybe my mind is more like a man than most girls in that aspect.

To all the guys: I am probably not your normal girl. From what I hear, most girls like a lot of foreplay, but keep in mind that there are some that don't at all. My 2 cents.
 
shy slave said:
OMG Did you slap the cartman guy??

I would have lol

(in a submissive, caring way of course)

Oh another turn off, a man who has a name for his cock!

It was pretty hard not to, but his cock was so good I couldn't really risk the chance of complaining. ;)

Basically, I just had to withstand it. It was one of those relationships where neither of us could really stand each other for too long on a social basis, but the sex was probably the best I ever had so I had to just aim to get in the sack with him as often as possible.
 
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sister76 said:
It was pretty hard not to, but his cock was so good I couldn't really risk the chance of complaining. ;)

Now THAT I understand :D

Sometimes the man attached to a great cock is worth putting up with, even if only for a brief time lol
 
shy slave said:
Now THAT I understand :D

Sometimes the man attached to a great cock is worth putting up with, even if only for a brief time lol

It definitely was. A real good 3 months it was. No real strings attached sexual fulfillment. Very nice. ;)
 
sister76 said:
It definitely was. A real good 3 months it was. No real strings attached sexual fulfillment. Very nice. ;)

Now I have visions of having sex with a man who does Cartman impressions at the point of orgasm

I don't know whether to laugh or vomit lol
 
shy slave said:
Now I have visions of having sex with a man who does Cartman impressions at the point of orgasm

I don't know whether to laugh or vomit lol

He didn't do that during sex, luckily.
 
Turn Off: Uptight, narrow minded, unforgiving folks... here on this site and in real life!

Turn On: Relaxed, open minded, fun loving folks... anywhere!
 
shy slave said:
OMG Did you slap the cartman guy??

I would have lol

(in a submissive, caring way of course)

Oh another turn off, a man who has a name for his cock!

I'm going to rename my cock to cartman. :D
 
*giggles*

Also, Gigi, I totally understand the neck kisses thing. If I am not already really turned on, sometimes the slobber there just grosses me out
 
sister76 said:
... No real strings attached sexual fulfillment. Very nice. ;)

Is it bad that I have a couple of these? Of course I need a couple since I don't get to see either of them regularly...I hate it when people move lol.
 
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