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Ohh duplicity ......... pays not to be on the phone mid post : chuckles :
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: chuckles :HornyBabe1965 said:Wow I understand perfectly now.
In certain circles it's referred to as the Incident of 84.
Mr Fung requested I didn't out him.
Quite frankly today.......
I am
not
feeling
that
generous
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CutieMouse said:Why does that give me this insatiable urge to snuggle up to you and go
"Awwwwww wook at the cute widdle belly button!"
*tickle tickle tickle!*
(Seriously, I'd never do that, because A) I understand the quirky touch here and die things and B) I'd so hate the beating afterwards, but it was funny... right? Smile with me! I made a funny! See?
My husband's insanely ticklish on the toes.
I know it's not fair, but I have a serious impulse so often to just lean over and...you know...tickle him.
I don't do it because of reprisals and because I actually love the guy.
But it occurs to me a LOT.
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: envy :Recidiva said:
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@}-}rebecca---- said:
It has its benefits. I can't tickle him, but if I wake up with a nightmare he can tell me he'll kick whatever's ass and I believe him.
But really, don't wake him up too fast. Seriously. He's gotten better at this, but he sleeps so deeply but has such fast reflexes to kill in a millisecond that the best way to do it used to be to poke him and run. Poke feet. Because they're the furthest away from the head and it takes him longer to get to you.
The foot issue becomes problematic.
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: waves to Ulaven :
M'kay so you don't go there but you know he could.
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Meets my definition of hawt Miss Reci even more so with compliance thrown in. A sort of 'walk the line' scenario.
: scusey but still envy :
Recidiva said:
M'kay so you don't go there but you know he could.
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Meets my definition of hawt Miss Reci even more so with compliance thrown in. A sort of 'walk the line' scenario.
: scusey but still envy :
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@}-}rebecca---- said:
We have a bit of a "mutually assured destruction" scenario. He could snap my neck in a few milliseconds, I could rip his heart out in about the same amount of time.
Fortunately over time we've discovered we really like each other and there's no need for all the anxiety over those facts. They're still fun to know, though.
The truth is that despite me asking him to PLEASE just snap my neck if he ever decided to leave me as a gesture of mercy, I really don't want to be overdramatic or have him face a murder rap. He's admitted if I would really be happy without him, he'd wish me well. We're so bloody polite.
(if I weren't me I would envy me. but that's 'cause I'm goofy smoosh in love and have been for years)
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I can't add to this Miss Reci, I can assure you though that I am smilingRecidiva said:
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Malin is extremely ticklish, as am I.. but as Master recently found out and to both their frustrations.. I can turn mine off. Malin and I have a "safe"word because I cant resist tickling him.. but.. if he adds "please" to his stop.. I stop. Sometimes, his stubborn side takes over and he refuses to say please and tries to use brute force to make me stop... *evil grin*
ohhh and another word for the wise.. Never say to Malin, "You might push me, but you wont push me far"
ohhh and another word for the wise.. Never say to Malin, "You might push me, but you wont push me far"
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EmpressFi said:
I had elder siblings that did lots of tormenting behaviors when I was a kid.
I learned how to turn off my reactions to being tickled, to being hurt. I can still do it. I don't really like going there, but I will if I feel threatened enough. I become completely ethereal, understanding, unreachable, and no fun whatsoever. I also get migraines, so there's no possible way to cause me more pain than my own body does on a regular basis. Sorry.
No external force will ever be physically badass-er. Emotionally though, there's a trick.
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/hugs
maybe that's what did it..having 4 big brothers.. the youngest of which was 12 when I came along and thought it was his given right to torture me.. I dont feel any emotional turmoil when I do it though.. I just think, that doesnt tickle.. at least until I'm diistratcted again..
maybe that's what did it..having 4 big brothers.. the youngest of which was 12 when I came along and thought it was his given right to torture me.. I dont feel any emotional turmoil when I do it though.. I just think, that doesnt tickle.. at least until I'm diistratcted again..
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EmpressFi said:
For me it hurts like hell, but I just possess a demeanor of cold boredom. And the boredom and contempt overwhelm the pain and become my main experience, lessening all my emotional investment in any pain.
It worked when I was a kid. I remember my sister trying to give me a really nasty Indian burn and I just looked at her as if she were a bug. All physical input gets translated back into rather bored contempt.
She said "you're no fun any more" and left me alone after that.
Of course, that stuff works on simple minded kids. Adults, it's harder, but used sparingly it's at least a way to draw a line in the sand and say "Here it's okay, I'm with you" and "Um. No. Back away from the Reci slowly."
I do know if someone actually cares about me, it's impossible to misinterpret that signal.
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I always think it's the best basis for an ongoing relationship to be together because you both want to be, knowing that you would wish each other well if you parted but in the mean time staying together because you love each other, not out of some sense of duty.Recidiva said:
But then, maybe I'm biased because I'm in a long-term loving relationship that works in a similar way.
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FungiUg said:
It actually took us a bit to admit we didn't want to kill each other in a fit of passion.
"Honey, you don't really have to kill me."
"Well, I wouldn't have anyway."
"Awwww."
I think it's great to have that passion. I think it's even greater to not be a victim of it, and to use it for positive means and not be used by it.
It was tough because I didn't want to say "Honey, you don't really have to kil me" and have him say instead "SO...you mean you don't love me any more?"
I'm glad he's cool about such things.
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: reaching for the chocolate voodoo doll :FungiUg said:
